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question to guys, what makes a woman immediately unattractive?

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teasefairyz Apr 3, 2026 +159
“I want you to change…but accept me for who I am” mentality
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ShadyK55 Apr 3, 2026 +13
UGHHHH say it again! Literally the worst quality, this type of entitlement
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ShhweadyBallz Apr 3, 2026 +6
But ..... I'm perfect. Just ask me 😉
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ParabolicHyperbole Apr 3, 2026 +1
“If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best”
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Efficient_Bite_9420 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Dude, when she says she wants you to change she likely expects you to stop leaving dirty socks around the house 😂
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Aneeq-CopyNinja Apr 3, 2026 +1
Write nan that's so accuratly said
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dumpling_duke09 Apr 3, 2026 +99
playing mind games instead of communicating clearly
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InsulatorDisk Apr 3, 2026 +42
The I don't know type. Same answer to every question.
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_Broder_ Apr 3, 2026 +9
If they were to be one of the Spice Girls, they would be flour.
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enragedsquirrels Apr 3, 2026 +1
Bland, boring Jessica
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Yaakobv Apr 3, 2026 +43
Attitude and zero accountability.
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calm_roof_sitter Apr 3, 2026 +1
true, a bad attitude is such a turn off. like you can be pretty but if you're rude, nah
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Dame87 Apr 3, 2026 +43
Constantly on her phone, to be fair that goes for anyone really
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CamelZealousideal330 Apr 3, 2026 +45
Zero emotional intelligence
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tea_hanks Apr 3, 2026 +37
The one who expects you to come up with a banger opening line, make her laugh, plan dates, put in the effort and everything while all she is capable of doing is sending "hi" Basically expecting effort while putting in none herself
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Icy_Item_9132 Apr 3, 2026 +8
My god yes this. I would have used the word "entitled" because that's what's super unattractive to me but it also leads to exactly this.
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tea_hanks Apr 3, 2026 +2
And even when you are doing this, keep a conversation going, there is no help from the other side. One word answers. It's like talking to a wall
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Icy_Item_9132 Apr 3, 2026 +5
Well those must be left on read. Whether they are just not interested or not willing to make an effort, nobody with self respect engages with that nonsense. We are half the problem when we put up with that c***. But more generally a person who doesn't understand reciprocity, who's trying to get you to do/prove things they won't do/prove themselves is such a damn obvious red flag. That person will always be making demands while never holding themselves to the same standard. I remember asking one girl what her favourite flowers were. She asked me how about yours? I said, tbh I'm not sure, I'm a guy - nobody has ever bought me flowers in my life lol. I said but I guess it would be roses. So next date she shows up with like 40 roses. And she says one of these is from me. And the other 39 are to make up for all the other people who never bought you flowers. Now that's a woman who understands reciprocity, that men are humans too, that men too have feelings, that we too like to feel humanised, appreciated, like we deserve fairness. Most impressive is that this story did not come from some "pick me" girl with limited options, it came from a girl who was a stunning former international model AND who also had a Ph.D. in law. This is the way a girl who had ALL the beauty and intelligence and options behaved. Obviously it wasn't about the flowers but about the message she conveyed. Knocked me right off my feet :)
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tea_hanks Apr 3, 2026 +1
Yeap. We are a part of the problem when we engage with such red flags. I have grown a lot as a person and have realized that there are far better women out there and I don't need to entertain obvious red flags I feel most people do it is because they are lonely and desperate. The solution to this is not getting any girl. The solution is to find hobbies and friends so that one is not lonely and desperate. Another thing that helped me was not to see every woman as a potential partner. See them as people with whom you can be friends with. And once you get that attitude your approach towards women will change entirely and become a lot healthier And also the girl that you mentioned seems like a gem. Do not let her go
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Icy_Item_9132 Apr 3, 2026 +1
She was a great girl but she had gone through a couple of things she still needed to work through and heal from, and it started to show. She was a good person and great girl who wasn't yet ready for a relationship again. And that was ok. Learned a lot from her though. She fundamentally changed my approach to relationships. I did also meet a girl a couple of years later who became my best friend. And then a couple of years after that she became my fiance. And then a couple of years after that she became my wife. And then a couple of years after that she became the mother of my son. I'm doing well, thank you, very much also thanks to the wonderful people I learned from along the way. I have never met a person who is as kind to me as my wife is and who is as unassuming and NOT entitled as my wife is. If my wife didn't want to date me I would not care and she'd still be my best friend - and the best wingman you've ever seen lol (believe me we have some incredible stories from when we were "just" best friends lol). Buddy, I think you've got it. Stopping to put up with the c*** is THE path to success. Success never, ever comes while you're still putting up with rubbish. You have to make the space to let the good things in. They don't come in when there's no space for them. And, yeah, the other million dollar decision is to stop looking for people to impress you and start looking for a best friend. I think you're on the right track.
