My opinion has always been that the issue wasn’t the finale itself but how it was built up to.
The show spent multiple seasons convincing viewers that Barney and Robin were meant for each other and an entire season on their wedding weekend. So breaking them up in an episode and killing off Ted’s wife to set up a future reunion with Robin felt abrupt. The ending may have worked with a different setup.
But I also don’t mind the ending as much as others do, still occasionally watch random episodes of the show from earlier seasons and enjoy them.
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RosettiMar 21, 2026
+437
They also spent those seasons explaining why Ted and Robin don't work, and shouldn't be together. Including an awful scene in the last season where Robin literally floats away as Ted "let's her go". And then they expect us to be happy for them getting back together in their later years...
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nguyenjitsuMar 22, 2026
+141
I actually think they solve this because the show kinda puts forth the idea the only thing that really separates Robin and Ted is Ted's desire for kids and for a relationship where they're kinda "all in" on doing everything for each other. That goes away once he finally has kids with Tracy and she passes away.
The problem is the Barney and Robin side of it imo. Barney's true happiness being found in having a kid feels really unearned. If that was the thing and kept him and Robin from staying married, then that would have actually felt like a payoff, but it's never really addressed for Barney UNTIL the finale. And for Robin, like... She just kinda has her career, is sad about being away from the group because of it, and then sits around until Ted finally grieves for Tracy and comes back to her? Doesn't really wrap up either of the characters' arcs in a satisfying way.
141
action_lawyer_comicsMar 22, 2026
+79
The thing is, HIMYM always had a litmus test for couples, and that was kids. All the stuff with Barney and his dad in the later seasons gave him and Robin the same problem she and Ted had.
Also, I don’t know if it was due to being rushed, but I kinda hated how Barney treated Robin as a fiancé. Everything he did was a lie, and a grand spectacle of a lie at that. He didn’t actually burn The Playbook when he said he did, he refused to compromise at all when talking about moving in together, and there was so much unnecessary drama at the week of the wedding because he kept doing stupid shit like bringing a magic trick that looked like a bomb onto a plane. All it did was piss her off and stress her out.
Barney being the weird, sad friend you meet at the bar twice a year who ditches you when he sees a hot woman was the most “right” feeling part of the whole finale.
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nguyenjitsuMar 22, 2026
+49
Yeah I think that's also a big part of why the finale falls flat too. The whole last season feels like it should be building what will ultimately burn down Robin and Barney's marriage and it just ends up being Robin's job/travel schedule...? It feels like it should be around the idea that Barney cannot maintain the romance around Robin without tricking her or something like that but it's just... not related to anything they've built in the final season.
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toddthefox47Mar 22, 2026
+9
The fact that he's traveling the world with her but he can't blog on the hotel wifi or something
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100292Mar 22, 2026
+12
The magic trick bomb was with Quinn, not Robin
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ImperfectRegulatorMar 22, 2026
+5
> because he kept doing stupid shit like bringing a magic trick that looked like a bomb onto a plane
wasn't this from the girl he proposed to earlier in the show? or did he also bring a bomb to the robin one? its been awhile
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AlexandarossMar 22, 2026
+4
That's because Barney didn't really change until he had a child as that was his destiny. One of Barney's biggest issues was around his own dad and his deep deep denial that bled into every aspect of his life so becoming a dad himself and devoting himself to his daughter was what changed him.
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cs1410Mar 22, 2026
+5
I haven't read every response yet but I'm gonna just throw in an idea that can also help apply towards multiple explanations.
This show was one of the last (dying) breeds of sitcoms that was required to pump out more episodes than were truly needed.
It overcorrected itself and now we get less than we want but I think the pressure to make too much of a thing, created fatigue in the writers room and the audience suffered for it
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prazulsaltaretMar 22, 2026
+4
It definitely has filler but compared to friends and 2 1/2 men it really has moments that hit you in the heart. Like this is a sitcom but is known for its heartbreaking scenes.
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AlexandarossMar 22, 2026
+9
Agreed, i said the same above. I'd add that Robins side of it was she wanted a career, she wanted to travel the world and be a great journalist so she wasn't able to commit to the kind of relationship that Ted wanted. By the end she's older and she did all that and she's now willing to settle down. They weren't right for each other in the main timeline of the show but they were by the end. It was supposed to be fate, they always were supposed to be together just not at the time or in the way Ted envisioned when he met her.
Barney's destiny was fatherhood which makes sense since his main hangup was over his father he was in deep denial about Bob Barker then his brothers black father being his dad.
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melodypowersMar 22, 2026
+16
That makes it even worse for me.
Like Ted ended up with the mother just to have kids when the real end game was always Robin.
But also, the mother was so much better than Robin.
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Outrageous-OpinionsMar 22, 2026
+22
The end game was the mother. Ted and Robin wouldn't be together if the mother hadn't died.
It's two older people finding comfort in each other after they've lived their dream and is on the other side of it.
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melodypowersMar 23, 2026
+2
Of course Robin was the end game. As evidenced by the fact that when he told his kids the story of how he met their mother, it was all about Robin.
2
prazulsaltaretMar 22, 2026
+2
Ted's true love is Tracy. He ends up with Robin because she's the ( distant ) next best thing. You want him to be a single widow forever?
2
OrkidingMeMar 23, 2026
+2
The mother was irritating and not a patch on Robin Scherbatsky.
2
nonresponsiveMar 22, 2026
+23
Imo, they spent a lot of time explaining why Barney and Robin wouldn't work, and a wedding wouldn't solve all those issues. I feel like that relationship was very obviously doomed from the start and didn't make sense.
At least, in theory, Ted was with his wife. His kids represent a good 12 years minimum. I think that's time enough that they've spent as just friends. Ted got to chill out and not think about Robin in that way, and Robin got to continue her career and experience more of life. It's not inconceivable that after so much time, they try again.
I personally don't mind the ending; I just think the final season was a not great.
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AlexandarossMar 22, 2026
+2
I'm with you. Sitcoms like that inevitably decline and i think HIMYM did at the wrong time everything and everyone felt tired in the last Season that was my biggest problem not the end.
2
prazulsaltaretMar 22, 2026
+8
They tell you that you need Chemistry and Timing in Season 2 when they break up. They always had the Chemistry but the Timing sucked because Ted wanted a family and to settle doen and Robin wanted to tour the world and do crazy shit. By the time they re 50 they have both.
