My wife had a miscarriage in our early 20s, and the doctor gave us shit for it like it was purposeful. He treated her poorly for it, when it was not on purpose at all and we didn't even know she was pregnant (it was like 4-6 weeks). She was heart broken over it for years after (he told her she killed it and etc etc). It was the most sickening thing. Real pieces of shit who abuse women in this way, whether accidental or purposeful. Its not anyone else's f****** choice but the woman. Since when is the doctor and the government supposed to be involved in your personal life?
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AchelomaMar 20, 2026
+582
Im so sorry that that happened to your wife and you. How awful to learn she was pregant because of the miscarriage and then be treated like the miscarriage was a moral failing. Absolutely sickening of the doctor to do that to her.
Also, its fairly modern for people to be so up in arms about abortions anyway. Any medical historian can tell you about abortions in the past and every civilization I've looked into at all for fun has had herbs/procedures designed to induce miscarriages.
Hell, the christian bible even has a passage about priests forcing women who may have committed adultury to drink a substance designed to cause a loss of pregnancy. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Numbers%205%3A11-31&version=NIV
Which is ofc very screwed up in its own way, but shows that there wasnt much taboo in removing a fetus and that a fetus was considered a part of the mother, not its own entity.
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worstpartyeverMar 20, 2026
+244
I always say that abortion is in the bible, but as a recipe, not a rebuke.
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Punman_5Mar 20, 2026
+89
People forget that infanticide used to be a common practice. Abortion access helped end that.
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GreaterAttackMar 20, 2026
+20
It doesn't necessarily show us that "a fetus was considered a part of the mother, not its own entity".
It shows that abortions were understood, practised, and even accepted. It tells us nothing about whether those people saw fetuses as part of the mother, per se.
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worstpartyeverMar 20, 2026
+95
Holy shit I hope you reported that a****** to the medical board. I’d be in the phone from the f****** hospital.
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divDevGuyMar 20, 2026
+68
"We investigated nothing and found the complaint without merit. We however referred the complainant to state prosecutors for capital murder charges, releasing her complete personal and medical history to the public unnecessarily just for the lulz."
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Jolly-Woodpecker-359Mar 20, 2026
+75
Did you tell that Doctor he was a c***?
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johnis12Mar 20, 2026
+6
Yeh, I'm hoping he told that doc off but will understand that they're being a bigger person.
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laplongejrMar 20, 2026
+115
> Since when is the doctor and the government supposed to be involved in your personal life?
Since people don't accept "she is a woman" as a reason to be automatically inferior.
Discriminatory people need people to discrimine against. Anybody but them.
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HobotronacusMar 20, 2026
+112
Name and shame this doctor.
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RolliFingersMar 20, 2026
+58
I would have physically corrected that doctors attitude.
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FlyinBMar 20, 2026
+11
Ever since Christianity got into politics. The two should never mix.
Sorry for your bad experience.
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OlealicatMar 20, 2026
+6
I’m so sorry you both went through that.
I had a co-worker who was actively trying to conceive. She randomly started bleeding during the workday. Our b**** of a manager told her she could take the day off, because she was out of PTO.
I’ve rarely despised someone that deeply.
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D74248Mar 20, 2026
+10
Was it a Catholic hospital? They can be problematical for women with pregnancy complications.
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BongoTheMonkeyMar 20, 2026
+8
Sometimes, just sometimes violence is ok.
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JohnMayerCdMar 20, 2026
+3
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SubstantialPressure3Mar 20, 2026
+1688
There was a man in Texas that drugged his wife with an abortion pill to induce miscarriage, and he didn't get charged with murder.
Jon Rueben Gabriel Demeter of Spring, Texas, was arrested on Feb. 23 and charged with Aggravated Assault with a Deadly Weapon Causing Serious Bodily Injury-Family Violence. He is being held in the Montgomery County Jail with no bond.
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sillykathleenMar 20, 2026
+1468
It’s only when women make decisions over their own bodies that it becomes as serious as murder.
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0ftheriverMar 20, 2026
+195
[This article](https://www.khou.com/article/news/local/abortion-drug-pill-baby-montgomery-baby/285-4196174f-d989-448a-a2e5-8a170cd8d095) from less than a month ago says they're looking for enough evidence to charge him for capital murder, and the current charges are the easiest to prove.
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Otherwise_Chemist920Mar 20, 2026
+228
A man in Texas shot his adult daughter dead after an argument about trump, he wasn’t even charged with anything. Some sites say he wasn’t even arrested.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cwyk917xy8no
Women are treated as 2nd class in the US.
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plantsadnshitMar 20, 2026
+33
Islamists 🤝 MAGA
Wanting women to be property
And honestly a lot of other views..
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CarbonatiteMar 20, 2026
+10
The only difference between Evangelicals and the Taliban is melanin.
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NottenMar 20, 2026
+7
It's more a Bible belt thing in the states if I'm being honest. It's more of a religion problem imo.
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NadlesKVsMar 20, 2026
+13
Pending/ original arresting charges are meaningless. Majority of time it's going to change by the time they are actually convicted in, "Murder" cases.
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SaulTNNutzMar 20, 2026
+26
Didn't one of Trump's cronies (can't remember his name but he was always on CNN) put an abortion pill in his mistresses smoothie or something?
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SubstantialPressure3Mar 20, 2026
+18
I looked and found 3 men in Texas facing charges for that. Idk if the trump crony is one of them.Mason Herring is charged with doing it 7 times.
https://www.newsweek.com/former-trump-aide-administered-abortion-pill-1134501
That must be the one you mean
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SaulTNNutzMar 20, 2026
+8
Yep. Jason Miller. Thats him
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galaxiidsMar 20, 2026
+2258
“She told medical workers that she had taken misoprostol”
Just a reminder that if you don’t tell doctors you’ve taken misoprostol, they can’t distinguish an abortion from a miscarriage. I’m not saying whether she was right to take it so far along in her pregnancy (it’s only FDA-approved for 10 weeks), and women have been prosecuted just for miscarriage, but if she hadn’t told the hospital, there might have been a different outcome.
