>*Lynette Hooker’s daughter, Karli Aylesworth,* [*told NBC News*](https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/american-woman-missing-bahamas-falling-overboard-identified-lynette-ho-rcna266889) *that it is unlikely her mother would “just fall” off the boat, saying she was an experienced sailor. The couple had been sailing for years and documented their voyages on social media under the moniker, “The Sailing Hookers.”*
The daughter went on to say that the couple had a "volatile" relationship. So suspicion, for sure.
2487
Ornery-Ticket834Apr 9, 2026
+493
I wonder why they would feel life jackets are optional under those conditions.
493
ErieSpiritApr 9, 2026
+72
>I wonder why they would feel life jackets are optional under those conditions.
A couple things. First the news reporting on the conditions may be embellished. I have done that route in my dinghy before. While the winds were predicted to be 20kts, they were traveling along the lee shore of Elbow Cay. The sea state would have been fairly calm, and the winds blocked by land.
Second, the use of/wearing of PFDs in dingies is maybe unfortunately quite rare. I am a live aboard and have circumavigated over the past 15 years. It is an unusual sight to see someone wearing PFDs in a dinghy. Reasons? First one probably shouldn't be out in a dinghy in conditions that require them. Second, they are difficult to store so they don't get stolen while ashore. Third, the non-bulky auto inflatable PFDs are designed to inflate when they get wet. Either by rain or spray dinghies are often a wet ride.
I am a bit ashamed to say we don't wear PFDs in our dinghy. We do have a little cubby storage compartment in our bow that we keep a couple of the standard orange non-inflatables in, primarily because that is required by law in most countries. Don't wear them though.
Hope this sheds some light on your question.
72
tx_trawler_trashApr 9, 2026
+316
they were in a dinghy - ive taken life jackets in my dinghy exactly zero times, but its a f****** dinghy so you dont ise it in shit weather - its sus af
316
LengthinessAlone4743Apr 9, 2026
+211
Quit playin with your dinghy
211
emptyfullerApr 9, 2026
+37
Need a little wind here.
37
WiltedKangarooApr 9, 2026
+11
No! You need to drop a couple hundred pounds, blimp.
11
WiltedKangarooApr 9, 2026
+7
I guess that’s your theory.
7
Professional-Fee6914Apr 9, 2026
+21
that's crazy, maybe just becuase I always travel around kids but there are always life jackets
21
Oldman_SyndromeApr 9, 2026
+28
The number of times I have seen someone wear a lifejacket when using their dinghy to get to or from their anchored boat is exactly 0.
28
jtobiasbondApr 9, 2026
+46
Because people aren't going to wear life jackets 24/7 in a boat, it's not realistic.
46
[deleted]Apr 9, 2026
+150
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International-IngApr 9, 2026
+25
If you look at their photos, they started off wearing life jackets in their dinghy when they started living aboard their yacht full time 3 years ago. But they quickly became complacent and stopped wearing them and in the Bahamas they didn’t even have them on the dinghy (but they did have a PFD of some sort that he supposedly threw to her and which the Bahamians have since recovered).
25
dego_frankApr 9, 2026
+25
Shit happens and it often happens to experienced folks that get lax. If they went to shore in good weather and it deteriorated, they’re going to give it a shot. Also, isn’t all this bullshit anyway?
25
Binky390Apr 9, 2026
+4
I come from a boat loving family though we stopped when my parents split up. A lot of experienced sailors and boaters think they’re fine and don’t need like jackets because they’re experienced.
4
Oldman_SyndromeApr 9, 2026
+13
Not wearing your lifejacket while taking the dinghy to shore or back is standard practice for the overwhelming majority of cruisers.
Is it dumb? Absolutely. But it is exactly 0/10 on the suspicious meter to people who aren't armchair experts.
13
penpinappleapplepen3Apr 9, 2026
+51
They left the main on a dinghy and that’s when it happened
51
MiranEitanApr 9, 2026
+53
I know you have like 15 people jumping on you saying "well aktually", but just for future reference, not all life preservers are created equal. Not all of them are like the giant bulky annoying ones made out of foam.
Professional sailors usually end up buying a floation belt or vest that doesn't inflate until it hits water or you trigger it and they're actually pretty minimalist. You get used to working with one on if you spend a lot of time near the water.