It was there from the start.
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AlexandarossMar 22, 2026
+7
The reason they didn't work was because Ted wanted kids and Robin wanted a career around the world. Ted had kids and Robin had her career, by the end they were right for each other. That part actually worked.
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bremidonMar 22, 2026
+6
>They also spent those seasons explaining why Ted and Robin don't work
\*at that time in their lives\* Everyone who brings this up seems to forget that little detail.
Why are so few people aware of the imagery of the lighthouse, how the "mother" was a lighthouse that got everyone safely to where they needed to go, and how that this was even true for Ted?
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repingelMar 21, 2026
+47
They never convinced me Barney and Robin were meant for each other. In fact, they completely butchered Robin's character to make it work. There wasn't a storyline or episode made better by their relationship, in fact, it was all worse off because of it, and I'm glad they got split up in the end.
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hairspraykingMar 22, 2026
+26
I hate when TV shows go too long and the writers decide two random characters should just date now because they don't feel like adding any more characters to the cast. Chandler and Monica is the only time it has ever worked. When they tried to make Joey and Rachel a couple it was horrible, like watching siblings kiss.
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Galahad_the_RangerMar 22, 2026
+13
Friends also scored a huge touchdown when they introduced Mike, it was risky to add a new member to the group when the show is all about those 6 Friends (pun intended) but Paul Rudd had such an unbelievable chemistry with the cast it made me wish he had been there from day 1
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AlexandarossMar 22, 2026
+5
David was supposed to be Phoebe's endgame too and when they introduced Mike they were still planning on her ending up with David but they realized she worked so well with Mike.
5
mrgpsingh1999Mar 23, 2026
+4
I’m honestly glad she didn’t end up with David. Idk why people act like they had some big love story. In S1 he was only in one episode and they were barely together for like a few weeks before he left. It’s not like they were some star crossed lovers throughout the show
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AlexandarossMar 23, 2026
+2
He came back a few times though remember and Phoebe mentioned him a few times as "the love of her life", It very much was written as the star crossed lovers throughout the show and they always planned on them ending together. I agree it didn't work like that for me but it was how it was written.
2
The_Lapsed_PacifistMar 22, 2026
+6
HIMYM had a unique problem because of it’s format. They had to write and record the ending well ahead of time because the children would look totally different. So even though the staff came to be unhappy with how it ended they were painted into a corner.
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lewlkewlMar 22, 2026
+4
Also even though chandler and Monica worked, it effectively killed chandlers character. He was at his best when he was the romantically hopeless single dude who’d play off of Joey
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itdothstinkMar 22, 2026
+5
The episode where they get engaged is great, but also exhibit A for why their relationship is a disaster.
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AlexandarossMar 22, 2026
+3
They weren't meant for each other. Ted and Robin were meant for each other just not on the main timeline of the show because Ted wanted kids and Robin wanted to travel the world. Barney was meant for fatherhood which relates to his own conflict around his own father.
3
TheHistorian2Mar 21, 2026
+77
Exactly this. If the show has been only 6-7 seasons instead of 9, the finale plot wouldn’t have felt the way it did.
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HolyKnightHunMar 22, 2026
+11
I believe the original storyline was meant to be even shorter than that.
The show is literally suffering from success.
11
FilibusterTurtleMar 23, 2026
+3
I remember about halfway through the show's run hearing the showrunners in an interview say something like 'we'd love to keep this show running as long as people want to watch it' and even then - while the show was still fine - I remember thinking 'that is a baaaaaaddddd sign'.
In the end I limped through the last seasons because of the sunk cost fallacy and the promise of The Mother, but my heart was alrwady beginning to wander. The show had really gone downhill. And then they introduce Tracy and the show's quality kinda rallies and I'm like 'damn guys way to bring it home in the final stretch!' I started to believe again. Then the rug pull.
If they had pulled that c*** in (roughly) Season 6 or 7 that would be fine. Up until then I was still willing to entertain the Ted/Robin dynamic because they hadn't stomped all over it. And I hadn't had to suffer the Barney/Robin dynamic (yet? too much? I forget, Seasons 6-8 ish are a blur). But it was the extra seasons of commitment followed by that new glimmer of hope that really made the finale a kick in the balls. Like 'guys, half of that was fine, but you just put us through hell and said that you *weren't going to do* what you just did!' It felt like a shitty magic act where the magician had been promising some incredible magic trick at the end, but 20 seconds after setting up the trick and establishing the rules of the trick up front they just openly break those rules 20 seconds later. 'I sat through 1 good hour and 1 increasingly shitty hour of magic show for the promise of this one incredible magic trick and it was all just...*this*?'
Ta da.
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ColdCorpseHotSecretMar 22, 2026
+12
A big part of why they made the decision to have the entire last season take place over one weekend is that Jason Segal really really really really did not want to do it. They compromised and let him shoot a huge chunk of the season essentially on green screen(all of the car scenes from that season). He had grown to hate his character and the show and wanted to do more “serious” acting roles. They had to figure out a way to shoot the season without Segal in big chunks.
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AlexandarossMar 22, 2026
+7
He hated Marshall? Damn, he must have despised everyone else. Marshall was the most likeable of all of them.
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FilibusterTurtleMar 23, 2026
+5
Might have been less about the character and more about the sameness of playing one character, every day, for years. Like how you can even grow to hate a food you liked in childhood because you binged on it too much.
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coatimundosMar 23, 2026
+3
It’s not about the morality of the character, but about the challenge to the actor. For example, Gillian Jacobs in Community specifically asked the writers to make her character Britta more wacky and stupid so that she could have a more challenging role.
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radiocomicsescapistMar 21, 2026
+20
Me too, I really don’t mind it. The intention makes sense, execution not so much
I actually prefer the table read of the finale more, because you can see the cast and crew and writers laughing and crying in real time
the way Josh radnor narrates the controversial twist, and how the crew reacts to it, actually comes across as more real. I buy more that it’s a reflection that in real life, things end unexpectedly
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saintdemon21Mar 21, 2026
+17
I might be in the minority here, and it’s also been forever since I watched the show, but Robin and Barney’s breakup seemed natural to me. Barney had grown as a character but he was never going to change at his core.