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zeSnaa Apr 3, 2026 +1
On e word answers simply mean she doesn’t want you. She does it cause she doesn’t know how to tell you she is not interested. It’s typical low self esteem behaviour even if she is showing confidence to the outside world. Don’t waste your time on women who show no interest in you. Better for both parties
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tea_hanks Apr 3, 2026 +1
Yeah I get that. But let me tell you about my experience I see a girl. I like her. I talk to her in a bar or whatever. She is talking, I'm all ha ha hoo hoo, she is also ha ha hu hu. I don't wanna keep hogging her so I think about asking for her number. Now women might give out numbers out of pressure. So instead I ask her if she wants my number. She says. I write my number in her phone and tell her to text me the next morning and not now. Why next morning? Because then I know she didn't drunk text me or whatever. Guess what? She texts me right away. Jesus christ!!! Now what am I supposed to do? I give up and send her a text. One word answer or sth so stupid that I cannot keep the convo going. So I text her again. Same story And then I stop. I take the hint. But what still bothers me is when I literally told you have my number and text me tomorrow, I don't even have your number so that you don't feel pressured, then why text right away and act like that?
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Knufia_petricola Apr 3, 2026 +1
For me it's usually the other way around - like, I only attract men that I have to plan dates and activities for. It's so f****** exhausting. Sometimes we don't go anywhere then because I didn't plan shit and after a while I'm met with "Why don't we ever go places?". Bruh, I can't
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tea_hanks Apr 3, 2026 +1
Well 😅😅 After all experience (as explained above) now I don't take the initiative at all. I just treat everyone as a friend. If she wants to be something more than friends I resort to her taking the initiative But if a woman takes the first step I will partake 100% after that Not sure if you meant guys who don't take the first step at all or don't take any steps even after you took the first step
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Knufia_petricola Apr 3, 2026 +1
I feel that 100%. Some guys are also way too shy, which I don't mind and I'll gladly make the first step. But I don't mean those. I mean the kind that initially is invested and wants to do stuff, but when it comes to planning it's always "You choose, I'm not good with that". Like, they send me a message "You free on Thursday? Want to hang out?" and when I ask, whether they'd like to do anything special or have anything planned I get hit with the aforementioned phrase.
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tea_hanks Apr 3, 2026 +1
Hunh okay. I mean then why did they even text if you wanted to hangout in the first place? 💀 If you cannot think of anything then just suggest to go for a walk. Literally anything
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Knufia_petricola Apr 3, 2026 +1
Like for real! A walk or watch something on one of the million streaming services or go grab a coffee or whatever. It's not that hard, I'm down to anything .__.
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late44thegameNOW Apr 3, 2026 +52
Being rude to customer service
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lickedy-clit Apr 3, 2026 +4
This 1000%
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LucidTouch1789 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Dude this exact same answer is on EVERY one of these threads. Let's have some new answers
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Professional-Bed6902 Apr 3, 2026 +13
Poor personal hygiene
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Imaginary-Ad-7919 Apr 3, 2026 +25
Self‑centered woman.