There's a few water safety videos that you usually end up seeing at some point. One of them is a video of a guy who fell off the back of his sail boat while it was doing 4-5 knots in a low wind condition. No jacket, can't keep up with the boat and eventually sinks under. Stuff kinda sticks with you like that when you see how easy it is.
53
talliganApr 9, 2026
+15
There are some really comfortable pfd for canoes and kayaks and more active sports. I'd wear my pfd almost all day (except on land when making camp) for weeks at a time. If you're spending time on the water, something comfortable is absolutely key
15
oldjadedhippieApr 9, 2026
+49
They should ! On my sailboat the only area where PFDs weren’t required was in the cockpit or down below. Definitely wear one in the dinghy. The inflatable ones aren’t a bother at all.
49
Ornery-Ticket834Apr 9, 2026
+12
They weren’t in there 24/7. They were in a dinghy of 8 feet, in what I think he claimed were strong currents. They were taking it from point A to point B staring about 7. 30 in the evening. That wasn’t their boat which was docked and was where they were headed. He wouldn’t have to be explaining this “ real bad luck”. I assume it got dark out while they were heading back. So this “ accident “ may turn out to be unlucky for both of them. We know it’s unlucky for her.
12
Legrandloup2Apr 9, 2026
+30
The daughter also said that her stepfather had once tried to strangle one of her stepsisters so it sounds like he was prone to violence
30
RBVegabondApr 9, 2026
+129
I’m an experienced sailor, everyone is capable of falling off the boat. Especially if alcohol is ever involved.
129
VanessaAlexisApr 9, 2026
+17
I was even thinking due to all the experience one might get relaxed and slack a little. Resulting in error.
However, the daughter did say they had a very volatile relationship. He was the last one seen with her so he should be investigated at least.
17
viktor72Apr 9, 2026
+118
I’ll wait for the 48 Hours or Dateline episode to come out.
118
PunkpallasApr 9, 2026
+37
I sent the last article I saw about this to my spouse yesterday and said "This is going to be a Dateline episode," even before we knew everything in this article. Both her mother and daughter find this suspicious and they had a volatile relationship. Even if he never goes to trial, he'll probably be under suspicious his whole life. It's perfect Dateline fodder. It's very sad she's probably dead, but there's no way around the fact the circumstances make this look very bad for him.
37
Vet_LeeberApr 9, 2026
+17
Last time I watched a Dateline on someone they ended with a text wall saying the woman had been found dead in Mexico with her "multiple drug trafficking conviction and cartel-associated" boyfriend that hadn't been mentioned since the first 30 seconds of the episode (who was only mentioned by name, with none of the above context..!).
Kind of lost its appeal to me after that.
17
MrsClaireUnderwoodApr 9, 2026
+21
Kind of fucked up but alright.
21
kc_cycloneApr 9, 2026
+41
This shit terrifies me. My mom dated a guy for years when I was like 15-20. Dude always rubbed me the wrong way, mom had been on several sailing trips with him in the Caribbean. Broke it off when he asked her to retire there with him and basiclally live on the boat. Public perspective the guy was great, career firefighter, had a small cabinetry business with a fellow firefighter, but he was a controlling a******.
Hope this family gets peace.
41
little_snutchApr 9, 2026
+1856
My husband and I have a place in the Abacos near where this took place.
Not only is the area where she “went overboard” flats on the leeward side of the island with a maximum depth of 20’, there is not a strong current there. Period.
Also, the area he claims she went overboard is next to an island - they would’ve been within yards of a beach. Why would you not either swim to shore or paddle your dingy to the beach to call for help?? Elbow Cay/ Hope Town/ Tahiti Beach is littered with private residences, restaurants, docks, moorings, etc…. So why would you paddle across an entire bay to Boat Harbour in MH for help, 8h later??
We are here now and our local bartender told us he tried to flee the country within 48h. She said, “that man goin’ to jail.”
Damn right, Ms. Judy.
1856
r3097Apr 9, 2026
+205
What is even more suspicious is that after he got to shore, he didn’t notify authorities. He told someone else what happened and then that person called authorities.
205
FreeEdmondDantesApr 9, 2026
+20
Out of all the suspicious things that parts not too suspicious.
I've watched too many documentaries on rescues and survival, often the person in the predicament just collapses from exhaustion the moment they find civilization and needs medical attention while they tell someone else what happened.
Not sure in this case because I haven't read more than a headline and a comment.
I'm out of shape and recently did one of those foot pedal boats on a lake and I almost needed medical attention just from the effort alone.