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[deleted]Mar 21, 2026
+15
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redracer67Mar 21, 2026
+3
The formula is so easy. Studios need to stop wasting money on their own streaming services. It loses them money anyway.
Get the show on Netflix, air the show on cable, get new seasons onto Netflix a year later.
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ValleyFloydJamMar 21, 2026
+22
I think the ending is over hated, they put some hints in about it and everything kinda made sense in the end.
But I agree that the execution was messy, everything that happened in the finale EPs should have happened in a final season even if it was just 13 eps, it felt rushed and kinda like an info dump.
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wishyouwouldMar 21, 2026
+10
See I feel the opposite. The whole series they bent over backwards expressing that Ted had no closure until it actually got annoying to watch, and the finale paid all that back and forth off. It was annoying when you thought that the ending was Ted in a relationship with someone else, like... why are you STILL talking about Robin, dude? But then the ending showed us that the Ted and Robin story was the real one they were telling the whole time, right under our noses, and the mother was just a macguffin.
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prazulsaltaretMar 22, 2026
+3
Ted and Tracy is the true, perfect love. Robin is just who he ends up with because Tracy died. The story is still about Ted finding Tracy, it s just that it evolves past that at the very end
3
wishyouwouldMar 22, 2026
+3
I mean that sounds like a... story. But not the one they told. The one they told was a really deep and mature take on relationships where Ted had to accept that the love of his life wasn't going to be the one he ends up with in order to move on and find new love. That's how I read it at least.
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urban287Mar 22, 2026
+3
I think part of it is also that after all the hype and buildup they managed to do the impossible and find a mother that actually met expectations and exceeded them, she was awesome! Felt worth the wait.
and then bam dead.
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ShedMontgomeryMar 21, 2026
+9
This is more or less my take. Ted and Robin's chemistry was very obvious, and I thought they were a good enough fit. I don't hate that they end up giving it another try. That's life.
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JaracRassen77Mar 22, 2026
+2
Yeah, I feel that the Finale should have been stretched out over the course of the season. Maybe the first half could be focused on Barney and Robin's wedding. The second half of the season should have been about the gang growing apart, but still finding time to get together every now and then.Ted and Tracy's growing family, Marshal and Lilly doing their own thing, and Barney and Robin sincerely trying to make things work, but failing.
It all happened much too quickly on-screen.
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ImperfectRegulatorMar 22, 2026
+2
> The show spent multiple seasons convincing viewers that Barney and Robin were meant for each other and an entire season on their >wedding weekend. So breaking them up in an episode and killing off Ted’s wife to set up a future reunion with Robin felt abrupt. The ending may have worked with a different setup.
For me it was spending the entire final season on the Barney/Robin wedding, if instead the wedding had been a two or even three parter to kick off the season, with the rest of the season showing ted falling in love with the mother with small time skips, it would've been much better
2
dorkimoeMar 21, 2026
+2229
Man defends show that made him millions
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alecsgzMar 21, 2026
+466
Still makes him millions
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CheatercheaterbitchMar 21, 2026
+56
Why make billions when he could make…*millions*
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orangesuaveMar 22, 2026
+10
Everyone knows he really just made a lot of pennies, but now that the Treasury is done with those he actually makes nickels.
10
Reuniclus_exeMar 21, 2026
+13
Not that they don't have enough, but I've wondered if the ending has affected their streaming deals in any tangible way. Bingeable sitcoms are cash cows for streaming sites and they shell out for them.
I imagine it still does good numbers but I've never wanted to rewatch it.
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FriendlyratMar 21, 2026
+14
I still rewatch earlier seasons occasionally just usually not the last one.
14
sevillistaMar 21, 2026
+178
More like man refuses to throw friends and coworkers under the bus
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ExcaliburZSHMar 22, 2026
+80
Otherwise known as being professional
80
CountWubbulaMar 22, 2026
+17
So I guess we’ve arrived at, “Extree, extree! Read all about it! This just in!!!! Neil Patrick Harris continues to be a consummate professional! Ya heard it here first!”
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ExcaliburZSHMar 22, 2026
+2
It is the 24 hour news problem.
2
VeronomeMar 21, 2026
+152
Not even about the money. If you work on a show for *years*, come to love the characters, the writing, the director, the cast, the crew, the fans- you're going to feel proud as hell of it. And *even if* it didn't end the way you had hoped, you're not going to publicly trash something that means so much to you.
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Megaclone18Mar 21, 2026
+79
Tell that to the cast of Game of Thrones. You could tell they were pissed during the press tour for the last season.
I think you can be proud of what you did while acknowledging the faults, and that ending was definitely a fault.
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VeronomeMar 21, 2026
+43
That's a fair point. I'd say with Game of Thrones it also felt like a particular betrayal because it wasn't due to writers trying and not quite sticking the landing, but rather writers who couldn't give a damn anymore because they wanted to move onto other projects.
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Toby_O_NotobyMar 22, 2026
+14
Nah, more than one of them has said they were done with the show and couldn’t go on. Both Dinklage and Harrington have said they were ready to quit and others have indicated the same.
Plus the both of them, Coster-Waldau and Turner have all come out in defense of the ending. From NCWM
> “For anyone to imagine or to think that the two creators of the show are not the most passionate, the greatest, the most invested of all, and to for a second think that they didn’t spend the last 10 years thinking about how they were going to end it is kind of silly,” Coster-Waldau said. “And also know that they too read the comments. And it is, even though you sit on your own and go, ‘F****** stupid writers. Assholes.’ They really ― like everyone on ‘Game of Thrones,’ every single person and there are thousands ― we worked our asses off to make the best show we could for the ending.”
All this stuff is pretty easy to google, don’t know why people keep repeating it.
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VeronomeMar 22, 2026
+6
While no one came out and declared it was outright terrible, Emilia Clarke absolutely had issues when first reading the script. We've also seen hers and Peter Dinklage's "smile and wave" red carpet reactions as well as Conleth Hill's infamous reaction during the table read.
So it's fair to say reactions were mixed, even though of course there will be cast members who l, like NPH, Will defend it too.
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MappleStarsSkyMar 22, 2026
+3
Emilia Clarke is on record saying that people who hates on the showrunners are losers.
3
NoExcuse4OceanRudnesMar 21, 2026
+18
The ending of game of thrones was bad before the last 45 seconds.