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aminerviaMar 20, 2026
+881
She may have been afraid that she was dying and felt giving doctors the full story was the best way for them to help her. She had no way of knowing whether or not they needed all the information in order to help.
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CharlotteLucasOPMar 20, 2026
+848
It’s so awful. I live in Canada and work in healthcare and my go-to advice is always “be honest with doctors about whatever you took, even if it’s not legal, so they can give you the appropriate care, they’re not the police, they want to help you,” but apparently that sentiment doesn’t apply to America.
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KlathmonMar 20, 2026
+271
Yeah it really doesn't apply in America.
I once told a doctor that I smoked weed, and she put in my chart that I had drug seeking behaviors. That led to my ADHD medication being withheld from me because it's a controlled substance, and took literally years and moving out of state before I was able to get it back.
But lesson learned, I treat every doctor visit like I'm in court now. Just answer yes and no, don't elaborate, and never tell them you did anything which they could misunderstand as illegal.
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witchofpainMar 20, 2026
+140
I’m a nurse. And yes, doctors will absolutely judge you. I’ve argued with more than one that they are inappropriately treating addicts. Things have gotten MUCH worse since the Sacklers caused the opiate crisis. Doctors realized they got fooled by them and unwittingly helped. As a result getting med now if they know you were and addict is extremely difficult.
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ninjastarkidMar 20, 2026
+55
It’s hard to get meds even if they don’t think your an addict
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EmptyAirEmptyHeadMar 20, 2026
+14
My wife gets drug tested at least annually to stay on her ADHD meds. I believe the concern is that she is selling them instead of using them herself. This is why medical care in the US costs too much money. I get the Dr's legal concerns, but let the cops catch the drug dealers. This is just adding time and cost to needed medical care.
Edit: also she's in her 40's, with a master's degree, stable marriage and household, worst legal incident in her life is a speeding ticket.
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witchofpainMar 20, 2026
+9
Yeah. It’s out of control. We shouldn’t be drug testing for people to get meds they need. But honestly, I am completely against drug testing in general. Weed can pop for 30 days. That does not prove you are impaired. Other drugs can take a week to clear. Again, doesn’t mean you are impaired. And they are pretty easy to fake. So many issues with it.
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EmptyAirEmptyHeadMar 20, 2026
+8
Even better two years ago Labcorp billed us $1600 for the test because insurance says it was coded wrong. Dr said they can't fix the coding, insurance can't help. So I'm just not paying the bill. They can sue me, at which time I will ask when I agreed to $1600 (never did agree to any price actually). And in any case, the price for walk in service for the same test is $160. When they send me a bill for $160 I'll pay it.
It is absolutely ridiculous to charge insured patients 10X the cash price. But that is all of the medical system. Massively inflate prices so insurance can show you the 90% d******* when you could walk in and get it the same price.
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themuaddibMar 20, 2026
+18
Nurse are just as bad or worse
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witchofpainMar 20, 2026
+49
Don’t disagree. But we don’t have the power to prescribe. Even if a doctor did something we don’t like we still have to follow orders.
But nurses absolutely will call the police. In fact some already have. You can’t trust them either.
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ImpossibleTaxMar 20, 2026
+214
Yeah here I was taught, you have this medical history but don’t mention it to your doctor because it might get you kicked off insurance or premiums raised. Stupid me when a doctor suggested a prescription when I mentioned eczema and I thought ok I’ll try that. Ended up with an increased premium due to pre existing condition of experiencing itchy skin sometimes.
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CharlotteLucasOPMar 20, 2026
+100
They’ll only fund health insurance for people who are already entirely healthy. 😒
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MsARumphiusMar 20, 2026
+40
They seem to have no problem with our electors healthcare. They people making these choices for the rest of us have excellent coverage and care all paid for by us.
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dr_cl_aphraMar 20, 2026
+7
Of course. Those people are the insurance lobby’s cash cows. Of course they’re gonna take good care of them, or they won’t be able to do their jobs.
The rest of us can go f*** ourselves.
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OinkidoinkidoinkMar 20, 2026
+20
You never know if the doctor is a f****** fanatic that will do something about it if there's a legal basis.
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IshindriMar 20, 2026
+37
Yeah, I'm a trans woman. You learn pretty quick that the truth and what you tell doctors are two very very different things. Because if you don't tell them what they want to hear, they won't give you HRT. Doctors cannot be trusted.
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Cheshire_TaoMar 20, 2026
+34
My doctor at Planned Parenthood was so nice to me!
Aaaaand they are now legally barred from accepting my Medicaid.
At least I like my GP, who's the first doctor in my adult life who hasn't treated me like a drug addict for saying I was medicated for ADHD since I was a preteen, had been white-knuckling it since age 26, and would like my vyvanse back, please.
I hate this f****** country.
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[deleted]Mar 20, 2026
+3
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OakashandthorneMar 20, 2026
+14
Im a trans dude and the scripted hoops i had to jump through to get a hysterectomy were insane. I literally studied exactly what to tell them to get the help i needed, and endured being constantly misgendered and preached at (catholic hospital) the entire time. The only doctor I dont lie to is my eye doctor
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Cheshire_TaoMar 21, 2026
+3
Damn, bro, that makes me sad and angry on your behalf. Congrats on the hysto, though! Hope it was free of complications!
Also: thank you for reminding me I need to see the optometrist.
—A Differently-Flavored Trans Person Whose Executive Dysfunction's Had Them Wearing the Same Lenses for Nearly 3 Years
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CatattackCataractMar 20, 2026
+6
I am truly sorry you've had those experiences. This comment goes out to the others on this chain too: Please keep searching for a doctor who suits your needs and you can trust wholeheartedly. The worst thing you can do for yourself is not have anyone on your side for healthcare and then require further emergent treatment down the road and not have an advocate.