20
meowmoomeowmoonApr 9, 2026
+231
Best comment here, thanks for your insight. That’s key info. He got back far away from where they initially launched?)
231
The_AthavulfApr 9, 2026
+46
I don't know if there was a key, but it was definitely an island chain. I apologize in advance.
46
ax255Apr 9, 2026
+67
I think I've met Ms Judy, party on
67
NarwhalEmergency9391Apr 9, 2026
+15
Did they find her body? Could she be alive on an island
15
meowmoomeowmoonApr 9, 2026
+54
They have not, and they report it’s still a ‘rescue mission’, although I’m not sure if they immediately say that, based on duration, and wait 48 hours for example even in an immediately evident catastrophic incident with highly likely loss of life before evaluating as ‘recovery mission’.
Haven’t thought about her being on the island, but if she did manage to be there and not found, that means she would’ve had to go deeper into the middle of it and not be passed out on the coast out of exhaustion for example. Also I don’t imagine it’s a bunch of thick vegetation, like the commenter said there’s a good amount of organization of places
54
r3097Apr 9, 2026
+34
No, they said it’s now a recovery mission which means they expect the person is deceased and that they are trying to recover a body.
34
TardislassApr 9, 2026
+7
My guess is they had a fight and he pushed her and she fell overboard. Drunken fights aren’t pretty and if she was drunk as well she couldn’t save herself.
7
little_snutchApr 9, 2026
+22
If that were the case and it happened in the area he claims it did, they would’ve found her by now. It’s extremely shallow with no current, and she would’ve washed up on the beach.
I agree he probably killed her in a drunken accident but my bet is it happened on their liveaboard boat and he took her out and dumped her at sea on the ocean side of the island, and then concocted this whole bullshit story over the next several hours and showed up at MH the next morning in the dinghy.
22
PeakQuirky84Apr 9, 2026
+21
>Damn right, Ms. Judy.
Ms Judy knows all.
Can you ask her if I’ll ever find happiness?
21
devonhezterApr 9, 2026
+4
You have it now
4
tx_trawler_trashApr 9, 2026
+29
This is the most helpful comment here
29
FritzkreigApr 9, 2026
+3241
Yeah, when you are the only witness for something like that; you are going to be investigated!
3241
MrsClaireUnderwoodApr 9, 2026
+1131
He wasn't just investigated. He was arrested.
1131
fightclubostonApr 9, 2026
+566
He wasn't just arrested. He was investigated!
566
CarbonCuber314Apr 9, 2026
+140
He wasn't just investigated. He was arrested.
140
Quick_Parsley_5505Apr 9, 2026
+189
He was at the combination arrestigated.
189
mrpancakes6969Apr 9, 2026
+81
Arrestigated and invested.
81
EvoEpitaphApr 9, 2026
+27
Well that's quite the Development
27
Brilliant_Object_847Apr 9, 2026
+14
Somebody get him the worlds first analyst and therapist!
14
invisableilustionistApr 9, 2026
+8
It was all good until the business card came out
8
iamoninternet27Apr 9, 2026
+23
Criminals will always be prostituted in the name of the law.
23
proview3rApr 9, 2026
+8
Arrested Development
8
Accurate_Handle_5620Apr 9, 2026
+12
He wasn't just X, he was Y.
12
SpikeRoseredApr 9, 2026
+13
I asked AI who said he's also Z.
13
raknor88Apr 9, 2026
+205
Just hearing the details on the news the last couple days it sounded suspicious as hell. They were in waters so choppy that she was thrown from the boat. But he was able to be steady enough to paddle four hours to shore?
205
erossthesciencebossApr 9, 2026
+174
Probably the most important thing true crime has ever taught me is don’t get in boats with people. Or submarines.
174
curlofheadcurlsApr 9, 2026
+29
Just dont get on a boat alone with your husband I guess.
Alpine divorce is extending to simple boat rides 😬
29
jibstay77Apr 9, 2026
+8
So, we’re adding “aquatic divorce” to the lexicon.
8
BannedBenjaminSrApr 9, 2026
+49
Is this the implication?
49
PortHammerApr 9, 2026
+24
Definitely the implication.
24
EatAtGrizzlebeesApr 9, 2026
+18
Are these women in danger?
18
highbridgerApr 9, 2026
+11
No one’s in any danger! How could I make that any more clear to you? Okay. It’s an *implication* of danger.