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pandogartMar 21, 2026
+13
Except for Dinkledge and Kit Harrington. Which made me realise we're probably projecting.
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__LaVieEnRoseMar 22, 2026
+3
Agreed, people were thinking any expression was a show of disappointment. When in fact the majority of them seem to have defended it (i dont blame them, some of them copped hate for it which is weird af).
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[deleted]Mar 21, 2026
+12
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MimoggerMar 21, 2026
+11
people keep saying this but i always thought they were just acting like it was shocking. people said this about dinklage who has defended the f*** out of it.
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T-MoseWestsideMar 22, 2026
+4
That's reductive. Mark Hamill openly shit on The Last Jedi, and it still made him millions.
4
BramptonBatallionMar 21, 2026
+729
This is how you stay on everyone’s good graces. Never publicly criticize a creative choice on any project at you worked on.
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No_Use_9652Mar 21, 2026
+175
Clearly working for him. Look at all the well wishes in this thread lol
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silverBruise_32Mar 21, 2026
+85
It probably works with producers and studio heads. Or, rather, they'd take note if he criticized it. What the audiences think is less important for continued employment than that.
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so-much-wowMar 21, 2026
+5
Idk the dude barely works. Voiceovers here and there, one episode appearances, etc.
5
silverBruise_32Mar 21, 2026
+38
Even that's somewhat steady work. Plus, he's had a few starring roles since HIMYM ended (A Series of Unfortunate Events, and, more recently, that dramedy that lasted for one season). He probably does okay.
He's not a mega star, but he gets work. And he probably doesn't want to stop working because he talked smack about a previous project.
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prazulsaltaretMar 22, 2026
+6
He was in Gone Girl, Dexter
6
silverBruise_32Mar 22, 2026
+2
Like I said, he's a working actor, and one who probably doesn't want to bite the hand that feeds him, even though he could probably afford it.
2
the_tanookiMar 22, 2026
+5
He was the toy maker in a Doctor Who special with David Tennant, as well.
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silverBruise_32Mar 22, 2026
+2
That, too
2
AberrantkittenMar 21, 2026
+17
I saw him in a play on Broadway last September. He’s definitely working.
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Jet-Let4606Mar 21, 2026
+3
Yep. Just not as high profile as he used to.
3
DGSmith2Mar 21, 2026
+28
Barely works but has a net worth of 50 million dollars sign me up.
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throwaway99922277775Mar 22, 2026
+12
> the dude barely works
He’s been in 17 screen projects in the last five years
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cozmckittyMar 21, 2026
+49
For real. Look what happened to Katherine Heigl. Now she’s doing charity events at Maralago with Lara Trump
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hotdoggitydangMar 22, 2026
+6
I had to look this up! This is so disappointing.
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DJC_KowalskiMar 21, 2026
+11
One wonders how big her career would have been had she played the game instead of stabbing everyone in the back that she ever worked with.
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cozmckittyMar 21, 2026
+31
I don’t even think she was wrong about how they did her character dirty on Grey’s but badmouthing the writers was such a stupid thing to do.
Like I don’t mean to be pedantic, but she could have learned a huge lesson by watching the episode of Friends where Joey claimed he wrote all his own lines on his soap and they wrote his character into a coma.
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DJC_KowalskiMar 21, 2026
+15
It's funny how all the successful stars are always talking about how brilliant the Directors or Writers or co-Stars are. In an industry where your next job is by word of mouth, its not surprising that those who are successful play the game. Leo Dicaprio has said that he got introduced to Scorsese by Deniro who worked with DiCaprio on this Boy's Life.
It's a very small world in Showbiz. It's insane to burn bridges the way Heigl did.
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Toby_O_NotobyMar 22, 2026
+8
“The toes you step on today might be connected to the ass you have to kiss tomorrow.” - Sam Jackson
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Toby_O_NotobyMar 22, 2026
+4
There was also the time she badmouthed her own movie calling Knocked Up “sexist”. Yeah, pissing off Judd Apatow and Seth Rogan ain’t great for your career.
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itdothstinkMar 22, 2026
+2
And hawking dog food.
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AF2005Mar 22, 2026
+5
Don’t burn bridges. NPH will never shit on that series
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HowmanyslothsMar 21, 2026
+71
Remember when Neil served a cake that was made to look like Amy Winehouse’s corpse after she died? F*** that piece of shit.
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joyous_quorumMar 21, 2026
+36
Big Supporter of it!
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FunnOnABunnMar 22, 2026
+8
It was actually a plate of meats
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lee1026Mar 21, 2026
+2
Doubt he needed to say anything, especially since he apparently stayed silent all of those years.
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danny_healy_raygunMar 23, 2026
+2
I disagree with him but I respect him sticking by the show. Its too easy to come out and say "oh I hated it too" just because you know its the popular choice.
2
nowhereman136Mar 21, 2026
+97
I'd prefer if Barny married Quinn (the stripper) instead of Robin. Aside from that, the story the finale tells I like. I like that Ted meets Tracy at the wedding and that she eventually passes away. What I don't like is how they stretch the wedding out to an entire season and then cram 20 years of Ted and Tracy into a one episode montage. They should've reversed that
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michinessMar 22, 2026
+15
Honestly I never bought him and Robin. I liked Nora a bunch though.
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MFoyMar 21, 2026
+7
They were kind of shoe horned into the way they told that last season by a really shitty budget.
They had no money for a lot of things they had before, so by telling the wedding all along the season, they didn’t have to build new sets.
By having Marshall stuck with Sherri Shepherd’s character, they could bang out their episodes in a day and save on money that way.
Now the execution of these ideas left a lot to be desired, but that was the whole reason why the wedding was spread out over a season.
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ExhaustedByStupidityMar 21, 2026
+20
Money wasn't the issue. The network was throwing money at them begging for more.
They intended to end the show one season earlier and were heading toward an ending. About halfway thru that season the network started begging them to do one more season. They had to squeeze in another season of story after they had aired episodes that started winding down the story.
And the Marshall stuff was because he didn't want to do the show anymore. He only came back when they agreed to reduce his schedule.
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DGSmith2Mar 21, 2026
+6
Build new sets? They used the same sets throughout the entire run of the show, if anything making the wedding venue set would have cost them more because it was all a new set they had never used before.
