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Personals Apr 13, 2026 at 7:18 AM

Can you get the spark back in a long term relationship?

Posted by Pure-Tooth-137


Currently in a long term (6 years) relationship where there is zero intimacy. Not even holding hands, cuddling etc. Is this something you can get back after it’s gone? Or is it gone forever….

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Ecstatic_Jackfruit35 5 hr ago +1
Start small, just ask to hold hands whenever possible, initiate it where it feels like the norm again. It’s consistent hard work
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badshoulderangel 5 hr ago +1
you can definitely get it back if it once existed before.
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GretchenWeiner2022 5 hr ago +1
Absolutely. But you have to start dating each other again and be truly committed to EMOTIONAL INTIMACY first. Talk to your partner about it. It cannot be a one person job. You need to both want it.
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