Having a good primary care doctor who will advocate for you really is paramount in navigating the system. Searching for the right doctor for you, like therapists, should be encouraged.
For full disclosure: I am a doctor. However, I can promise you, not everyone is the same. Where there is a human there is a range in personalities. You will find a lot of assholes, but there are also people genuinely seeking to do good in the field.
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BigJellyfish1906Mar 20, 2026
+46
Doctors in America are hyper sensitive to lawsuits. The medical community is utterly failing to meet the moment in the face of these horrible laws. All they had to do was not report she took the pills, and theres absolutely no way law enforcement would have ever known.
Hell none of the women who have died from pregnancy complications where doctors refused or delayed care *were actually in the window where they couldn’t get treatment*. Their doctors all just panicked at the *chance* of legal exposure and took the “safe” approach for *them*, which meant suffering and death for their patients.
Obviously the GOP gets the lions share of the blame for all this, but doctors are not totally clean.
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inkyblackopsMar 20, 2026
+9
“Tell the doctors everything and the cops nothing”
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awkgemMar 20, 2026
+70
Exactly, everyone constantly hammers home that the people you don't lie to are the doctors in a hospital. I can definitely see why she did it. But the above advice is good for people to know anyway. She just wouldn't have known.
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VesperTollsMar 20, 2026
+434
As someone who lives in or near states with these idiots in charge, and as someone who works in a hospital, abort safely if possible.
Secondly, if you have to go to a hospital to seek treatment for it, do not inform staff if it was purposeful. ER docs won't typically dig as deep as toxicology and/or look for medications that could cause it. The exception is, however, multiple visits to the same health system for the same complaints which will cause scrutiny.
Tl;Dr, there most likely would've been nothing further if she hadn't informed staff of what she took or why she took it.
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Jub_Jub710Mar 20, 2026
+390
These pills make you bleed a lot and it's a bit painful and nauseating. They often come with instructions and a helpline to quell any fears you have, but she probably just got too scared. Poor girl. I hate this country so much sometimes and I wish I didn't.
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sprinkles-n-shizzMar 20, 2026
+162
I had to take Cytotec before a hysteroscopy to soften my cervix and that shit is no f****** joke. Had to take a pill the night before and morning of the procedure. I have PCOS and really heavy periods with shitty cramps, so I'm usually used to that pain, but this pain was something else. I had to sleep in the bathtub filled with hot water because I couldn't sleep in bed, the pain was that bad.
If I hadn't known about the effects, I probably would have gone to the emergency room. Also, the heavy bleeding and clots the few days following were insane. Felt like my entire uterus was coming out.
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JennJoy77Mar 20, 2026
+115
That sounds awful. Oddly, when I had a hysteroscopy last year they didn't have me take anything beforehand - not even an Advil - and acted surprised that I was in so much pain...THEN they tried to proceed with an endometrial biopsy right afterwards with no pain meds until I started backing up on the table and insisting. This stuff is so needlessly brutal.
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kirakiralunaMar 20, 2026
+28
Same exact experience. The leg braces were "broken" (I suspect someone was too lazy to adjust them),I'm tall and I subluxed a hip.
Cherry on the cake, I met some nice pro vita e famiglia (italian version of forced-birthers) outside.
Their little brain saw a young lady bent in two with pain, crying, outside of the gyno pavillion and came to the obviously wrong conclusion.
I was *this* close to stab one in the eye with a lit cig, but my driver dragged me away before I could commit assault.
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sprinkles-n-shizzMar 20, 2026
+53
Whoa, wait. They weren't going to knock you out? They had me under anesthesia (had to abort the procedure due to intubation issues), but they weren't going to make me be awake for that. They make you be awake for that???
My cervix is high up, so my OBGYN even had issues doing my pap, so that probably contributed to the decision to knock me out.
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MoulanRougeFaeMar 20, 2026
+59
Mine was right there in the office. Nothing for pain. No pills to soften my cervix either. I fainted twice yet the Dr still pushed through And took a biopsy after which he didn't even tell me he was going to do it. Just barked hold still at me as I felt like I was dying. My husband had to come in to help me dress and carry me to the car afterwards
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CharlotteLucasOPMar 20, 2026
+69
Women’s healthcare really hasn’t changed much in several centuries.
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iamjohnbenderMar 20, 2026
+16
At least they use chainsaws on trees now.
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sprinkles-n-shizzMar 20, 2026
+28
How f****** TRAUMATIC. Oh my god. I'm so sorry! That's awful.
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tequila_23_sheilaMar 20, 2026
+10
Omg, Im so sorry you had to experience that!! 🥺❤️🩹
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MoulanRougeFaeMar 20, 2026
+5
Thank you. It was truly horrifying to experience.
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JennJoy77Mar 20, 2026
+5
I had no idea it was going to be that brutal, as they didn't even advise me to take pain meds beforehand, so I drove myself and had no one with me...I hobbled to the car and had to sit for about 30 minutes before I could drive the 30 minutes home from the office.
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MoulanRougeFaeMar 20, 2026
+3
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how awful it was to experience that by yourself. I wasn't told it would be painful either. The Drs should be required to tell patients things like this
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JennJoy77Mar 20, 2026
+6
100% yes - and they described both procedures as "mildly uncomfortable." 👀 I should have guessed it might be more than that based on the fact that my most recent Pap made me cry...
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Jub_Jub710Mar 20, 2026
+5
When I got my IUD, they had to cauterize my cervix. No pain meds, nothing. Good times. I have a trauma reaction going to the gyno now and they have to use the smallest speculum because I lock up.