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ColdCorpseHotSecretMar 22, 2026
+2
Jason Segal didn’t want to come back to do the last season, so they compromised with him and let him shoot a huge chunk of the season on green screen so he could pursue more “serious” acting roles. The only way the season was going to work is if they had a way to explain why his character isn’t part of the ensemble for most of the season.
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zoobrixMar 21, 2026
+262
The resetting of Barney's character back to what it was at the start of the show was a poor choice though. It not working out with Robyn maybe could have been fine but they took years of Barney's character development and just reset it in an instant making the audience feel like a huge part of his story line was a waste of time to watch. Just like many people felt about the last season being one huge bottle show and killing off Teds wife that we barely met.
It's not just one or two things people don't like about the end of the series, it's that it had so many missteps that they really missed the landing. And that it felt like some of these decisions were made just because they'd be unexpected twists made it all worse.
The end of your show should be informed by the entirety of what you were showing people for years, not a bunch of "gotcha, bet you didn't see this coming!" It's c**** unearned story telling and it's no surprise it went over like a lead balloon. edit: typos
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idontwantanamernMar 21, 2026
+122
I was pretty close in age with the characters as this aired, which is when I watched the show. I had (and still have) friends who are older than me, as well as family who I watched get married and divorced. Barney's character development (all-inclusive) was very reminiscent of a handful of people I knew. They ran around, found the one, got married -- and... Well... They just weren't that guy after all. Or the mid-life crisis hit and suddenly they were back to acting like a 25yr old again.
Life is a long road and a lot of things happen. Sometimes quickly and sometimes slowly; some good, some bad.
It's personally one of my favorite endings because it showcases something that more closely reflects life and how it can pivot.
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Mattock79Mar 21, 2026
+83
My only problem with the Barney/Robin thing, was they set up that wedding for like 3 seasons. More if you count the season they were actively dating each other. Teaser after teaser. And then they get married, and within a couple of episodes they are divorced. It's not unrealistic that they get divorced and Barney goes back to Barney, but ALLLL of that buildup to just erase it instantly didn't land for me.
83
SourcingCrowdMar 21, 2026
+24
You could say the same thing about the mother. It wasn’t a bad story it was just super rushed.
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ascagnel____Mar 21, 2026
+30
The original sin of the finale was choosing to focus on the wedding weekend for the majority of the runtime for the final season. It should've been something we checked in on from time-to-time, and the reveal of the mother's death should've happened way earlier so they could trace the arc of those characters.
If you approach it from the perspective of "Ted is asking his kids if it's ok that he ask their surrogate mom (Robin) out, even though they've been down that road already", the whole show (finale included) makes more sense. But treating the reveal that the mother is dead like a surprise means you have to rush through the arcs to get to the moment where Ted asks his kids if it's OK.
Edit:
To expand on this a little, if we want to keep the ending (Ted asking Robin out, in a mirror to the pilot), the show needs to show four things:
1. Robin is truly unhappy about not having kids -- but achieves her professional goals
2. Ted is truly happy with Tracey
3. Once Tracey dies, Robin becomes a surrogate mom to the kids, and they love her
4. Ted and Robin are still romantically compatible
Points 1 & 2 are really, _really_ important -- for the ending to work, we need to know that Ted and Robin met the life goals they set out for themselves and ultimately caused them to break up the first time. And #2 also needs to established that Ted letting Robin go was genuine -- he can't be hung up on her for 15+ years while "the love of his life" is dying of some unspecified illness.
They say you should know the answer to a marriage proposal before you ask, and this is a similar situation -- it should be Ted warning his kids about everything he and Robin have been through, both together and individually, because him asking will impact them too. We should already be seeing that Ted and Robin work in kind of a weird, unofficial co-parent-y way. We should see that Robin unconditionally loves Ted's kids as much as he does. And only then, it makes sense to have Ted ask someone who's already a major part of his life out on a date after getting approval from his kids.
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ShepardRTCMar 21, 2026
+4
Writers did that with Andy on The Office. You see this big character arc over the years, him and Erin finally get together, and then they decide to completely invalidate it. I think its just laziness or burn out.
4
zoobrixMar 21, 2026
+31
> Barney's character development (all-inclusive) was very reminiscent of a handful of people I knew. They ran around, found the one, got married -- and... Well... They just weren't that guy after all.
Sure that happens to people but they have to *show* the progression of how Barney got there, not just shoehorn it in a scene that is a few minutes long in the last episode. We went from "Barney and Robyn happily ever after" to "surprise, nope!" in practically an instant. That's what I was talking about when I said the ending was c**** and unearned, it didn't seem believable because you didn't show the audience any of how Barney reverted to his old ways. A couple minutes monologue about his marriage isn't enough.
And when combined with the fact they spent the entire last season on the wedding weekend but 2 seconds on why it fell apart is only going to make people think the ending is even worse because they could have spent time that last season showing it, instead of the gotcha ending they went with. They might have been able to have the ending they did and not have people dislike it so much, but the way they went about it was hamfisted, rushed and felt c****.
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itdothstinkMar 22, 2026
+6
That whole wedding weekend was throwing it in your face how Barney and Robin were doomed. Just because they managed to get down the aisle didn't mean that all the c*** they hand-waved away wasn't going to matter down the road. It did.
The only thing I'll fault the writers on is that the actual tipping point for the divorce was lacking, probably because they felt like it was pointless to rehash what a dumpster fire that relationship really was.
6
isubird33Mar 23, 2026
+2
Also roughly the same age, a bit younger but not too too far off. Completely agree. Real life isn't a clean progression of character development and growth. Sometimes it seems like someone has changed (for better or worse) and looks that way for years...and then one day they're back to exactly who they were. Sometimes the person seems like they will never change flips a switch overnight.
2
cows1100Mar 21, 2026
+8
Yup. People don’t like it because TV is supposed to be escapism, but the ending is incredibly true to how life actually goes. That’s why I like it, but I understand why people don’t.
8
ZimmonsInteractiveMar 21, 2026
+19
My problem is that like 70% of the show is not how real life actually goes. It uses sitcom convenience like any other, so for them to be like “This is real life, motherfuckers” instead of just letting the characters have the happy ending they deserve is kinda fucked up
19
gmrzw4Mar 21, 2026
+55
Yeah, him saying that of course Barney won't change overnight doesn't make sense, because he didn't change overnight at all. He grew over the course of the show, as is expected when you spend that long with characters, but they threw seasons worth of growth in the toilet and had him go back to his scummy origins overnight.
