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Announcements Mar 30, 2026 at 5:17 AM

Sometimes I get crazy obsessed with people lol.

Posted by ConjoinedObsession

I won't like, stalk someone or weird stuff like that. but if I get along with someone really well and we click, ill want to talk to them and hang out so much. honestly it gets to be a bit much and im genuinely sorry for people when I accidentally do this to them. but part of me likes being this way and when I find someone else who feels similar, its always an amazing friendship. those friendships are what I always look forward to finding ❤️ have any of you had similar experiences?
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borg_drone_3546 Mar 30, 2026 +4
I'm going through that right now. She is so amazing that she was scared, but she made me aware of it anyway. The worst part is that you know what you're doing, you know it is overwhelming, but you just can't stop. But to find someone who would not only see it, make me aware of it (fearing it could hurt me) and, comprehend the why? Did you get someone special like that? I hope you did, or will.
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ConjoinedObsession Mar 30, 2026 +1
Haven't gotten someone like that, but hey, never know! I hope things work out the best they can with you two!!
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Your-Wonder-Sunny Mar 30, 2026 +3
It took me a long time to realise instead of my fixation/special interest being a TV Show or a specific band I had shifted that to a person and once I had realised that the horror of that realisation was brutal! I had realised I’d had a pattern of doing that a couple of times in my life and it was toxic. Thank goodness I no longer do that anymore.
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ConjoinedObsession Mar 30, 2026 +2
Honestly its rough but If you find someone who enjoys and especially reciprocates it, its a dream
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Successful_Court809 Mar 30, 2026 +2
When you meet someone special, it just works.
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RExplorer_93 Mar 30, 2026 +2
How do u know when to pull back without killing the vibe?
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ConjoinedObsession Mar 30, 2026 +1
Guessing lol
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Hot_Gain565 Mar 30, 2026 +2
totally get where you're coming from! those intense connections can be super fun but also a bit overwhelming sometimes. finding those genuine friendships is really what it's all about though.
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Mysterious_Pay_6957 Mar 30, 2026 +1
its normal to get really into people when you click but it can feel heavy for them if it’s constant... try pacing yourself... give space between hangouts and texts so things dont burn out, that way you keep the friendship strong without overwhelming them.
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MrBeanDaddy86 Mar 30, 2026 +1
I tend to become very close with people and want to talk to them a lot. My inner circle is like my family. Lot of folks have fallen off over the years. You don't need to be intense about it—I never have been, but I know that's the depth of friendship I prefer. My method's always been to feel people out to see if they're on the same wavelength before committing emotionally to any interpersonal relationship. I'll feel it out for quite a while and let the depth happen naturally, if it is going to. No reason to force anything or overwhelm anyone. Casual friends are okay, too.
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SalaryNo8963 Mar 30, 2026 +1
não consigo compreender isso que você falou como algo que eu já tenha passado. Tenho interações com pessoas que gosto e depois vida que segue. Porém, acho interessante perceber a quantidade de gente que se identifica com esse seu pensamento
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