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spacetstacyMar 20, 2026
+6
I had an endometrial biopsy a couple of years ago. I had part of my cervix removed about 25 years ago and had a tilted uterus (I no longer have either of those organs - cancer was found and everything came out). Because of my cervical scarring, it had to be dilated by using some sort of instrument. It was extremely painful. They didn't numb me beforehand nor were there handles on the table for me to grip. There were 2 interns observing the biopsy. I was trying to be helpful to them and letting them know everything is was feeling, then I starting crying and just saying how bad it hurt and how barbaric it was.
I really hope the doctor and the interns learned from this and changed the way they do it.
They use Betadine to clean the cervix first. There's no reason a numbing agent can't be added.
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Roxy_j_summersMar 20, 2026
+32
Why the f*** don’t they give women pain killers when we have terrible excruciating pain. What the f*** is wrong with doctors?
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Far-Conflict-1172Mar 20, 2026
+6
No idea I went in once for the horrendous pain every time I took a step at work for 12 hours in my lower right pelvis area and it turned out to be a ruptured ovarian cyst.
The doctor, who was also female, told me the second she walked in the door that she wasn't giving me any opioids which I hadn't asked for because they always make me feel so sick, I just wanted to know what the problem was.
Funny enough after they figured out what it was a nurse came in with morphine which I declined but geez I'm so shocked the doctor didn't show her face again.
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MammothFrosting3565Mar 20, 2026
+24
Oh no :( I think I’m prescribed that for my IUD insertion because I have a tight cervix. UGH 😩 as if it’s not painful enough to get an IUD
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sprinkles-n-shizzMar 20, 2026
+17
My best girlfriend had to take it for something her doctor did to her cervix. I think maybe a biopsy? But she said she just had cramps. She had no issues with major bleeding or sleeping that night, so I think it's really all going to depend on your body.
I had a potential polyp, so that could have been the reason I had a shit time. They had to abort my procedure due to intubation issues, so I'm not sure if I have/had a polyp. I also read those medications can potentially get rid of polyps and I gotta say, these past couple months have been pretty smooth in terms of having my period, so I'm wondering if the Cytotec just cleared me out.
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MammothFrosting3565Mar 20, 2026
+9
Thanks for the follow up, that is helpful! Sorry you had such a hard time, I hope you’re right about it helping get rid of the polyp, that would at least make the suffering worth it!
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sprinkles-n-shizzMar 20, 2026
+9
Thanks! I hope so.
I need to go back to the doctor and have them do another exam, but I've been really scared to go. The last pap I had was so painful and I would do anything to not go through it again.
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michaeldaphMar 20, 2026
+8
Pap smears can be done now by yourself. With just a vaginal swab. Privately in the bathroom, sealed in the provided container and handed back to the nurse. Such an upgrade on the speculum.
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VesperTollsMar 20, 2026
+43
There are many medical professionals, myself among them, who do not support laws limiting access or banning necessary medical interventions. I pursued this line of work to help people, not get them locked up because they can't afford a child.
I'm not saying to not trust medical staff, I am saying to be aware of what you say to them in these specific circumstances in specific states or regions. Do know that a lot of us are behind greater access to medical care, and a lot of us do not agree with these laws.
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witchofpainMar 20, 2026
+13
I’m a nurse. We medical professionals need to start banning together to stop this bullshit. Somehow we need to work against other medical professionals to stop this. It’s no different than good cops need to start banning against good cops. Maybe we could start a website highlighting good doctors vs bad doctors. I don’t know. But I feel like it’s on us to fix it.
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oddistrangeMar 20, 2026
+10
I don't think much would change as far as treatment goes whether you disclose it or not. They're going to manage bleeding, there's medication to help with that. They're going to make sure you're not getting an infection, there's also medication to treat that. Misopristol should clear the body in 6 hours.They may delay removing residual tissue because of their stupid ass laws but there's a really low chance medical staff would know if it was self induced with medication unless self-reported.
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witchofpainMar 20, 2026
+13
If you are in a red state do not tell an unknown medical prof (ER staff) that you took it. All it takes is one a****** with access to your chart to report you. The treatment doesn’t change. In fact, act like you are devastated over losing this kid and things will go much smoother.
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witchofpainMar 20, 2026
+10
All hospitals and doctors can now access your medical records no matter where you go. Electronic medical records has made this very easy. Especially My Chart through Epic.
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swollennodeMar 20, 2026
+10
Just wait until they pass a law mandating a toxicology test on any miscarriages
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hehampilotiflyMar 20, 2026
+4
There’s no test for that medicine anyway. I work in a hospital lab and we can only test for meds or drugs that tests have been developed for. The only possible way to detect it would be using gas chromatography which would be sent out and take days. It’s very expensive. Plus it’s a fast metabolizing medicine so there’s a chance it’d be out of your system by the time you felt something like was going wrong and went to the hospital.
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msfinch87Mar 20, 2026
+131
Yep, underlining this.
They can’t make that determination medically, so don’t tell them. No victim blaming, just a PSA to help women protect themselves.
Unfortunately there have been a couple of cases where they have been so dastardly as to pursue women’s medical records to see if they were ever prescribed the drugs, but not telling them at least helps limit their knowledge.
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jc_chienneMar 20, 2026
+92
It's just awful because I have been told over and over my whole life "always tell the truth to doctors. They won't get you in trouble for seeking help" obviously meant for things like illegal drugs and the like. But, no longer the case I guess. Never know who you can trust, so trust no one.
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msfinch87Mar 20, 2026
+44
Indeed. The broader ramifications of these laws, such as having to fight everything we’ve been taught and being distrusting of medical professionals who were considered the most trustworthy, are really distressing.
It’s not surprising she told them. She was no doubt scared and, as you say, trusting. She probably didn’t understand the ramifications.
Unfortunately there are many medical professionals in red states who will report this stuff, and have done.
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TheRealSaerilethMar 20, 2026
+13
That was the point of the new Texas law - it specifically allows 3rd parties to not only sue the person who got an abortion, but more importantly, the *medical provider that performed the procedure*. At that point yeah, they're going to rat you out to cover their own asses. Even if they don't believe it's right, very few people are willing to face prison to protect a patient.