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Amazinc Apr 3, 2026 +30
If they think being straight up rude makes them quirky or funny
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exhauated-marra-6631 Apr 3, 2026 +6
Genuinely met a "Look at me, I'm so quirky I bite people for no reason" type. Like, learn consent.
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Sithstress_ Apr 3, 2026 +4
Happy cake day
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--Rick--Astley-- Apr 3, 2026 +29
They don't return the shopping cart.
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Fannnybaws Apr 3, 2026 +2
Squibbly zibbily zee,that's not where the cart goes!
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Fashionistacool Apr 3, 2026 +2
cud u sing me the song mr astley?
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niccolololo Apr 3, 2026 +23
Posting the same question over and over again for karma. [https://www.listnook.com/r/AskListnook/search/?q=makes+a+woman+unattractive](https://www.listnook.com/r/AskListnook/search/?q=makes+a+woman+unattractive)
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kimchiman85 Apr 3, 2026 +10
That’s just r/Asklistnook in a nutshell.
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arctic-aqua Apr 3, 2026 +19
A lack of self awareness, thinking that they are always the victim in every situation and it is always someone else's fault.
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Kymera_7 Apr 3, 2026 +50
Smoking.
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8bit-wizard Apr 3, 2026 +5
If she smokes, she pokes
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TrainingSuccess6516 Apr 3, 2026 +16
Eyelashes that look like caterpillars f******
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Crittsy Apr 3, 2026 +7
Trout Pout
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renegade2111 Apr 3, 2026 +5
Selfishness
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DaveFoucault Apr 3, 2026 +11
Racism, homophobia, selfishness etc. Same applies to men.
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ItsTheoDarby Apr 3, 2026 +22
When she says “I’m not hungry” and then eats half your food like it’s a shared project.
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Mad-sauce Apr 3, 2026 +5
Zero awareness/ zero communication wtf am i supposed to talk to a mummy
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Slayxr Apr 3, 2026 +5
Mind games
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Martinonfire Apr 3, 2026 +5
Stupidity
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meatbag2010 Apr 3, 2026 +5
Smoker I'm afraid. Puts me right off
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PollutionComplete307 Apr 3, 2026 +21
Having no interests besides nightlife, clothes/makeup and “travel”
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persiasaurus Apr 3, 2026 +9
I am so tired of everyone saying traveling is their main interest, I think because they think it makes them seem interesting, financially well off, mature, and as if they have lots of friends. To me it says either not ready for a relationship or boring and like everyone else. I have no desire to date someone who is focused on traveling to the degree it's part of their whole personality.
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interesseret Apr 3, 2026 +14
On the flip side, I can honestly say I have no interest in anyone NOT interested in traveling. If you don't want to broaden your horizons, that's an issue for me. And that is what traveling is about.
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persiasaurus Apr 3, 2026 +4
I said main interest. I don't think it's a good quality to be entirely closed off to traveling.
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UpbeatBeach7657 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Yeah, people who make one single thing their entire personality tend to come off as boring to me.
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persiasaurus Apr 3, 2026 +1
Yeah this is my main issue with it. Like, I think almost everyone would like to travel as much as they can, the world is cool. It just doesnt say anything special to me.
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HotSauceHigh Apr 3, 2026 +3
Yes! Not enough people see how shallow the country-collecting can be
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persiasaurus Apr 3, 2026 +1
Are you being sarcastic? I'm extremely tired right now and can't tell
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QueenieHorvath1945 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Well thankfully most women who enjoy travelling are looking for a man who also enjoys travelling :)
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Quetas83 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Missing the entire point
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QueenieHorvath1945 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Which is......?
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Traditional-Hand-395 Apr 3, 2026 +8
Lying like it is second nature even when it’s a joke
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No_Watercress8123 Apr 3, 2026 +4
Entitlement.
