those who have had or currently have a friend with benefits, how did you meet them?

College. Attended same class together and started hooking up. Neither of us wanted a relationship and kept it going for a while like that.

Went to a local bar to watch a SNF game. There was a woman there with her t*** out just sitting by herself. I kept glancing over my shoulder to see if anyone would join her. By the end of the 2nd quarter, I went to her table to ask if I could join her. We shared a few beers and chatted throughout the rest of the game. At the end of the game I figured I had nothing to lose. I asked her if she wanted to come back with me and hook up. She agreed and I dropped her off home the next morning. I texted her a week later and told her I'm not interested in a relationship and asked if she's like to be FB. She agreed! We had a real nice thing going for about six months. I would pick her up, we'd f*** like rabbits and I'd drop her off back home. No conversation, no getting to know each other, nothing. I never even knew her last name. Sadly, she moved out of state about six months later and I never saw her again.

It was a girl I was dating, I broke up with her. Then we somehow decided to just keep the benefits part!

We work together . She was great and still is , the type of girl that would make you a sandwich in a sundress . I had it so good for 2 plus years . Fucked that up for myself . We are still friends at work tho , she just doesn’t let me touch her butt anymore .

Working at a restaurant. It's like a cheat code.

Coworkers. It was fun but it can get messy. Better to look elsewhere honestly

I bumped into her...again and again.

We were in the same college and in the same class, and we were best friends. One day, she told me she wanted a casual relationship. I asked if she would consider me, and from there, things started between us. We both enjoyed it a lot.

One used to be my roommate

Local Listnook r4r.

my bestfriend recommended him to me (they were fwbs) and i reached out LMFAOOO

unrelated but i need a FB lol

I know a guy who hooked up with his half sister’s stepsister. Technically legal but feels very wrong.

omg my fwb was my roommate's brother.. talk about keeping it in the family 😏.

met my fwb at a party, just vibed and things escalated from there. kinda wild how those connections happen, right?

Listnook!!

Feeld. Listnook (I travel for work and have used this to make connections in different cities)

Coworkers in the restaurant industry. A lot of FB’s lol. Good times my 20’s were great. Happy where I am now too. Good life experience. 

My friend with benefits was a stripper. We met at her work. I jokingly suggested we go out when I was really drunk. After bailing on dates (including ones where she asked me out) she crashed at my place when she was too drunk to drive home (too drunk to drive period, but my place was like 4 minutes from her work), and things happened the next morning. Didn't last long because I found out she had a boyfriend after she came over a couple times.

He's my neighbour I have known him for 3 years. We became friends and eventually last year started sleeping together.

Small town Bible Belt. I never told anyone who I slept with. Word got around. 3 different young women approached me. A coworker. We made one another horny. 3 different housemates A friend of a coworker 2 more coworkers A neighbor.

I married my last fwb lol

Met them at a rave

College, she says junk on a night out and it started from there

Met them at work. Neither of us work at that job anymore, but maintain a great friendship & fantastic benefits 😁

Met him here

About 3 years ago, I went to a free outdoor yoga class at 9 am on a Saturday. I had become a regular at this class. On this day the girl checking people in was new. A cute Latina, 5’2 ish with a nice round butt. She smiled extra at me. I could tell. I said we should be friends and asked for her number. I texted her and after she finished her shift that day we went for a walk since I lived nearby. She ended up coming upstairs. We became friends with benefits for about 2 months until I got tired of hearing Taylor Swift on my sound system and also she started looking for something more serious.

Weddings. I had two, one from two different weddings. They were both bridesmaids. Weddings are an aphrodisiac.

Trivia night at a pub. Hung out a few times, played a few games, then one night she invited herself over to my place.

i don't think i've ever met a FWB ... its always been someone i met in other circumstances that at some point turned into a FWB.

We met when we worked together in a casual Japanese restaurant but we both were in relationships so nothing came out of it at the time. At work, we were really good friends and there was a clear boundary we were in relationships to the point where we both kinda friend-zoned each Years later, when I had broken up with my ex, I replied to one of her IG stories of her new puppy (not to pursue her either I just like dogs) and she invited me over to meet him. Both found out we were single and both mutually found each other sexually attractive so it led to sex the same day. Bit awkward initiating it tbh but once we got there it was awesome! At that point, the only text messages we would exchange is “are you free tonight?” And we wouldn’t beat around the bush when I would come over. It was pretty hot ngl. The best part of it all we didn’t have any mutual friends, were at different stages of our lives and there were zero romantic feelings while in bed. It was very intimate though as I think she was in a bit of a drought and having a whole house to ourselves with no housemates we could do whatever we wanted. As a result, nobody got hurt when it eventually ended. Good times.

Started buying weed from her. Started having to wait at her house for it to be delivered. Started bonding over tv shows we watched while smoking/waiting. Started staying even after my weed was delivered to finish shows. Started hanging out even when I didn't need weed. Watched a particularly hot episode of Shameless that left us both really horny. Laughed as I was leaving that I'd be masturbating all night. She giggled and said me too. I stopped and turned, we locked eyes. 2 minutes later we were naked on her bed. Started having sex every time I'd come to buy weed.

I used to be FWB with this girl, we met when she came into my workplace and thought I was hot and cute so gave me a note telling me what she thought about me and giving me her number. The next day she had agreed to meet understanding I wasn’t looking for a relationship at that point. We met and ended up f******, it was that good we decided to be FWB.

One was a former colleague, another a friend from a friend who I met at his birthdayparty, another through Fetlife. And my first fwb when I was 17-ish I met at a big international event. The friend I was with fell in love with her and they started dating. When that fell apart I was still just friends with her but things got heated when we saw each other again. Mindblowing experience. At this moment there are no benefits packages activated with friendships. We’ll see how things work out cause I’m now in touch with a married woman who wants a Daddy. So we’ll see what’s in the stars for us. We matched on Feeld.

Online, mutual friends or just friends where there was trust and respect. It’s only weird if you make it weird.

dating apps. listnook.

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Well we met in middle school, both of us switched schools, we stayed friends, once we were both adults we became FWBs for a few months, and then that ended and we are still friends to this day.

He added me on snap. We linked up once and have been since. Neither of us want a relationship we watch games and smoke and etc and hookup sometimes