55
TalidelMar 21, 2026
+22
I saw him having a kid as the thing that changed him.
He "fell off the wagon" after the break up with Robin, and found himself finally with his daughter.
22
DustedGrooveMarkMar 21, 2026
+5
I will say, I wasn’t a fan of the finale by any means, but I didn’t mind Barney’s “regression” at the end. I think it was more that he was FORCING himself to be “old Barney” for the sake of it because he felt sort of lost after his split with Robin. It was like….he retreated to the only place that was familiar.
When he finds out he is going to be a father, he is completely ready. Even if it wasn’t the writers’ intention, I’d like to think that all of his character development, repaired relationship with his father and his whole relationship with Robin (even though it failed) readied him for fatherhood. So it wasn’t all a waste!
5
clycomanMar 21, 2026
+8
They filmed the finale with the kid actors years in advance and refused to alter it based on where the characters were actually at by that point. So all the development everyone went through didnt matter in the end.
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cjcfmanMar 21, 2026
+8
I disagree. From what I remember from the show Barney just wasn't cut out to be in serious relationships but still wanted some sort of love. His ending he got that unconditional love he was searching by having a kid, while also getting to enjoy the single life.
He got the best ending out of all of them. Felt fullifilled having a kid while also getting to enjoy his "Clooney years" lol
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zoobrixMar 21, 2026
+11
Him regressing could have worked, but reversing 2 or 3 seasons of character development in one episode was never going to be well received. We needed to at least see some of Barney regressing, not have it explained in a few minute monologue and then one scene of him back in a bar.
That's why I called the ending c**** and unearned in general. You're supposed to tell the audience the story by showing it to them, exposition to explain major character and plot shifts is just bad writing full stop. And then when the entire last season is just in the wedding weekend it feels even worse because they had the time to show more of the rest of the story, but chose not to.
11
prazulsaltaretMar 22, 2026
+2
But it s not a permanent reversal it s just the way he processes heartbreak. Barneys whole playboy persona is just something he adopted because he was bullied in school for having no girlfriend ( so he began seeing sleeping around as something cool ) and because his first love cheated on him with the rich guy from PLEASE.
Barney doesn t actually want to be a Playboy it s just easier to never be vulnerable and never risk heartbreak. He's wearing a mask, but everyone knows it's a mask. They're so happy when he takes it off when he finds someone decent to be with ( Nora, Robin, even Quinn ).
He lived a life of rejections ( his dad, his first love, even Robin chooses Kevin over him ) and he is hurt. That's how he copes, he goes away inside and defaults to casual sex.
2
forgottenarrowMar 22, 2026
+2
Really? It made perfect sense to me. It’s completely natural for him to backslide once his marriage with Robin failed. And when he found a reason to change for good (his daughter), his growth throughout the show allowed him to become who he needed to be. That’s where his character development paid off.
2
prazulsaltaretMar 21, 2026
+2
> The resetting of Barney's character back to what it was at the start of the show was a poor choice though. It not working out with Robyn maybe could have been fine but they took years of Barney's character development
But they didn't, though. Barney whoring around is just his coping/trauma mechanism. When Barney becomes a dad he straightens up and leaves that life behind.
2
IstIsmPhobeMar 21, 2026
+28
Their big misstep was casting Milioti (and probably introducing the mother at all). If we never meet mom, the audience is probably fine with most of the GFs ending up the mom and him ending up ultimately with Robin. Once Milioti showed up though, she was so effortlessly charming anything other than a long happy life together was going to be a disaster.
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artemus_whoMar 21, 2026
+32
It really is crazy how they built up this perfect person and then managed to FIND that person. She's so good
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i_am_not_samMar 21, 2026
+12
For sure. I wonder if even the show runners had thought she'd elevate the mom character so much. After all the build up it was almost impossible for any actress to make it believe that Ted's journey had been worth it. And they almost pulled it off too! Had they stuck with Milioti I'm sure the show's legacy would have been... wait for it...
12
PistachioDonut34Mar 22, 2026
+5
100%. She was just so perfect that she deserved her happy life with Ted. It would have been so much easier if we'd never met her.
5
keving87Mar 21, 2026
+33
The finale itself as a whole isn't a problem, it's the last few minutes where they rush through a montage and tell us Tracy died and basically act like she was just a blip for Ted on his way back to Robin is what people don't like... She deserved better than that.
I wouldn't have minded if he got back with Robin so much in general, but they threw it out too soon when it'd have needed to take much longer because they were just too stuck on using the ending they filmed back during season 2.
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hellpresidentMar 21, 2026
+220
He is a bad judge of good decisions so not suprised
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VoraciousChallengeMar 21, 2026
+45
The Amy Winehouse cake is a great example of that.
It would be different if they had been friends who shared a dark sense of humour or something, or even if it had been like 10 years later and part of a macabre collection of different foods, but as far as I know it was just a really bad, random, one-off idea.
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violueMar 21, 2026
+45
I recently learned it was not a cake, it was a *meat platter* which somehow makes it even more gross.
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VoraciousChallengeMar 21, 2026
+10
Yeah I knew it was meat, but I figured it was semantics, like that they called it "cake" to distinguish it from like deli meats since it was moulded to her face.
10
TonyWonderslostnutMar 21, 2026
+18
He’s a big supporter of making that bag
18
RepulsiveLoquat418Mar 21, 2026
+60
ok
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telepek25Mar 21, 2026
+14
The baseframe for the story imo was solid, it's the execution where they fucked it up 🤷
I don't remember much of this show, since it ended, but I remember loving the idea of Barney and Robin ending up divorced - it was a unique idea, to show that not every love story keeps being a fairytale forever. That idea alone had the potential for a whole season of storytelling, and instead, they divorced in a span of an episode 🤦
Also, unironically, they fucked themselves over by casting Cristin Milioti as the Mother. She was just so perfect, and wasting her on a couple of episodes that ended with her death was also a waste of her potential.
14
Cdog923Mar 21, 2026
+13
Noted "Haver of Good Opinions" Neil Patrick Harris.
13
MasuiaMar 21, 2026
+5
NPH heavily influenced the whole Barney and Robin arc. Iirc it wasn’t in the original plan but NPH pushed for it until they did it.