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just_some_guy65 Apr 3, 2026 +3
The current "how fake can I look?" fashion. I absolutely accept that you are doing it "for yourself, not anyone else", but that's not the question here.
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do_you_see Apr 3, 2026 +1
littering and being rude to people
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ThrowawayMod1989 Apr 3, 2026 +10
The same things that make a man immediately unattractive… her d***. Jk if they’re obnoxious, loud, “boss b****” (the lady version of “Alpha”), “hates drama” but is always at the center of it… shit like that.
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PollutionComplete307 Apr 3, 2026 +9
The lady version of men who think they’re alpha* lol
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ThrowawayMod1989 Apr 3, 2026 +5
Well yeah I mean the alpha thing is total bullshit from the drop, didn’t mean to make it sound like they’re actually top dog anything.
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PollutionComplete307 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Ik I can tell from the quotation marks lol just adding another layer
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throwjanvirus0501 Apr 3, 2026 +5
For me, too much makeup or rather when it doesn't look subtle/natural.
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DependentRounders934 Apr 3, 2026 +5
Them Shitting their pants
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Bryjoe2020 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Wait, hold on...there is a story here isn't there
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DependentRounders934 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Actually I’m lying, my friends gf was running a marathon and texting him updates as she went (the car we were driving in was reading out the texts), around 10 miles in she said she was dying and about 2 miles later she said she had shat herself and was feeling alot better, he laughed and told me i should never tell anyone about it
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Correct-Gear-2699 Apr 3, 2026 +6
Dirty fingernails 🤮
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Wumpus220 Apr 3, 2026 +4
Needing to take pictures of everything for social media.
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PawPawNeWaarKarwaDee Apr 3, 2026 +6
clicking selfies and making reels
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persephoneviness Apr 3, 2026 +1
whats wrong with taking photos of urself? wtf
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PawPawNeWaarKarwaDee Apr 3, 2026 +1
One or two is fine, but not 10-20 photos in different poses at every location. And then spend next 10-15 mins choose which one to keep, and even apply filters on top using AI and post to socials. Once dated such chick, big mistake.
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Subject_Net8804 Apr 3, 2026 +3
This post
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John-Twick Apr 3, 2026 +4
Upper lip piercing. Can’t stand them.
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OpportunityBig8773 Apr 3, 2026 +3
Bad breathe
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The_Hyll_Clan Apr 3, 2026 +5
Racism.
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WhatevahMingah Apr 3, 2026 +8
Every comment in here applies to men, too 😭 Said as a man lol
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I_Play_Boardgames Apr 3, 2026 +5
Being self absorbed, materialistic and basically a spoilt childish brat. The moment you think you inherently deserve something is the moment you've fucked up. None of us deserve anything inherently. You don't deserve to get free stuff for being a woman. The only thing any of us deserve are the things we worked for. 
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ShadyK55 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Yes. The "I am the table" attitude
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Fast-Penta Apr 3, 2026 +7
It's going to be different for every man. I haven't dated for years, but back in the day, for me it was: \- antivaxer \- republican \- not obviously smart \- feigned helplessness \- wears leopard print
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guy-le-doosh Apr 3, 2026 +2
Most of South Carolina then
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Fast-Penta Apr 3, 2026 +1
I actually am married to a Southerner lol. But upvote because I haven't been to South Carolina since the '90s and you are right about the relative odds of finding someone who meets my categories in different states. Back in my single days, when I'd visit Washington, BC, or New York, I'd be, like, *damn*...
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Icy_Laugh5134 Apr 3, 2026 +6
Being pick me 
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No_Television681 Apr 3, 2026 +5
smoking, tats, rude/nasty attitude
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Dafina_s2 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Self obsessed
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Kris-p- Apr 3, 2026 +2
Hot culture
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Economy-Pudding-6371 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Asking, "What are you thinking?" way too often. (I've heard women say that about men too.) Being obsessed with scrutinizing the guy she's with, such that she's just always searching for something to criticize. As others point out, selfishness. Being so high-maintenance and demanding that one wonders if she literally thinks she's royalty. Having no sense of humor or intelligence. (Some people don't care about either, so it's different strokes for different folks. But for me, it's very important.) Being so insecure that she never seems to escape her own anxiety.