11
WeakTransportation37Apr 9, 2026
+110
Her daughter started talking and said the marriage was volatile, and things could get rough, especially when they drank. So…
110
dpezpoopsiesApr 9, 2026
+52
Yeah after a read of the article, the way her mother and daughter spoke about her husband was pretty telling. Their quotes both made it seem like they really didn't believe his story, frankly.
52
PrefaceApr 9, 2026
+51
In the area they were boating, the waters are typically very calm...
I have family down there, so I have been there many times throughout my life, and the only time the waters are rough is if there is actively a storm happening.
Occasionally between islands you can have ocean swells coming in, but those are very limited areas they can come through.
51
SophieEatsCakeApr 9, 2026
+85
some guys just hike and leave their partner on a cold mountain some just make a boat trip.
85
curlofheadcurlsApr 9, 2026
+8
The classic alpine divorce.
The new maritime divorce.
8
heathers1Apr 9, 2026
+20
I got a vibe. Like why are you out in a dinghy alone in high seas and winds? Something sounded off
20
ErieSpiritApr 9, 2026
+54
>I got a vibe. Like why are you out in a dinghy alone in high seas and winds? Something sounded off
That part is not off. For those of us that cruise full time that type of dinghy ride is common. They were coming back from dinner/drinking at a restaurant in White Sound to their boat in Hope Town harbor. That is along the lee shore of Elbow Cay, which means it may have been windy, but a calm sea state. I have done that trip in a dinghy before.
What happened during that trip sounded off though.
54
r3dditr0xApr 9, 2026
+730
Like, just get a divorce. F'n weirdo.
730
GlumpsAlotApr 9, 2026
+258
I watched a true crime or something episode where a mother kept killing her kids for $5k in life insurance each. Authorities only got suspicious on the third child. People are nuts and they breed. I was traumatized after that.
258
OU7C4STApr 9, 2026
+85
Was that typo or deadass the mom was killin' her kids for $5,000 ea.??!
(Not that any amount is ok lol)
85
inthenight098Apr 9, 2026
+51
They’re free to make so profit is profit /s
51
Lmb1011Apr 9, 2026
+14
i know you're joking but given the cost of health care in america i'm not sure that's even 100% true here 😂 (i mean sure sex can be free but birth isnt 😂)
14
ABitOfPotentialApr 9, 2026
+32
I’d be upset if my mom tried to kill me for anything less than $10k.
32
Jinn_Erik-AoMApr 9, 2026
+19
If it’s the case I’m thinking of, it would be a lot more with inflation.
19
THEBHRApr 9, 2026
+6
Someone made her a modest proposal she couldn't refuse.
6
GlumpsAlotApr 9, 2026
+3
Yes, that was the case. $5k is so little too. I think it happened decades ago. I tried searching for her but I just got recent cases of moms killing their kids. >.< Jfc. This is why I can't watch true crime documentaries anymore.
3
Impossible_Break698Apr 9, 2026
+7
Infinite money glitch
7
cherrycolaareolaApr 9, 2026
+167
But then he wouldn’t get the million dollar life insurance money!
167
thegoodnamesrgone123Apr 9, 2026
+78
Just get a f****** divorce.
78
buckeye27fanApr 9, 2026
+704
PSA: Ladies, if there's anything going wrong in your marriage, do NOT go on a cruise anywhere in the Caribbean. Also, avoid any hikes to remote locations at well.
704
JohnDwyersDanceMovesApr 9, 2026
+203
The ole Alpine/Marine divorce
203
WanderhodenApr 9, 2026
+87
Desert too, unfortunately.
87
malibuklwApr 9, 2026
+42
Or hiking up a mountain. That seems to be a problem lately, too
42
tx_trawler_trashApr 9, 2026
+38
They lived on their sailboat
38
DannyCrane9476Apr 9, 2026
+41
So it wasn't just the implication
41
The_AthavulfApr 9, 2026
+21
Calm down Dennis
21
i_sell_you_liesApr 9, 2026
+27
Well that was mistake #1
27
frodosdojoApr 9, 2026
+12
Especially if they suddenly want to reconcile.
12
nhgardenart25Apr 9, 2026
+99
I heard it took him 8 hours to get to shore and why didn’t he have a cell phone?
