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A question for married people, what is best before or after having a kids?

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Jumpy-Improvement598 Apr 3, 2026 +10
Before kids you're partners after kids you're a team
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ThePromptCollective Apr 3, 2026 +1
Love it. So true.
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Low-Departure4434 Apr 3, 2026 +9
It comes and goes, some days are amazing. Others you just show up for duty.
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ThePromptCollective Apr 3, 2026 +2
Very true! Some days are so hard. But they grow so fast. Watching them discover things for the first time is the most amazing thing in the world.
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Hopeful_Yogurt_3277 Apr 3, 2026 +2
not married but watching my coworkers with kids it def seems like this 😅 like one day theyre showing me cute videos and the next day they look like they havent slept in weeks 💀
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Unlikely-Culture8166 Apr 3, 2026 +7
Traveling before
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ThePromptCollective Apr 3, 2026 +1
Yes! Lol! Travelling is like planning a military operation!
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Capable-Owl7369 Apr 3, 2026 +6
not having any at all.
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ThePromptCollective Apr 3, 2026 +4
OMG! Before having kids: having alone time where no one needs you for anything, doing absolutely nothing and not feeling guilty about it, and leaving the house without planning it like a military operation! After kids: realising how much you love them … nothing really compares to that. It makes everything so worth it!
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pink_dot34 Apr 3, 2026 +3
Not having any. My niece and nephew come over often so do my husband’s family members come over with their kids and our favorite time is when they all leave especially the kids, despite loving them so much. Having kids is exhausting.
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joschi8 Apr 3, 2026 +6
As a married person I can tell you, the best thing before having kids is having no f****** kids
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Aggressive_Cup8452 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Both. But you have to want both.  You have to want to be married.  And you have to want to have kids. 
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Sylogz Apr 3, 2026 +1
We are 3 that need to get along and agree on things. It is always more work then if you are 2.
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Evening_Ticket7638 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Best before: Less obligations and more money Best after: Your heart is always full.
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Amazing-Layer-3589 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Before having children: you are lovers and spouses,with each other as your priority. After having children: you are partners and parents,with your child as your priority. Before kids,you enjoy life;after kids,you take on the responsibilities of life.
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No_Inflation1450 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Before there's just 2.
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VelvetFallacy Apr 3, 2026 +1
Both are good with the right person and both are bad with the wrong person.
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Dr_LilithSternin Apr 3, 2026 +1
Before getting comfortable 😂 I miss when my husband was excited to just talk to me or go out with me . Once he got comfortable . I had to beg for it
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ladybugseattle Apr 3, 2026 +1
If its divorce we're talking about, its before. Don't want them to imprint and attach.
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