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BigBoyShaunzee Apr 3, 2026 +2
Immediately unattractive? For me.. She thinks she's better than everyone. No ladies you're not better than anyone, I'm not better than anyone else To be fair, many many men also think they're better than everyone else.. And I hate those men. But the question OP asked was about women.
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thirsty-altt69 Apr 3, 2026 +2
“I want you to chase me, but I will deliberately try to shut down all your advances.”
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shakazoulu Apr 3, 2026 +2
Entitlement
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ccj-1996 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Talking about star signs
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VictarionGreyjoy Apr 3, 2026 +2
Smoking crack.
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Slipsym Apr 3, 2026 +2
Lack of curiosity and desire to learn or improve.
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TheThumbPro Apr 3, 2026 +2
Weaponized incompetence
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penderhead Apr 3, 2026 +2
Long fake nails.
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WILKOFL Apr 3, 2026 +2
Man haters. There's a girl at my office who is the most insufferable feminist. Hates everything to do with men, argues in meetings if a man is speaking. Alwsys combative against men in the office no matter how placid or chill they are. For the record, I have a daughter so I fully back women's rights and equality - but this lady is another level of irrational and it's so infuriating to watch. Every man steers clear of her as they all know they are one comment or action away from a formal complaint for some made up bullshit from her.
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Flonkerton_Scranton Apr 3, 2026 +2
If she does not understand the decline and fall of Gondor in the fourth age
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Stupiduselessthrow Apr 3, 2026 +2
Attention seeking, pick me, and just like straight up stupid or loud/obnoxious
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ronakcr7 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Stupidity.  
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Turbulent-Water5002 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Smoking, entitled attitude, bad hygiene, and childish behaviour. Nothing puts me off more than immaturity.
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MonsieurAK Apr 3, 2026 +1
MAGA
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Smudgy-Glasses71 Apr 3, 2026 +1
The controlling, self-centered superiority complex type who cackle at their own jokes.
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Good_Childhood5795 Apr 3, 2026 +1
For me it’s arrogance or being rude to people for no reason. Looks matter at first, but attitude can make someone instantly unattractive.
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handmade99 Apr 3, 2026 +3
no accountability "professional" victim children from different fathers tattoos poor hygiene constant swearing too much plastic surgery
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SumoloX Apr 3, 2026 +1
Sorry to say it but a kid (or multiple). I'm not playing someone's saved file
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Imaginary-Style012 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Physically? Poorly placed tattoos. Women, stop putting things above your boobies! It doesn't matter what it means, it looks TERRIBLE!!
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lilac-bunni Apr 3, 2026 +3
Too many piercings
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Searchingformovie1 Apr 3, 2026 +3
If she is cruel to animals or if you sense disgust or hate against animals
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Mallek1871 Apr 3, 2026 +4
A nose ring.
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superspur007 Apr 3, 2026 +5
With you all the way. The tiny indian stud on the side of the nostril is well s*** but the "ready for market " nose ring no thank you.
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Mallek1871 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Ready for market 😅😅😅😅 Shiiiit, that's an attractive breeding bull, haaarrrr!
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fluffyfish6 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Tbf they don't won't you ro be into them, so it works well for both parties
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Mallek1871 Apr 3, 2026 +1
🤷🏼 yep, works well.
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fluffyfish6 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Literally the point btw
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Purple_Excitement167 Apr 3, 2026
Wrong. Crazy hot
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Mallek1871 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Where on the crazy / hot scale?
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Icy_Item_9132 Apr 3, 2026 +1
8+/2 usually.
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I_Play_Boardgames Apr 3, 2026 -5
They asked what makes them unattractive, not attractive. You missed the mark.
