You know how in horror movies, the monster often seems much scarier BEFORE it's shown on screen?
Most of life is like that. We fear the unknown instinctively even more than the horrible known. So often when I'm scared of something, I know I'm usually just scared due to the uncertainty, not the actual worst case scenario. This helps me just power through and do it.
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aesthetic_kiaraMar 30, 2026
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thank you! makes sense 👍
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Omen-21Mar 30, 2026
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Nothing of importance was ever achieved by someone that got scared and stopped…
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One_Comb_4335Mar 30, 2026
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Being scared usually just means it matters to you. Don’t wait to feel ready, just make it smaller and start anyway. even tiny steps count, and confidence kinda builds after you do it not before
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aesthetic_kiaraMar 30, 2026
thank you! 👍
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margoliseMar 30, 2026
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depends.
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Fresh_Network5134Mar 30, 2026
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It won't hurt you. It will it.
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cottagecheesecraniumMar 30, 2026
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Think of the reason(s) why you want to do it, and see if it outweighs the fear.
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YDankXLegendMar 30, 2026
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Take smaller steps.
Until it is scary; but not impossibly scary.
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Beneficial_Finance_5Mar 30, 2026
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Doing something scared = Bravery, Courageous.
I like to think of it as the SAS motto, "Who Dares Wins"
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Silly_Ostrich_5116Mar 30, 2026
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Sometimes if you are scared of something it’s your body telling you that you shouldn’t do it.
It’d be nice to know exactly what you are scared of to give specific advice
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aesthetic_kiaraMar 30, 2026
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i have to do something important to me (sterilization surgery) unfortunately my family won't approve or understand. and what's worse is that I'll likely have to lie to them so they can help drive me home. the consultation day is almost here and I could really use your advice 🥲🙏
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Diligent_Opening_069Mar 30, 2026
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I think about those men in the trenches in WWI or in the Higgins boat in WWII....they had no choice but to do things scared. Even the civilians lived in fear during those times but still had to press on. Look how far we've come. Dark times are inevitable for any rebirth to happen. Just gotta know and believe that it gets greater later 🫶✨🥰
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