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For Sale Mar 24, 2026 at 11:48 AM

Married At First Sight star Mel Schilling dies aged 54

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https://www.theguardian.com/media/2026/mar/24/married-at-first-sight-star-mel-schilling-dies-aged-54

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SlowerThanTurtleInPB Mar 24, 2026 +174
TLDR: Another colon cancer death. She was diagnosed in 2023 and it went to her brain.
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OilMeUpStewart Mar 24, 2026 +114
So we’re all just gonna die from cancer atp? Seems like is inevitable with the amount of cancer rates. We are being poisoned
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scriptingends Mar 24, 2026 +76
A lot of these relatively young (40s-50s) cancer deaths are colorectal, which is curable when found early and easy to find early if you look. People have to start going for colonoscopies earlier - recommended age used to be 50, then dropped to 45, now 40 if there’s family history. Probably should be 40 for everyone.
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the_main_entrance Mar 24, 2026 +26
Still doesn’t answer the question of why, and these are rich celebs with the time and money to get checked out. Most people are too poor, tired and don’t want to fight with their insurance companies. Doesn’t bode well.
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Doctor_Unsleepable Mar 24, 2026 +45
The rich can be just as squeamish about going to the doctor as the rest of us.
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Ok_District2853 Mar 24, 2026 +23
Especially for a colonoscopy. You can't eat. You have to drink a ton of gross chemical. You have to let a bunch of strangers see your naked ass. It's terrible, but not as bad as dying. After all these years I'm almost starting to enjoy it. The drugs are great. Not eating for days makes the cheeseburger you eat afterwards the best in the world. You can taste it with your whole body. I swear tasty burger should pay my doctor a kick back. I've eaten so make doubles with bacon there. It almost makes the a*** probing palatable. As you can see it's almost time for me to talk myself into another one.
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VenGeo Mar 24, 2026 +18
I just had one done at 37. Found and removed a polyp or two. As horrible as the prep and uncomfortable the experience, would do again.
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Ok_District2853 Mar 24, 2026 +8
Give it a few times. You'll get into it.
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tulip_jefferson Mar 24, 2026 +6
Best 20 minute nap ever
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Ok_District2853 Mar 24, 2026 +3
The drugs really are top notch.
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VanillaVolnutt Mar 25, 2026 +1
Does it hurt/sore afterwards? Seems like the prep is the worst part if you're essentially knocked out during
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lafolieisgood Mar 25, 2026 +1
No and the prep isn’t that bad. You shit water for a couple of hours, I used to do that on the regular in colllege.
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Jonsey1977 Mar 24, 2026 +2
There are other options besides colonoscopy nowadys too. If you dont have a family history, you can just poop in a box send it in for analysis. Thats what my doc recommends.
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Little_View_6659 Mar 24, 2026 +6
I did that. That only checks for blood in the stool though. I’m gonna have to do the whole thing.
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Jonsey1977 Mar 24, 2026 +5
I believe it also checks for altered dna
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Little_View_6659 Mar 24, 2026 +2
That I’m not sure about. We went and did a whole check up, one of those travel hospital things. We’re retired and husband is Turkish. I wanted to do a colonoscopy but there was no way I was doing colonoscopy prep with one bathroom shared among eight people. Plus, they kept shutting the water off at night after five. So no flushing the toilet.
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footballsquishy Mar 24, 2026 +2
It's also got a very high false positive (and false negative) rate...
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Little_View_6659 Mar 25, 2026 +1
The stool sample, or colonoscopy?
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Ok_District2853 Mar 24, 2026 +2
Plus the co pay is way less expensive than the usual place I go to poop in a box.
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Western-Corner-431 Mar 24, 2026 +1
Why are you getting so many colonoscopies?
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Ok_District2853 Mar 25, 2026 +2
Family history and presence of polyps in previous tests is what dictates frequency. I'm just old. I've done it more times than I can count.
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scriptingends Mar 24, 2026 +2
It’s not about the money - if you’re rich and relatively young, you most likely think you are bulletproof.
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GrandmaPoses Mar 24, 2026 +2
You still have to want to go; many people simply don’t go to the doctor until there’s a problem, money can’t fix that.