5
MR_TELEVOIDMar 21, 2026
+67
This man is a dingus.
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NullhitterMar 21, 2026
+31
Ending was trash. Years of Barney's character growth gone in an instant and years of Robin/Ted being shown that even though they were compatible they weren't "it". Plus, years of building up the mother as being more for Ted than every woman he's ever been with, especially Robin, and nailing it. Only to throw the mother into the trash because they wouldn't change their minds about Robin/Ted. NPH and the rest of the cast can defend the ending all they want, the truth it the audience's opinion is what matters and the majority of the audience hated it. There's a reason why the head people that created the show haven't done much since HIMYM ended.
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Pale_Fire21Mar 21, 2026
+20
“Man defends people who made him metaphorical boatloads of money”
I too would defend whatever TV show I’m on no matter how awful it is if they were paying me 400,000$ an episode.
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mae1347Mar 21, 2026
+21
Who cares at this point?
21
hithiminthefaceMar 21, 2026
+3
Pretty much only people who followed the show when it was airing and watched the finale live.
I still don’t like it, but I’ve moved on.
3
tsumtsumelleMar 21, 2026
+17
I get why longtime fans didn’t like it, it’s the same reason I loathed the ending of Lost. But as someone who binged watched HIMYM, the ending seemed blindingly obvious to me, like of course that’s how it was always going to end, I’m surprised people didn’t see it coming. The mother was only ever a narrative tool, it was always the Ted & Robin story.
17
bravetailorMar 21, 2026
+15
I think everyone agrees that was the plan all along. The problem is the show evolved in different ways and different chemistry developed between the actors so they should have adjusted for that. Instead, they probably stuck to the plan from even before the show was casted.
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AgentElmanMar 21, 2026
+8
Right. Just like everyone who watched Arrow saw the relationship with Felicity develop over the show and were happy that the show adjusted to that instead of forcing him to get together with Laurel Lance.
8
ExhaustedByStupidityMar 21, 2026
+12
It was obviously the plan at the start. They filmed that ending scene with the kids during season 2.
Barney and Robin were never intended to be together, but somewhere along the way they realized they worked well together. Much better than Ted & Robin. And they wrote the show that way.
And we got seasons and seasons repeating "Ted + Robin doesn't work" followed by "Ted has finally learned his lesson and moved on from Robin."
If you were watching it as it aired, the endless repetition of "Ted + Robin doesn't work" got old. We got the message long before Ted did.
The ending we got felt like "we filmed this scene with the kids years ago, so we have to use it, even if it no longer makes sense."
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PositiveZeroPersonMar 22, 2026
+2
>it’s the same reason I loathed the ending of Lost
They had opposite problems, though. HIMYM was overplanned from the beginning, while Lost had no plan. They never explained what ~~the Island~~ the Heart of the Island was, why it was important, and how it tied into the themes of the show. And "What is the Island?" was the central premise of the show.
Vince Gilligan has it figured out. Have a general direction, but don't marry yourself to a plot.
2
mrwho995Mar 21, 2026
+11
I thought the ending to HIMYM was a good idea, and I think it could have worked under the right circumstances. It told quite a mature story about how people can regress, on the nature of love, on the process of grief, on the nature of change. But it was so rushed it fell flat on its face. It needed an entire season, not two episodes after wasting the entire final season on a wedding that was then immediately made irrelevant. The real mistake was the final season, not the ending.
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hepatitisCMar 22, 2026
+5
The last season was the issue, not just the last episode. You spent the entire season on the wedding only you cram everything with the mother into roughly twenty minutes. If the first couple episodes of the season were the wedding and then the remainder was letting the relationship with the mother develop before the ending, it would make a lot more sense.
Barney reverting back is dumb in any event
5
Creative_Eye7413Mar 21, 2026
+53
I will never forgive him for the Amy Winehouse platter
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bjo313Mar 21, 2026
+13
the finale was literally a perfect episode until the last like 3-5 minutes
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NoLegeIsPowerMar 22, 2026
+3
Which is why the alternate ending fixes it completely by just replacing those last few minutes.
3
HalfwitMichaelMar 21, 2026
+3
i think it’s really funny that on the podcast he talks about it, they immediately say “now there’s gonna be a bunch of headlines talking about this” and that’s exactly what happened. it’s less a defense and more him talking about why it made sense to him, which is completely fair in my opinion.
3
SirgeeeoMar 21, 2026
+3
I liked the finale. The creators had a vision and stuck to it. No one expected Cristin Milioti to come in and knock it out of the park.
3
rudyattitudedeeMar 21, 2026
+3
I didn’t think it was too bad, same with lost, i know others hated it.
3
FLcitizenMar 22, 2026
+3
Ofcourse he i$$$$$$
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coltvahnMar 21, 2026
+15
He is incorrect.
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metz123Mar 21, 2026
+6
Someone’s (Nph) trying to convince everyone to watch it again to bump up his residual checks.
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SpeakersPushTheA1rMar 22, 2026
+7
Neil Patrick Harris has a lot of really bad takes so this tracks.
7
SamuelYosemiteMar 21, 2026
+12
How does he defend the gambling ads?
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MFoyMar 21, 2026
+2
With the multi-million dollar security system they helped him buy.
2
travioMar 21, 2026
+7
I thought it was fine, personally, but I don't think we can take NPH's word here. Actors who shit on their own work often lose future jobs.
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crazyguyunderthedeskMar 21, 2026
+5
Yeah they also made him more relevant than he'd been since he was a kid and he walked away from a fun job that paid him millions for years.
It wouldn't just be unprofessional, it'd make him an a******. Whether or not the ending was good, it's not like they didn't try. It's a creative field and sometimes what you think the audience will love, well, they don't.
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Zauberer-IMDBMar 21, 2026
+10
Yes. Lets take taste advice from the Amy Winehouse cake jerk off.
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xayzerMar 21, 2026
+2
The ending was meh but so was the whole show.
2
sonofthebat2099Mar 22, 2026
+2
I personally think the show made more sense because of the ending. The show was called how I met your mother but all he talked about was his failed relationships and his off again on again relationship with Robin. It made more sense that he was basically trying to justify the to his kids why he wants to go for Robin. It was a man who felt a lot of guilt for moving on from his wife who passed and he wanted to justify it to his kids.