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LordChungusAmongusMar 20, 2026
+14
That was never the case for illegal drugs. They will always backstab you if it's anything non-alcohol related, even then they're likely to straight up invite cops into the ER for you to get a fresh public intox charge (Ohio and Virginia hospitals have been doing that for like 30 years now).
You tell them about high risk stuff because you have to in order stay alive and not get killed by them doing the wrong thing trying to help you.
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BigJellyfish1906Mar 20, 2026
+3
Doctors are utterly failing to meet the moment amidst these laws. All they have to do is look the other way, and there’s no way law enforcement finds out. Police weren’t that smart.
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rubywpnmasterMar 20, 2026
+77
My cousin in Houston had a miscarriage. She went to the p******* to pick up her prescription which was mifepristone and misoprostol to help with what I guess is an incomplete miscarriage. She was initially DENIED the drugs by the pharmacist on duty because they were too scared to give out the medication.
It was already dead.
Seriously f*** Abbot and the TX GOP
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Odd_Ingenuity2883Mar 20, 2026
+28
My best friend recently had a missed miscarriage at about 8 weeks in Fort Worth and the clinic refused to prescribe her misoprostol because she was “too far along and it would DEFINITELY cause her to haemorrhage”. She got a second opinion by telehealth out of state and all the doctor would say was that what they were saying wasn’t “evidence based”. They were lying out of their asses.
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obeytheturtlesMar 20, 2026
+3
Just in general, the idea that you should always be honest with doctors is complete and absolute bullshit that people need to get over. Go sit in on any personal injury case and see how "confidential" your medical records actually are.
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Top_Mathematician233Mar 20, 2026
+3
I just read another article that says a security guard at the hospital called the police to investigate her “after ER staff discovered that she attempted to abort”. Then when cops came, her friend who went with her answered their questions and told them she used misoprostol. Isn’t this a HIPPA violation if the security guard heard her talking to intake and calls the police? The article says, “The police report does not cite any conversations with medical staff, only the security guard, who is a retired Camden County sheriff’s deputy.”
https://19thnews.org/2026/03/woman-charged-attempted-murder-georgia-abortion-law/
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gabacus_39Mar 20, 2026
+4595
Every news story coming out of the US is depressing as f***. What a shithole of a country.
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YesterShillMar 20, 2026
+1618
Yep.
You can spot shithole countries by injustice and corruption. The US has fast tracked itself to one of the worst.
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HookedOnBoNixMar 20, 2026
+328
US, China, Russia leading the charge on shit hole countries running the world
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_Rainer_Mar 20, 2026
+217
Russia doesn't run shit. The best they can do is make those around them miserable.
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Broken_RealityMar 20, 2026
+86
Russia is an authoritarian murderous regime. They regularly kill political opponents. They may not run the world but they are up there on powerful murderous regimes. They used to be one of the top dogs running things and are still pretty powerful.
The Ukraine conflict has shown just how much corruption has gutted the Russian military.
Russia now is the USA in what maybe 10 to 15 years time? Once the level of corruption and double dealing in the USA reaches the same level as Russia and the USA is really ramping up the corruption right now. Once the billionaire oligarchs take full control of US politics then the corruption cycle will be complete and the USA will become Russia 2.0 and stop being a top power in the world.
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mcpat21Mar 20, 2026
+3
Not unless Amerika pisses off enough countries off in time
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Lawnmower_on_fireMar 20, 2026
+170
Hey, they got Trump elected in 2016 and currently control a portion of his decision making. Not all of it, but they have some control.
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pribnowMar 20, 2026
+4
It's wild that people don't see Russia as a major play in what is happening in the US rn
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_Rainer_Mar 20, 2026
+3
I absolutely believe that Russia played a major role in boosting Trump and getting him elected in 2016, but I also differentiate between their willingness to sow seeds of chaos into the world and their actually running anything. Trump and Putin are similar in that they mistake their lack of scruples for some sort of tactical or intellectual superiority.
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AnonymisterTMar 20, 2026
+4
Instead of, "Running," I believe, "Ruining," is the better word.
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DGASAPMar 20, 2026
+26
Don't forget Israel and Iran
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TonyHawktuah69Mar 20, 2026
+255
Just wait until midterms. And then wait until 2028. Then wait until… getting really tired of the let’s just wait it out, and the elected officials doing nothing to fight.
People are dying now to these horrors. We are losing decades or medical research and scientific advancement by the week.
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Pro-Patria-MoriMar 20, 2026
+129
Elections have consequences. This is the result of everyone who refused to vote for Hillary in 2016, for whatever reason
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gabacus_39Mar 20, 2026
+108
Or the uppity non-white woman who laughed funny.
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LiquidAetherMar 20, 2026
+39
Plus all the election interference.
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shs_2014Mar 20, 2026
+32
It goes further back than that. The US has been working on this for decades, and it has been shitty for anyone not white since inception. This is what happens when a country is built on greed
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Pro-Patria-MoriMar 20, 2026
+22
The w***** of the 2016 election was guaranteed a Supreme Court nomination after Scalia died, then RBG died and Anthony Kennedy retired in 2018. Trump got three justices, who killed Roe v Wade despite the fact they all said it was settled law during their confirmation hearings.
I f****** guarantee Thomas or Alito are going to retire, he’ll probably get another one.
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SincamourMar 20, 2026
+37
I don't believe there will be fair elections anymore. We're stuck with these demons forever.
Or of they do get pushed, their followers will cause violence and make the US hell.
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shitshowexpwyMar 20, 2026
+33
Latching onto the top comment to remind anyone who lives in a red state and may need assistance with transportation etc for an abortion, please check the Auntie Network.