99
georgetonorgeApr 9, 2026
+89
He claims that she fell off the boat with the keys, which automatically caused the engine to stop. He tried paddling to her, but the current was too strong and swept her away. Article didn’t mention anything about a cell phone so I don’t know. Then it took 8 hours to paddle back across the bay because he only had paddles.
Someone here claims they live in the area and that the place the incident allegedly happened was very close to the other side of the bay and that he would never need to paddle all the way back across. Just go to the beach right there that’s full of businesses and people and get help.
I’ll take everything with a grain of salt because I can’t confirm or deny anything on either account. Definitely suspicious though.
89
Intrepid-Progress228Apr 9, 2026
+17
Question from a landlubber: If there was a "strong current" wouldn't the dinghy have been swept along with her, keeping them fairly close together?
17
BondorianApr 9, 2026
+9
Not always. The boat probably should have moved along with her if the current part is true but if she got caught in the current before the boat, or the boat never got caught in it, then it would make some sense. It is scary how fast a current and take you away in such a short time.
9
gnatgirlApr 9, 2026
+31
Hmmm. It's almost like he didn't want to be tracked or something...
31
FreeTicket6143Apr 9, 2026
+230
These Dateline episodes are getting pretty predictable.
230
Stereo-soundSApr 9, 2026
+83
Ending to any episode:
The boyfriend did it.
The ex-boyfriend did it.
The husband did it.
The ex-husband did it.
The girlfriend did it.
The ex-girlfriend did it.
The wife did it.
The ex-wife did it.
Some random weirdo completely unconnected to their life did it.
Suicide, but they won't say it out loud.
I enjoy true crime where there is a mystery but when things are obvious I get bored and pick something else to watch.
83
diiegojonesApr 9, 2026
+22
Dateline needs to have the 1 hour episodes be the obvious ones and the 2 hour ones be the more mysterious or hard investigated. Love Keith. My wife wants to 3D print a bust
22
ceruleanmoon7Apr 9, 2026
+10
God yes they drag them out sooooo long just so Keith can be dramatic lmao. And show the same 2 photos over and over again.
10
Morriganx3Apr 9, 2026
+9
I mean, these are the most common options overall, not just on Dateline.
9
JimDandyPantsApr 9, 2026
+28
I was about to say, “Keith Morrison, got another one for you.”
28
Im_better_than__uApr 9, 2026
+1025
Scratches all over his face + a million dollar life insurance policy.
1025
Ornery-Ticket834Apr 9, 2026
+348
Coincidence! Just like apparently no life jackets needed. All people in their fifties on 8 foot boats never wear them.Probably an Olympic swimmer.
348
3rd-party-intervenerApr 9, 2026
+122
Coincidence ? You mean like the costa Concordia captain tripping into a lifeboat 😂
122
KnownMonkApr 9, 2026
+35
If only there was a small device with numbers on that enables one to get in touch with anyone from almost everywhere.
35
Ornery-Ticket834Apr 9, 2026
+13
Probably “ washed away” in another piece of bad luck.
13
Relative-Accountant2Apr 9, 2026
+6
I know that line 😂
6
Im_with_stooopidApr 9, 2026
+27
What the chance she found a bale of Columbian gold to cling to?
27
Im_better_than__uApr 9, 2026
+27
Better odds is that he has a Colombian mistress.
27
BondorianApr 9, 2026
+4
As someone who has gone to the Bahamas a lot, I understand the no life jackets part of the story. If you’re experienced and in a calm area (which they were minus the supposed current which I don’t buy) then you wouldn’t need them. It is a good idea to have them but I’m not surprised they didn’t
4
Chessh2036Apr 9, 2026
+81
Where did you see that he had scratches on his face and life insurance? I haven’t read that part
81
troublewithcardsApr 9, 2026
+43
It's not in the article. So OP is just fueling speculation unless they provide a source.
43
onarainyafternoonApr 9, 2026
+9
I absolutely f****** hate when people don't make clear if they're joking/speculating or not. It's so disgustingly irresponsible. This is how misinformation spreads.
9
PantheanApr 9, 2026
+20
When I first heard about this story I never could have guessed that there was a life insurance policy
***/S***
20
Excellent_Month_2025Apr 9, 2026
+23
Sadly, he was probably only arrested due to the life insurance policy
23
Ornery-Ticket834Apr 9, 2026
+40
I doubt that greatly. They are investigating and have not charged him as yet. No one in their right mind would not be expected to be looked at very carefully under those circumstances.