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Overall_Purpose6993 Mar 24, 2026 +2
Microplastics would be my guess.
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InfernalTest Mar 25, 2026 +1
Yes very true for women and men getting screened before 40 for breast or colon or prostrate cancer makes for a long battle to pay put of pocket
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Glittering-Animal30 Mar 24, 2026 +1
There’s an international study by USA, France, England, and like four other large countries in progress. It’s looking into ties between colon/colorectal cancer and processed and ultra-processed foods. I believe they’re likely to find a link.
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chagster001 Mar 24, 2026 +1
Rich folks are probably very complacent about it
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s_matthew Mar 24, 2026 +5
My doctor smartly told me to do it instead of the mail-in option, which, if they find anything will result in a colonoscopy anyway. And might not be insured because of the previous mail-in test. So glad I did. Three polyps removed, one quite big. If insurance would cover it, I’d go back sooner than three years. It’s awesome. You get to reset your bowels, you get one hell of a nap, and you get the peace of mind around what’s going on in your colon.
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Patdemonium Mar 24, 2026 +6
I told my doctor that my dad had polyps once so she scheduled me for a colonoscopy and found like seven of those. So I have one every three years now. They usually find a couple small ones. No worries about insurance because it's Canada. Yes the prep is horrible but absolutely worth it.
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s_matthew Mar 24, 2026 +4
I didn’t even mind the prep. It felt like a challenge. I pulled a small table into the bathroom and worked while liquidating. The worst part for me was the fasting.
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Patdemonium Mar 24, 2026 +3
I think for me the worse was the last one. For some reason they couldn't get me to dose off, so I felt everything. It sucked.
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s_matthew Mar 24, 2026 +2
I’m so sorry. That sounds awful.
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Patdemonium Mar 24, 2026 +3
It's... not great. 20 long minutes. Usually I'm conscious but on cloud 9 and it's a breeze. Hopefully the next one will go well. I wanted to strangle the lot of them last time.
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fleurgirl123 Mar 24, 2026 +6
This is my exact story. I had no risks or symptoms, other than obesity and being 45, and my doctor said I would really prefer you not do the “poop in a box” because the people who I’ve been surprised by have had no risks. Sure, enough, they found pre-cancerous polyps, which they were able to remove right away. Get your colonoscopies people!
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SonofaBridge Mar 24, 2026 +3
For Americans, insurance won’t pay for it before 45.
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CantAffordzUsername Mar 24, 2026 +3
I went last week, I’m 37 Not waiting around for that shit to just spring up and ruin me. Also be aware doctors will fight you on this every time, tell them to eff off, you want the test, demand it
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Complex-Car-809 Mar 24, 2026 +2
Equally I wonder if it is not always possible to know or catch it, or some types are particularly aggressive? Loved one did screening every two years, no symptoms until a blood clot (colon cancer can increase risk of clots, or maybe all cancers do that? Am not sure). Admitted through a and e, did whatever they had to do for dvt, identified the root cause as colon cancer, already spread to lungs, discharged home with palliative care, dead 11 days after first going to a and e for "sports injury" at 54. Maybe two years is too long a gap for screening? I know it won't detect all types though, so maybe only the full colonoscopy investigation would pick up.
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scriptingends Mar 24, 2026 +1
Unfortunately there are always going to be outliers, but yes, a “screening” is not always the same as a colonoscopy
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yes_ipsa_loquitur Mar 24, 2026 +2
My American health insurance will never approve that 🙃 it’s cheaper for me to die
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Don-Poltergeist Mar 24, 2026 +2
My wife is 45 and was recently diagnosed with a carcinoid neuroendocrine tumor in her small intestine (not colorectal, but still GI). Thankfully they seem to have caught it pretty early and are performing surgery next week to remove it. Will have to see afterwards if chemo or radiation will be necessary.
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tyleritis Mar 24, 2026 +2
How was it caught?
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Don-Poltergeist Mar 24, 2026 +3
Endoscopy. She had been having stomach problems for awhile, and they couldn’t figure it out, so they finally did both a endoscopy and colonoscopy and found it.