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MeowakinMar 20, 2026
+50
Wait, the heart warming stories of people raising funds for their medical treatment don’t do it for you? /s
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PontifexPrimusMar 20, 2026
+3
See also /r/OrphanCrushingMachine/...
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sltiefighterMar 20, 2026
+35
American can confirm america is shithole now.
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AunMeLlevaLaConchaMar 20, 2026
+19
For a country that claims to be first world, they sure like to do a lot of 3rd world shit.
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The_DoodderMar 20, 2026
+24
MAGA cancer is real
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[deleted]Mar 20, 2026
+1812
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queenringletsMar 20, 2026
+370
Women’s bodily autonomy is simply not important to them.
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Soup-WizardMar 20, 2026
+270
It’s worse, they don’t think we should have any. It’s in Project 2025
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zoinkabilityMar 20, 2026
+74
Indeed. Epstein was right in line with their ideology.
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la_winkyMar 20, 2026
+92
Oh no, it’s important to them.
They really don’t want women to have bodily autonomy. They are oddly obsessed with controlling women’s bodies.
Do they not have better things to “fix”?
Does this track back to mommy issues?
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EightEyedCryptidMar 20, 2026
+28
They want more powerless victims
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jmurphy42Mar 20, 2026
+24
No, it’s extremely important to them that women have no bodily autonomy.
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CankleDanklMar 20, 2026
+9
Neither is children's apparently
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wwaxworkMar 20, 2026
+8
Women and children just are not important to them. Hell anyone not a white man with money they don't care about.
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Haunting-Ad788Mar 20, 2026
+3
That’s not true, eliminating it is extremely important to them.
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ChipRocketsMar 20, 2026
+8
That’s what happens when you live in a theocracy
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mido_samaMar 20, 2026
+10
Men still treat women as property they can say nice things but their actions says it all.
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No-Celebration3097Mar 20, 2026
+660
Definitely not a wealthy woman. These laws target poor women.
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Available_Border1075Mar 20, 2026
+71
Yeah, you can do whatever you want if you’ve got enough money
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adchickMar 20, 2026
+12
Wealthy women and families can travel to where it is safe and legal
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obeytheturtlesMar 20, 2026
+8
I'll give you one guess what this woman's skin color is...
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NarwhalEmergency9391Mar 20, 2026
+219
How bout they worry about the actual murderers and rapists
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TheRealSaerilethMar 20, 2026
+46
Those take way more work to catch. Just like ICE going after grannies instead of gang members.
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TapprunnerMar 20, 2026
+494
My country f****** sucks
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WorkingOnBeingBettrMar 20, 2026
+88
I agree, that guys country sucks.
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Knees0ckMar 20, 2026
+63
This IS the same shit state that forced a brain-dead woman finish her term.
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bugabooandtwoMar 20, 2026
+71
Took a quick look at the article...all it says is she was more than 6 weeks into the pregnancy. Is a more accurate timeline written anywhere? If it was in the first or early second trimester, then this is ridiculous.
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Ok_Situation6408Mar 20, 2026
+77
Nurses estimated 22-24 weeks, it lived for an hour after delivery.
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inraiolawetrustMar 20, 2026
+81
That’s really far along….im pro choice but that’s a way too far along
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nogoodbratMar 20, 2026
+90
Yeah, it’s sad she didn’t have sure access to safe healthcare and abortion sooner.
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maplestrikerMar 20, 2026
+33
Yep. You know why I havent heard a story like this in Germany yet? Because you actually stll have acress to healthcare as a woman.
Can you imagine how f****** desperate a woman must be to be in her 22nd week and only now take an abortion pill?
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napalmnaceyMar 20, 2026
+29
Oh sweet fuckin’ Jesus. This probably wouldn’t have happened if abortion was easily accessible. Oh my gods that poor baby.
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Wakeup_And_PissMar 20, 2026
+230
This has to stop. No one should be telling any woman what she can do with her body. This is disgusting and horrifying
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themehboatMar 20, 2026
+74
"I know my infant is suffering, because I am the one who did the abortion. I want her to die.” What? That is not an actual quote. Is that a 19th century play?
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ResidentRelevant13Mar 20, 2026
+25
Yeah I’m suspicious about that statement
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Motor-Cupcake7577Mar 20, 2026
+20
Hospital staff and cops have been found to lie about this sort of bizarre/salacious detail, and wildly so, in many cases where miscarriages or suspected abortions have been criminalized. Jessica Valenti has made a point of investigating for and reporting on reproductive justice issues.
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AhBee1Mar 20, 2026
+40
Forced birth, but don't vaccinate. Women shouldn't work, but we can't afford to live without multiple incomes. Focus on the family, but the father is a rapist or your dad. God wants the sick and poor sicker and poorer. And if you don't comply? You're a terrorist who deserves jail. At the same time, the SAVE Act will remove the right to vote for anyone whose name didn't match their birth certificate. This is a war on women brought forth by the most failed men on the planet.
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XsiahMar 20, 2026
+134
I hold stupid religious busybodies responsible for every "murder" that happens like this.
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TravelingdabberMar 20, 2026
+20
And yet not one arrest from the Epstein files
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obeytheturtlesMar 20, 2026
+21
Wait, but I thought conservatives were totally swearsies that they weren't going to charge women with crimes, and only the doctors?
*checks mugshot*
Oh, it's a black woman.
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whowhodillybarMar 20, 2026
+107
I don’t know all of the details of course, but is punishing her actually going to do anything to protect kids in the least? Perhaps the next one just won’t go to the hospital or admit to taking anything. How is prosecuting her accomplishing anything?
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Direct_Witness1248Mar 20, 2026
+121
Their prison system there is basically privatized slave labor.
They want more prisoners, so they can build more prisons, get more public money funnelled into private prison projects, and make more money off the prisoners.
Wealthy groups use moral arguments to sway those who are susceptible, but the instigators dont really care about the morality, they just see vulnerable people as dollar signs.