40
therusteddoobieApr 9, 2026
+15
I think you agreed while disagreeing, somehow
15
meowmoomeowmoonApr 9, 2026
+16
I’m high and he is confusing ts out of me
16
Im_better_than__uApr 9, 2026
+15
It's always the life insurance policy.
15
tehrobApr 9, 2026
+20
And the murder.
20
Mom_twoApr 9, 2026
+3
Where did you see that he had scratches?
3
Random_Person_246810Apr 9, 2026
+125
All you have to do is watch one episode of Dateline, and you know how this was going to end.
125
viktor72Apr 9, 2026
+50
You always know it’s the husband on Dateline or 48 Hours when they don’t initially interview the husband for the show.
50
Random_Person_246810Apr 9, 2026
+21
Every. Damn. Time.
21
BratFace666Apr 9, 2026
+35
They once got crafty and shot the husband from what looked like a prison, revealing later he was innocent and they'd intentionally tried to trick the audience, to be honest I appreciated the variation.
35
GymIsFunApr 9, 2026
+97
ive seen enough forensic files to safely assume it was a combo of money problems and an insurance pay out
97
damnthistrafficjamApr 9, 2026
+27
Man goes out on boat with woman. Man comes home alone with tragic tale. Seen this one before. Yup.
27
Room_Temp_CoffeeApr 9, 2026
+69
***IF*** he did it you would think all the previous examples of this not working would be a deterent
69
WasteProfession8948Apr 9, 2026
+87
The problem is we have no idea how many examples we have of it working
87
VaguelyArtisticApr 9, 2026
+35
Deterrents don’t work when you don’t think you’ll get caught due to stupidity and/or hubris (even if everyone else gets caught.)
Running a 10-minute red light at 3am in the middle of nowhere? Sure. Running it when a cop is sitting there? Probably not.
35
3BlindMice1Apr 9, 2026
+21
The ones that get caught (and we hear about) are so outrageously dumb that it's not hard to think you'd do a better job than them
21
DayzlikethisApr 9, 2026
+10
these types of people must be really desperate and/or just plain stupid.
10
optix_clearApr 9, 2026
+21
Check his search history and if he had a girlfriend
21
Chessh2036Apr 9, 2026
+48
When I first saw this story on ABC News I said “yeah, the husband killed her”. And I imagine you guys did also lol.
48
SutterCaneApr 9, 2026
+5
Every time I see the “spouse went missing on boat trip” headline, my mind immediately goes “the surviving spouse killed them”.
5
sm04dApr 9, 2026
+54
Least surprising news ever.
54
KimJongFunkApr 9, 2026
+260
> On Wednesday morning, Brian Hooker wrote on Facebook that he is “heartbroken over the recent boat accident in unpredictable seas and high winds that caused my beloved Lynette to fall from our small dinghy near Elbow Cay in the Bahamas.”
> “Despite desperate attempts to reach her, the winds and currents drove us further apart,” he wrote. “We continue to search for her and that is my sole focus.”
This reads like the words of a guilty man lying to cover it up.
260
TiradeHokumsApr 9, 2026
+26
Reads like something a police chief would say during a press conference.
26
Antikickback_PaulApr 9, 2026
+18
It's the putting the excuses *before* even naming his wife. The priorities here are interesting.
18
chonky_tortoiseApr 9, 2026
+96
It's really impossible to tell from stuff like this. It's perfectly possible that every word here is true. I have my doubts too but it's never fair to judge how people act after an event like this.
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little_snutchApr 9, 2026
+171
Yeah, no.
My husband and I have a place here in the Abacos and spend several weeks/months per year out here. The area he claims she went overboard in a dinghy are flats. It’s a max depth of 20 feet on the leeward side of the island. There are no strong currents in that area, period.
He was close to the mainland- he could’ve literally swam to the beach or drug the dinghy onshore to call for help. There are houses and businesses all along the island in that area. Instead he spent 8 hours “rowing” to Marsh Harbour, which is in the polar opposite direction across an entire bay. Why would you do that if your loved one fell overboard near a beach?
He’s a moron that killed his wife and didn’t think it through, and apparently can’t get out of his own way and shut his damn mouth.
The locals knew he was trying to skip town less than 48h after his wife was “lost.”
Guilty people don’t stick around for the search; they already know where their loved one is.
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unicorntapestryApr 9, 2026
+52
Yeah so many people are like "why didn't she wear a life jacket?"