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THE_RyanMar 22, 2026
+2
HIMYM was an amazing sitcom, and it fell victim to what a lot of shows do when they're on for that long. The original story gets tossed to the side because of the success of the show, writers make an entirely new story with no real end in sight, actors or studio decide it's done after the next season and the writers are forced to conclude the story in shortened fashion.
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conflagrareMar 22, 2026
+2
The ending was pre-planned back in season 1. That’s why they pre-shot all the scenes with the kids before they got old.
The ending was always meant to be.
Like u/AKAkorn said, I have a problem with how they got to the ending.
2
farseer6Mar 22, 2026
+2
What is he going to say? It's his show.
2
KID_THUNDAHMar 23, 2026
+2
[The Alternate Ending is better](https://youtu.be/nhB5oQgQpOI?si=m0T26fi1eqZslvyg)
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TakcoMar 21, 2026
+6
I mean to each their own. Love NPH but that finale was f****** garbage. One weekend taking an entire season just pissed me off.
Ted and robin should have had a season where they’re both happily married imo.
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FunkTrontoMar 21, 2026
+4
He’s clearly correct. Finale worked and absolutely worked for me.
4
zowietremendouslyMar 21, 2026
+4
Show should've been called How I Met Robin.
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ShadowXJMar 21, 2026
+3
I actually liked the ending, I will now accept everyone’s downvotes.
3
PlatasaurusOGMar 21, 2026
+5
Around here we call this show “How I spent 8 years gaslighting my kids into thinking it’d be cool if I started porking Aunt Robin again”
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RevolutionaryWeb5657Mar 21, 2026
+8
Been saying this for 12 years. It’s like people have never met a guy like this. They like him as a fictional character so they want the best for him, but a person like this in the real world would end up exactly like he did. If depicting reality is what they were after, they nailed it.
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NMe84Mar 21, 2026
+14
Except in the show he actually had years worth of character development...which they completely threw out in the finale.
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MFoyMar 21, 2026
+5
He had a devastating personal loss and regressed to who he was as a way of coping.
I understand why people hate it, but I get it.
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I_need_a_date_plzMar 21, 2026
+5
NPH can go f*** himself.
That Amy Winehouse meat platter was disgraceful.
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spaceraingameMar 21, 2026
+1
I think it’s up there with Game of Thrones and Seinfeld as one of the worst TV finales ever.
1
Jankat7Mar 21, 2026
+4
Let's not go that far, I don't think any other show can even get close to GoT in terms of having a horrendous finale.
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spyrescaMar 21, 2026
+2
Loved the Seinfeld ending.
2
MFoyMar 21, 2026
+4
I thought the Seinfeld finale was great.
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ThePhantomOfBroadwayMar 21, 2026
+3
I’m a fan of the finale simply because it was different than most finale and was something they planned since the beginning (or early days). I have a lot of respect for it! It beats boring, predictable happy endings and no one is going to forget it.
Now, I do have a problem with Barney and Robin marriage/break up with the creators knowing the direction they were going in. While I appreciate the message of “every relationship helps define you”, it felt a tad cruel to Barney’s character knowing they were going to break them up immediately. I mean, at least have made it a slow burn to show why they weren’t going to work long term. Ergo, more upset with that few season storylines than the entire finale of them breaking up.
And I don’t think it’s a big deal the show led up to the mother only to have her in for one season. She was never the main point! And Christina/Tracy made her role insanely memorable despite being there for one season.
I truly believe there is beauty in the ending for Ted and Robin. Like, you can have multiple happy endings and loving relationships, it is never just “over”
Any, that’s my soap box.
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itdothstinkMar 22, 2026
+3
The whole final season shows how Barney and Robin's marriage was never going to last. Too many people just blissfully ignored that stuff and bleat about the producers trashing Braney's "character development" like he wasn't still developing up to and during the finale.
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ThePhantomOfBroadwayMar 22, 2026
+3
Honestly, I think you’re right and I’m really blanking on the last season ha ha. I feel like beyond Tracy and Ted, I blocked out the last season as it didn’t do much for me. I need to rewatch for all those hints the marriage wasn’t going to last.
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Individual_Respect90Mar 21, 2026
+5
Nope that ending to this day 10 years after I have seen it I am still angry.
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grump66Mar 21, 2026
+4
> I am still angry.
I only sporadically watched the show, but that was such a shitty, weak, bullshit ending, it made me angry enough to vow to *never watch a single episode ever again*. The creators betrayed and ruined their viewers faith that they'd put into it for **years**.
4
KopavMar 21, 2026
+2
Not going to listen to the podcast. But he's not wrong about the arc of his character:
"Barney is that guy all the way through the run of the show. He’s not going to suddenly change overnight, and I think it would’ve been short-sighted, very ‘TV sitcom logic,’ to suddenly say, ‘Oh, and now everything’s perfect.’ "
2
JordanDoesTVMar 21, 2026
+3
Honestly, I just did my first rewatch since it came out with my gf who never saw it, and it’s definitely overrated, but it plays a lot better as a binge watch than waiting 9 years.
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prazulsaltaretMar 21, 2026
+1
It was f****** OBVIOUS, and I mean hit you in the face OBVIOUS for anyone with a working brain that The Mother was dead.
The 'Time Travelers' episode makes it so f****** obvious. Ted straight up goes on a monologue in front of his imaginary wife about how he wishes he'd had more time with her.
I don't know why people were so shocked.
And I'll say another thing. The Mother was lame/boring as a character. They made her a Female Ted who looks like she was just created to be his soul mate. There was no challenge between them. It felt completely artificial.
At least he and Robin actually went through difficulties and developed and compromised together.
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Mud-BrayMar 21, 2026
+3
It’s not about whether people were shocked or not. It was a stupid story choice lol
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BoweryBlokeMar 21, 2026
-1
He should defend that Amy Winehouse cake he had made, weeks (days?) after she died. The guy is a prick.
-1
QUIBICUSMar 21, 2026
+1
Ending was whatever. I just wanted more interaction with the mom a season or 3. But it might be because I'm a fan of Cristin Milotti.
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Starbucks__LoversMar 21, 2026
+1
This isn’t exclusive, he went on the how I met your mother rewatch podcast and said the same damn thing
1
ballzhangingdownMar 21, 2026
+1
I thought he died, and we gave his wife a lot of money.
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