That's not the only factor of course, but its been a long term agenda in the US. All of this comes from a really gross intersection of money, power, religion, exploitation, corruption, and manipulation. And conservative politics. Name a more iconic septet.
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ShykinMar 20, 2026
+27
A lot of Americans decide to just not grapple with the fact we are still a slavery practicing country. The government decides who is a criminal, and therefore who is a slave. Naturally the confederate flag flying party wants to be in charge of the government and enslave whoever they want.
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Chemical_Egg_2761Mar 20, 2026
+69
They hate women, they’re punishing her because they like hurting women. They do not care if the next woman doesn’t go to the hospital and bleeds out in her bathroom, either outcome is fine with them.
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aquasemiteMar 20, 2026
+34
Of course not. Prosecuting her is accomplishing the goal of keeping women down. That's the point.
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XjitisMar 20, 2026
+16
No. Easy answer.
Well, maybe make the religious book club feel more entitled but no. Nothing beyond that
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Th1rte3n1334Mar 20, 2026
+14
Punishing her is only going to make Republicans feel better about the laws that caused this situation in the first place.
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LymeRicksMar 20, 2026
+8
Sherman didn’t do nearly enough to that backwater.
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Haunting-Ad788Mar 20, 2026
+55
The president raped kids and they still support him.
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_iridessence_Mar 20, 2026
+144
This was a 22-24 week pregnancy. Right at the viability threshold. I am curious to learn if she had sought a medically-assisted abortion and not been able to find a provider.
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XsiahMar 20, 2026
+167
Georgia makes abortions illegal after 6 weeks (during which women often don't even know they're pregnant). No doctor would have done it for her.
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in_animate_objectsMar 20, 2026
+67
The law is working just like they intended harming women.
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BoredAf_queenMar 20, 2026
+64
Yeah, I don't believe it's any coincidence we are seeing this happen more when they've made it basically impossible to get an abortion and are making it more difficult to get birth control.
For those that aren't aware, pregnancy weeks are counted based on your cycle, so the 1st 4 weeks of a pregnancy, is the normal cycle length (2 of those weeks are prep, no ovulation or fertilization yet.) And even if you have perfect cycles, which most do not, many women do not realize they are pregnant until 6 weeks or later. Even if you found out at 5 weeks, imagine trying to get one in time. And as far as these heartbeat abortion bans, there is not a heart at 6 weeks. There's electrical activity in something the size of a pomegranate seed, that may later develop into a heart.
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drkrunchMar 20, 2026
+11
Pro-choice radiologist here. I mostly agree with your post, with a caveat.
I think "heartbeat laws" are dumb for a lot of reasons, but IMO trying to counter heartbeat laws with "there is no heart(beat) at 6 weeks" weakens the pro-choice argument. That assertion is questionable and depends very heavily on the "6 weeks" part...by 9-10 weeks the embryonic/fetal heart is essentially a small version of an adult heart, including having all 4 chambers and valves, and I doubt most of us would support a 9 or 10-week abortion ban because we care deeply about the aortic valve.
Why should it matter if there is a heartbeat, or a fully-formed heart? A fetus or embryo having a heartbeat does not mean it has a "soul" or sentience or personhood, or that it is equal in worth to the woman it is developing inside. An adult can be declared braindead while still having a heartbeat. You can die, your heart can be transplanted into someone else, and it can beat...that doesn't mean you are still alive. Your heart can stop beating, and you can still be alive (either temporarily or through various means). You can be born with congenital heart disease and have a malformed or incompletely formed heart, and still be a living person. You can lose a part of your heart due to injury or disease and still be alive.
At 6-7 weeks, the developing embryonic heart is obviously not complete, but it literally contracts and pumps blood and typically has a pretty regular rhythm between 120-160 bpm unless there is a problem. I think most would consider that to be a "heartbeat" in plain language. When we see it on an ultrasound, the ultrasound is detecting the motion of the embryonic heart as it contracts. It is not just picking up the tiny amount of electrical activity within the cells (which would be impossible for a medical ultrasound probe to do, it uses piezoelectric crystals that detect tiny changes in pressure from soundwaves and converts that to an electrical signal, it does not directly measure electrical activity). Both embryonic and adult hearts beat *because* of electrical activity stimulating the myocytes to contract.
When people say "the sound of the heartbeat is not real, it's created by the ultrasound machine", like...lol, wtf does that have to do with whether abortion should be legal. Of course the sound you hear is altered and amplified and coming from the machine's speaker. That's about like saying "you can't really hear someone talk over the telephone, it's just a sound made by a machine." It's the same as when you ultrasound an adult's heart, or a carotid artery, and the machine makes a sound indicating the waveforms it is detecting from the moving tissue or flowing blood.
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Ok_Situation6408Mar 20, 2026
+27
She had a prescription bottle for the abortion pill in her apartment. It's my understanding that abortion providers in states where it is legal are able to mail the abortion protocol to all states. There isn't really a verification process; anyone can have a telehealth visit, claim early term pregnancy, and be mailed the medication protocols with no trace back to the provider. There was a court case in the news regarding this a while back, either out of Texas or LA I believe (a male faked his identity on a telehealth app as a pregnant female to obtain the pills, and then gave them to his gf to cause an abortion without her knowledge...I think that was the gist of the case).
If that is what occurred here, and from what I have read it seems to be, logic follows that she was probably untruthful with the doctor about how far along she was (likely thinking that the meds would be the same regardless and just wanting to get it done), and then took a medication protocol that is meant for early stage pregnancies (and not mid-2nd trimester pregnancies). She likely didn't realize how much different the process is for abortions at different stages of pregnancies, which is what landed her at the hospital with severe pain and uncontrolled bleeding after it induced the birth. Very sad situation all around.
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Intelligent-Lead-692Mar 20, 2026
+33
Meanwhile, our government bombed a school and kills 160 little girls.