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bloodem Apr 3, 2026 +5
No, he did not. I would wager most men find those pig-type nose rings incredibly unattractive and downright idiotic, even.
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Mallek1871 Apr 3, 2026 +4
They asked for human beings, not for farm animals. You missed the mark.
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[deleted] Apr 3, 2026 +2
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Brief_Review_2933 Apr 3, 2026 +4
Do u mean arrogance?
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GrinkOf Apr 3, 2026 +2
Height minimums on their dating profiles - A Hobbit
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badhouseplantbad Apr 3, 2026 +2
She smokes cigarettes
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CatsBatsandHats Apr 3, 2026 +2
A gut hanging out. I'd feel the same way about a guy with a gut hanging out too.
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SugarShitter Apr 3, 2026 +2
I don't have many hang-ups. She can be a little stinky or missing a tooth. But an annoying voice is an instant deal breaker.
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CampingMonk Apr 3, 2026 +3
Being ugly.
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Sky-Dragonfly-1229 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Leave ugly?
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Human-Evening564 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Not being able to find the testicles
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individualcoffeecake Apr 3, 2026 +3
Hairy upper lip or really hairy arms
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Purple_Excitement167 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Hairy upper lip is rough... I've unfortunately had to have that conversation a few times 🤣
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No2Morrows Apr 3, 2026 +1
Bad breath.
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GlumLoan6528 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Sloppy.
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burtonb818 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Lately, it’s the way they act. Guys are also guilty. But I’m at dinner or the grocery lately and you hear some of these women chat. It’s like where are your minds? This one woman was like I was walking across the street but then I realized I forgot my lipstick so like I walked back across the street and it was like so far but I’m like I’m a Pisces and my chart said I can’t navigate the day without makeup. First, a chart from what organization and what person or persons made it? Two, do you know you just mumbled on about crossing the street regardless of whether you are a Pisces or had lipstick on? Maybe more exercise is a good thing.
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Flighty11Swimmer Apr 3, 2026 +1
Constant negativity or drama.
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Moist-Meal-3757 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Ignoring or ghosting in order to feel needed and to catch attention. It's only rude
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mint_cherie Apr 3, 2026 +1
Literally being ugly 🤣
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guy-le-doosh Apr 3, 2026 +1
Long pointy nails, gum chewing.
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Colanasou Apr 3, 2026 +1
Attitude. We dont want another problem in our lives, we want peace and to relax
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Dazzling_Ice_18 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Her words and way of speaking...
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JohnTo7 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Bottom feeder, blown up lips.
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CarryturtleNZ Apr 3, 2026 +1
Bad breath
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AwsomeVincent Apr 3, 2026 +1
unwilling to do anything for one's. Asking for help for every little thing, shit drives me insane.
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petalbambi Apr 3, 2026 +1
When she wants me to take her shopping on the first date
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Medium_Listen_9004 Apr 3, 2026 +1
"baddie" culture/lifestyle.
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Public_Beef Apr 3, 2026 +1
Cigarettes and vapes
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GTaucer Apr 3, 2026 +1
Smoking cigarettes, or smelling like cigarette smoke.
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Maximum-Diet-6976 Apr 3, 2026 +1
That question comes every week. The search function will show many results. But yeah, talk/communicate not normal, make-up in general, not natural nails, high heels, beeing online is more important than with real people, ..
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Weary-Error-2105 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Being rude.
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Burned_Flame Apr 3, 2026 +1
Pretty on the outside, Ugly on the inside.
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Droidsexual Apr 3, 2026 +1
Expecting me to do all the work and act like they are just a prize I have to try to win over. If a woman acts like we need to grind like an MMO for her to reciprocate, we'll do that once and then dump them.
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MaxMouseOCX Apr 3, 2026 +1
Believing/participating in wackjob fringe ideas, "so sagittarius of you!" - no, that's complete and utter bullshit, if you want to be involved, go for it, don't try and get me involved though, I am not living by these rules.