1. If you are a competent swimmer you just wouldn't need to wear a life jacket, anywhere you can scoot around in a little dinghy is calm and safe and swimmable. It's not the open ocean we're talking about here, it's the Bahamas.
2. A life jacket won't protect you from murder, which this obviously was and a piss-poor story to attempt to cover it up.
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georgetonorgeApr 9, 2026
+8
I love the inside info, but the person you’re replying to was just talking about their statement. I agree that you can’t judge people’s reactions to traumatic experiences. We don’t know how we’d behave and people often accuse innocent people of “acting guilty.”
But taking everything you know into account (and even his version), the story itself is certainly very suspicious.
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EatinSumGrapesApr 9, 2026
+11
Chat GTP doing the lords work
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Fartron69Apr 9, 2026
+21
It's got a Trumpian flavor. Words don't mean it's true.
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georgetonorgeApr 9, 2026
+6
Sure but people behaving or speaking strangely don’t mean they’re lying either. We have no idea how we would feel or act after such a traumatic event. So I don’t think we can learn too much from a statement.
The whole story though…definitely is suspicious.
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hl_lostApr 9, 2026
+11
the "experienced sailor falls off boat while only spouse is present" story never seems to end well for the spouse huh
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upsidedown-funnelApr 9, 2026
+9
Robert Wagner seems to have faired pretty well.
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Fragster2020Apr 9, 2026
+11
Man...rough week for killer hubbies..lol. That Hawaiian doctor who tried to kill his wife on the hiking trail just got sentenced yesterday too. He pushed her over the edge and somehow she survived the fall.
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CurrentDismal9115Apr 9, 2026
+18
Ahhh.. the plot thinnens!
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YeOldeOrcApr 9, 2026
+215
I don’t know why people are saying it’s always the husband. How unfair. It’s also often the boyfriend, father, son, ex-boyfriend, ex-husband, male friend, male stranger, random male FedEx driver…
Sorry gentlemen. I’m just *really* tired of the news lately.
I am so sorry to see her become yet another statistic.
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kstargate-425Apr 9, 2026
+80
55% of American womens murders are done by their partner vs around 40% for the rest of the world...
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tehrobApr 9, 2026
+83
According to the FBI's Uniform Crime Reporting (UCR) data, when the gender of the offender is known, men consistently commit approximately 88% of all murders in the United States.
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kstargate-425Apr 9, 2026
+10
Not surprising unfortunately. I was quoting [a 2017 CDC report on it](https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2017/07/21/538518569/cdc-half-of-all-female-murder-victims-are-killed-by-intimate-partners#:~:text=The%20CDC%20examined%20more%20than,highest%20risk%20of%20being%20killed) and with the major uptick in reported DV (most goes unreported) during covid and since, I cant imagine how bad the numbers have gotten 😔
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gnatgirlApr 9, 2026
+58
Husbands are the number one killer of pregnant women in the US. Not a medical issue. Their. Own. Husband.
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viktor72Apr 9, 2026
+55
Using this post to plug the book The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker.
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arrownycApr 9, 2026
+14
And somehow its never the bear.
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badpaulyApr 9, 2026
+48
It's always the husband.
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you_thought_you_knewApr 9, 2026
+79
He bought her a rock coat at the gift shop. What did she expect?
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Th1rte3n1334Apr 9, 2026
+36
And cement shoes. Now that shoulda been a dead giveaway.
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ObjectiveGlitteringApr 9, 2026
+13
“Here honey, try these on…”
“They’re a little big!”
“Perfect…”
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Aggressive_Sky8492Apr 9, 2026
+5
A woman is dead
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The_RealAnim8me2Apr 9, 2026
+8
The Bahamas is NOT the place you want to go to prison. Or even jail for a short time. I’ve heard some pretty terrifying stories about Fox Hill.
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Aware_Cheesecake_519Apr 9, 2026
+41
This reminds me of that case where a man told some police officers that his wife had fallen off a boat.
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totallynotat55savushApr 9, 2026
+57
So are you thinking of Natalie Wood or the dozens that followed?
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False-Society-7567Apr 9, 2026
+14
Well, we all knew that was coming.
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beebstxApr 9, 2026
+95
Not all men but always a man.
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HolidayNothing171Apr 9, 2026
+7
Between this and the Hawaii doctor who tried to push his wife off a cliff, making me never want to be alone with my husband
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Adventurous_Bit1325Apr 9, 2026
+17
First thing I thought when I read about this yesterday. He should have just reported her missing instead of telling them she fell off.