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zzztokenMar 20, 2026
+35
“The police investigator obtaining the warrant wrote that Moore told the nursing staff: “I know my infant is suffering, because I am the one who did the abortion. I want her to die.””
I’m sorry but I’ve never read more made up shit in my life.
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BlueHeelerChemistMar 20, 2026
+7
You couldn’t pay me enough to live in a red state.
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Initial-Lead-2814Mar 20, 2026
+5
Reading the comments it sound like this is tricky drug and could be scary if you don't do your own research. Don't mix drugs either, esp when you have no idea what you're doing with the abortion drug besides taking it. Shity situation in some states but if you decide to be your own dr do a few google searches on it before hand. Most likely your not a Dr and your friend isnt a chemist. Your life is the most precious thing you own, protect it.
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MotMan72Mar 20, 2026
+7
So the unborn are now a tax write off also?
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soup375Mar 20, 2026
+3
They better be at this rate. One woman argued that she was allowed to use the HOV lane because they counted her fetus as a person.
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DaddyOhMyMar 20, 2026
+3
A woman in recently used her pregnancy as an excuse to drive in the HOV lane. Don't recall the outcome of that though.
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2kids3katsMar 20, 2026
+21
Please join your local No Kings protest on March 28th if this upsets you. And it SHOULD upset you. Look up Indivisible to find a group and STAND UP against this bullshit!!
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aledbaMar 20, 2026
+18
This is why as a Canadian I contribute financially to American abortion clinics. My donation to the Missouri Abortion fund just went through today. Murder has a specific legal and English definition but weak misogynistic men aren't interested in that
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LibbyOfDanelandMar 20, 2026
+19
I am in Ca. If anyone needs to scram from a state like this for a long weekend just to get away, they can dm me.
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Jamie00003Mar 20, 2026
+5
Nice one America, you truly are the best…
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WitchySpectrumMar 20, 2026
+13
If you’re in Georgia or know someone who is, make sure you learn about jury nullification. And tell everyone you know.
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No_Introduction_3542Mar 20, 2026
+35
According to the Washington Post, the baby was between 22 and 24 weeks and lived for an an hour. That's at the limits of viability and she should not have waited that long. But if she has a decent attorney I doubt she will be convicted if the prosecutor decides to go forward.
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visualcharmMar 20, 2026
+8
If there is going to be a murder charge, it should implicate both man and woman. After all, it takes two to tango. I bet the laws would change really quickly.
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The_DoodderMar 20, 2026
+30
Never talk to the police and now never talk to your health care provider. What a time to be "alive".
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scienceisliceMar 20, 2026
+13
Why did the hospital tell anyone? This information didn’t need to be reported. What doctor actually reported a woman for an attempted abortion?
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swearinginoMar 20, 2026
+12
It’s typically a self righteous nurse that does this. There are so many nurses that don’t belong near patients due to their religious and political beliefs.
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ShinyRedrajMar 20, 2026
+13
But when are they going to arrest the people in the Trump-stein Files?
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UndercoverHerbertMar 20, 2026
+43
This is so f****** disgusting. They will be going after the doctors and pharmacists next. This country sucks.
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ZLUCremisiMar 20, 2026
+30
They already are. California is protecting one from Texas
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Worldly_Anybody_9219Mar 20, 2026
+14
You can't "murder" a part of yourself. As long as a fetus is growing out of your own tissues, relies on your body to survive, and is a part of your womb, it's a part of your body. This is so ridiculous.
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HexicaLCMar 20, 2026
+7
You know you’re living in the free world when your first read of the morning details a woman lacking the resources to access safe healthcare. As a result, she receives underqualified and harmful care, putting her body through immense trauma and ultimately, her life at risk. Still lacking resources for safe healthcare, she finds herself in a hospital where she is treated inhumanely while being psychologically abused. They inform her that they are allowing a non-viable life source to exist in pain and that she is to blame.
Ladies, I cannot stress this enough. Regardless of how you choose to manage your reproductive health, please keep the medical staff on a need-to-know basis and, if possible, bring an advocate with you.
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Diantr3Mar 20, 2026
+8
What's the name of the shitbag who sold her out?
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Easy_Bite6858Mar 20, 2026
+9
Being pro-life, or anti-abortion, is not the opposite of being pro-choice. The opposite is FORCED abortion. In both cases, someone from outside of the immediate family comes in and decides how your family should look, regardless of the impact. Pro-choice is the neutral option.
My invisible man in the sky says your wife needs to have a forced abortion. No, I don't care if you believe in my invisible man in the sky or not. If you don't agree, I'm putting you in prison. Have fun fighting the state with 6 years worth of salary in legal fees. Once you're behind bars, we can put you to work to pay for the court fees, by cleaning trash off of the highway for 13 cents per hour.
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QuarterFlounderMar 20, 2026
+17
F*** Donald Trump and his Supreme Court fascists for overturning Roe v. Wade. What an absolute disgrace that this is the new reality for the women of this country. All because of the decisions of a few christian nationalist psychopaths.
Midterms are coming, you f****** nazis.
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dumplnMar 20, 2026
+10
This is no one’s business except the woman and her doctor. It is a HIPAA violation they even have that information.
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[deleted]Mar 20, 2026
+34
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Topical_ScreamMar 20, 2026
+12
I’m tired boss
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TheKingInTheNorthMar 20, 2026
+9
I can’t tell if you’re trying to point out that the law targets black women or are saying of course it’s a black woman that took an abortion pill when neatly in the third trimester and the fetus was at the viability line.
This is just a horrible and tragic situation all around.
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PTLTYJWLYSMGBYAKYIJNMar 20, 2026
+6
This dystopian, Handsmaids Tale shit. God help us.
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awolfsvalentineMar 20, 2026
+26
I am wildly pro-choice but this baby was at least 22 weeks. And she told the nurses she knew the infant was suffering and that she wanted the infant to die. This was so evil.
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