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lafolieisgood Mar 25, 2026 +1
Any idea what’s causing this. I got my first colonoscopy at 46 years old and the doctor told me, “see you in 10 years”. I’m not a health nut, don’t eat a lot of fiber, probably drink too much alcohol etc.
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scriptingends Mar 25, 2026 +1
Lots of possible causes - more sedentary lifestyle, more processed foods, increase in microplastics (my bet is on that last one, it’s causing all kinds of problems)
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Ok-Highway-5247 Mar 24, 2026 +8
This is getting terrifying. I think we need to start going for colonoscopies in our 20s.
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Dr-Mumm-Rah Mar 24, 2026 +7
Its in the food. Its one thing most of us have in common, rich or poor. A lot of us like our shitty ultra processed foods, hormone injected and cured meats.
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ulchachan Mar 24, 2026
Whilst there are cancer rate rises that cannot be explained by aging populations, obesity etc., it has always been generally true that if you live long enough, we would [all get cancer ](https://www.theguardian.com/society/2018/apr/22/cancer-mutations-and-the-facts-of-life-evolution-oncogene-robert-weinberg). And even outside the hypothetical between 1/2 and 1/3 of all people in western countries will get cancer in their lifetimes Edit: source for the lifetime risk https://www.cancerresearchuk.org/health-professional/cancer-statistics/statistics-by-cancer-type/all-cancers-combined/risk
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Little_View_6659 Mar 24, 2026 +12
Colon cancer rates are way up. My daughter 👶 s super paranoid about it, she’s in med school and she’s seeing younger and younger patients.
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sierra120 Mar 24, 2026 +3
What’s the latest food rave? There is either something in the food or drinks that was introduced or were being biased and more susceptible to thinking it’s happening more often when it’s not.
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TheOliveYeti Mar 24, 2026 +2
People need to eat more fiber
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pickleranger Mar 24, 2026 +7
Ugh… As a 42 yo who is 3 months into a change in my bowel movements (Dr is aware, we are monitoring/trying stuff) this is *terrifying* to me. Poor lady.
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scriptingends Mar 24, 2026 +7
Have you had a colonoscopy yet? Seems like that would be advisable.
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pickleranger Mar 24, 2026 +4
That will happen if things don’t improve with the things we are trying. Probably in summer if it don’t get sorted out. The good news is, I’m not having the *really* scary symptoms like unexplained weight loss and such. But it’s hard not to let my mind wander off into the anxiety zone when I read stories like this :(
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scriptingends Mar 24, 2026 +2
Well, you're monitoring it - that's all you can do. With a good medical team, whatever happens, you'll be able to manage it. Good luck. Also, people in this thread seem to be saying that a colonoscopy is a "horrible" procedure - it's not, if you go under anesthesia for it (some people opt for the "partial sedation" one, which just seems to me to be sadistic, when the other option exists...). You literally go to sleep and wake up 2 hours later, pain-free and none the wiser.
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pickleranger Mar 24, 2026 +2
Yeah the procedure doesn’t scare me. The prep doesn’t sound fun, but I’ve grown and birthed 3 babies. It can’t possibly be worse than that!
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Heimatlos-Malot Mar 24, 2026 +1
Your experience isn’t universal. I find the experience horrible, like a lot of people. Glad you're unfazed by it.
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scriptingends Mar 24, 2026
How is it "horrible" when you are asleep? Because you can't eat for a few days? It's an adult procedure - be an adult about it. The alternatives are far worse.
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sierra120 Mar 24, 2026 +1
What are the changes in bowel movement?
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Acceptable-Till2948 Mar 24, 2026 +22
Really sad, she seemed like such a strong and positive person. Rest in peace.
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BusyBeeBridgette Mar 24, 2026 +9
So many actors are dying this past month, wtf? RIP.
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Forever-lurker-kinja Mar 24, 2026 +5
In their 50s too... so young
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pond-dweller Mar 24, 2026 +10
I’m watching her right now. This rattled the f*** out of me
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chill90ies Mar 24, 2026 +3
Really sad news. I loved her input in the show. She seems as such a strong and caring individual. Very sad to die at such a young age.
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zetaphi_820 Mar 24, 2026 -5
The worst part is the prep. It takes minutes. I was awake and it was like a video game “shooting” a few polyps.
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