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New_Accountant2449Apr 9, 2026
+12
"Last time I saw her she was petting the sharks and then I took a nap, so idk what happened to her."
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lovegood123Apr 9, 2026
+15
Were there people who actually didn’t think
It was the husband??
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Used-Thought-9443Apr 9, 2026
+17
Yet Christopher Walken and Robert Wagner remain free.
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StrenueApr 9, 2026
+6
Dennis Davern was there too..
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ceruleanmoon7Apr 9, 2026
+5
Shit I really thought Wagner had died
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crowislanddiveApr 9, 2026
+5
Here’s the thing… it wouldn’t have mattered if there was a strong current because the husband would be rowing with the current if he tried to get to her. He would have to be traveling in the same direction. If he was able to paddle to shore, he would have been able to paddle in her direction as well. His story is BS. I’m sorry for the family.
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Olderbutnotdead619Apr 9, 2026
+3
Good. Guilty as all get out.
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Key_Awareness_3036Apr 9, 2026
+2
I wonder what they found that prompted the arrest?
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pjpcatloverApr 9, 2026
+4
I guess she didn't know about the implication
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TanMan166Apr 9, 2026
+10
I'm confused as hell on what this article is trying to say....it's saying they arrested a 59 year old man who hasn't been identified, then names her husband who's 58 years old. Soo which is it?
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dephressApr 9, 2026
+6
Poorly written, no one uses editors anymore.
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Chewed420Apr 9, 2026
+11
She had the keys, which were attached to the anchor.
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JugglingRickApr 9, 2026
+10
Another true crime episode for my girlfriend
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Comfortable_Fudge508Apr 9, 2026
+3
So obvious he dumped her overboard
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WeakTransportation37Apr 9, 2026
+3
Oooh- that article sealed the deal in my mind. The daughter said A LOT. He’s def guilty
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Own_Cantaloupe9011Apr 9, 2026
+3
I love the first paragraph n saying police didn’t identify him and then a few paragraphs later “Brian hooker is 58….”
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Just-Install-LinuxApr 9, 2026
+3
Did she have a significant insurance policy on her?
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harglblargApr 9, 2026
+5
Because of the implication?
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Quaternary_slothApr 9, 2026
+12
She just fell and grabbed the keys on the way out, yeah bud I’m sure.
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Stevecat032Apr 9, 2026
+30
Keys are supposed to be tethered to you when operating a boat.. ironically, incase you fall overboard
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FaterFakerApr 9, 2026
+11
Called it.
But, then again, I'm quite the sleuth.
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Current_Midnight5294Apr 9, 2026
+24
Ladies, we spend gobs of mental energy fearing dark streets, unlocked windows, and doing anything solo when our biggest risk is the men we date and marry. He’s not the protector you think he is. His anger and contempt could kill you one day. Signed, gloriously single woman in a peaceful house marked safe from the alpine/marine/smoothie divorce.
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Key_Awareness_3036Apr 9, 2026
+6
Smoothie? Do tell!
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Current_Midnight5294Apr 9, 2026
+13
Actually it was a protein shake: https://www.npr.org/2025/07/16/nx-s1-5469755/james-craig-trial-colorado-dentist-poison-protein-shakes
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bi-loser99Apr 9, 2026
+7
this case is so obvious i am shocked he thought he could get away with it. or i would if true crime hasn’t taught me that men tend to assume they are way smarter than everyone around them despite that not being the case in reality.
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ImverystupidgenxApr 9, 2026
+7
Gee, didn’t see that coming. Betting she probably grabbed the damn keys as he was doing his dumbass thang.
F*** that dude, even his daughter doesn’t believe him.
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Morriganx3Apr 9, 2026
+3
His stepdaughter, but still
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CoriolanuscangetitApr 9, 2026
+6
Did they not have cell phones on the boat?
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kstargate-425Apr 9, 2026
+7
Anyone who read the headlines when this came out knew this was coming as for one tourist destinations NEED to ensure safety meaning they will always quickly and many times erroneously, lock someone up. Secondly, its almost always considered to be a murder in these situations and is extremely hard to prove otherwise.
I do want to know more as from the little I read, this was a small rib with an outboard and she went overboard with the key on one of those kill switch chains attached to your wrist to the motor so maybe they found thats not true.
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