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sergioA127 Apr 3, 2026 +1
It’s my turn to post this next
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RoughAmazing7630 Apr 3, 2026 +1
For me its not being a muscle guy immediately unattractive
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Ok_Assist_3377 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Stupid and rude
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valkarin Apr 3, 2026 +1
"Your hobby is so childish. You should drop it". No thanks Karen
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UpbeatBeach7657 Apr 3, 2026 +1
I think this applies to anyone really. Friends or relationships. Apart from the obvious ones like being rude, violent, etc. I tend to distance myself from people who are close-minded, judgmental, and elitist.
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Top-Calendar-2434 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Bad teeth
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WildAtHeart38 Apr 3, 2026 +1
tattoo on chest or waist
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SpaceTrash42069 Apr 3, 2026 +1
This question gets asked at least once a week…then someone comes along and ask women the same question about guys.
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sup3rhbman Apr 3, 2026 +1
Combative. Has to argue about everything, always believes she is right, can't let anything go.
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Chris_46_78 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Not knowing what she wants for dinner....but somehow, every single of the 5 options I present are unacceptable
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Fit-Obligation4962 Apr 3, 2026 +1
For me it’s orange skin pouty trout lips and drawn on chunky eyebrows.You know there is going to be nothing interesting about a slave to such ugly fashion. Saying that some guys will find it hot so it doesn’t really matter.
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modular-wizard Apr 3, 2026 +1
Tatoos 
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bellavita65 Apr 3, 2026 +1
She acts like Karoline Leavitt
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sk3pt1c Apr 3, 2026 +1
Astrology
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mabrunbakke Apr 3, 2026 +1
Where to begin. - Too much makeup, natural looks (with makeup). Nothing else. - fake anything (lips, eyelashes, b****, ass etc) - being aggressive. No your not strong and independent, just unpleasant. - too many or stupid places tattoos. - piercing in the face. - commenting about not having money for something (like gift for relatives), buy get hair and nails done every secund week. - non natural haircolours. - smoking. - drugs - if more people have been inside her, than on the moon (12 people). - Not taking care of herself. - bad attitude/ being rude to others.
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InsaneBasti Apr 3, 2026 +1
Same sht that makes men unatractive, being a piece of sht human
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Mela_ninja Apr 3, 2026
I’ve been considered as “strict” before but I thought my view was normal, so put that in mind. -physical looks: if she’s pretty overweight or heavily underweight I just don’t find that attractive. -Loud and obnoxious: the type of girl that has to hold the attention of the room. -being rude: this is self explanatory -hygiene: unfortunately a lot of people think it’s okay to shower once every 3 days. -friends with exes -loads of guy friends: casual male friends are okay but close friends and orbiters are a no go. -different positions in the monogamy scale: I’m only attracted to heavily monogamous women so p***, celebrity crushes and checking out other men isn’t for me. Going on dates with other men whilst dating me is also unattractive -posts revealing picture on social media -low self esteem -Bad at communication and lack of empathy
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DetectiveEasy5119 Apr 3, 2026 +1
being loud
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Craniectomy94 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Really violent farts.
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JakobSIO Apr 3, 2026 +1
Smoking
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tharun757 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Drug addict
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Roman_Kob Apr 3, 2026 +1
Materialism. I was getting closer and closer to a girl in college, very interested physically and emotionally, perhaps even falling in love, until one conversation where she casually mentioned she would do anything to get rich, even work for despicable asssholes in power. I was immediately disinterested in her as a partner on all levels. Contrastingly, my partner of 11 years, now wife and mother of my kid, was always disinterested in wealth and reluctant to spend unnecessary - like me. So even though we are far for wealthy or even middle class we both live comfortably, earning only modest money doing what we like and actually live a little.
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Far-Queue17 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Her d***
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SubstanceSuper3443 Apr 3, 2026 -1
Tattoos
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RelativeSupermarket2 Apr 3, 2026 -1
Blue hair
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