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For Sale Mar 26, 2026 at 10:52 AM

'We are in agony' - Savannah Guthrie does first interview since mum's disappearance

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https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ckgxzlny4w3o

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pickleranger Mar 26, 2026 +113
My heart has always hurt for the families of people who go missing. When someone dies it is awful, but it’s is known and final. They are usually allowed time to grieve, then integrate back into “normal life” and usually given some grace while adjusting. When someone goes missing- how much “grace” are they given? There is no closure, no finality- at what point do bosses say “You need to come back to work” ? How can they be expected to go back to their lives, when they are metaphorically still bleeding from an open wound? Even though Mrs. Guthrie is almost certainly dead, they do not KNOW. How f****** awful.
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Neat-Foot4153 Mar 26, 2026 +72
This is so true. My brother went missing 8 years ago. After a month I knew logically that he was dead, but I never got closure. It was an open wound that festered for years and destroyed my mental health. I ended up losing my job and my wife left me because I just couldn’t escape the pain of never knowing for sure what happened to him. After a lot of therapy and working on myself, I’m in a much better place now. For probably the first year I couldn’t even say my brother’s name without crying, but now I can talk about him without a problem (at least most of the time). I like to think that even though the wound never healed, I found a way to keep it in check and avoid infection. I sincerely hope the Guthrie family gets the closure they deserve and, if not, I hope they have strong support systems to help them get through
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pickleranger Mar 26, 2026 +24
I’m so sorry about your brother. I hope someday you get closure. If you’d like to share a story about him, I’d love to read it 💜
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Neat-Foot4153 Mar 26, 2026 +36
Thank you for saying that. One of my favorite stories to tell about Dave was the time he won $1000 on a scratch ticket. My aunt used to give them out as Christmas presents and one year he won big. My dad then asked him what he was going to do with the money and, without skipping a beat, he said he was giving me half to help pay for my college tuition. He was so proud to have a nerdy brother who did well in school. My last conversation with him was the day I defended my PhD dissertation. He said it was so cool to finally have a doctor in the family and then we had a friendly argument about football. He was a sweet guy and I miss him terribly.
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pickleranger Mar 26, 2026 +18
Wow, he sounds like a really supportive guy! I certainly wouldn’t give away half of my thousand dollar winnings to my siblings, he must really love you lol. What’s sweet story, thanks for sharing.
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Old-Library5546 Mar 26, 2026 +7
Every phone ring or knock at the door, the little bit of hope it might be their loved one
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ocular__patdown Mar 27, 2026 +1
The amount of grace is determined by what country you live in and what type of job you work. Work in a factory in China? Not much grace probably. Work as a news anchor in the USA? Much more grace.
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Wind_Responsible Mar 26, 2026 +55
I feel bad saying this but, I think they need ground penetrating radar. The kind they used to map the ancient cities of equator and Angkor Wat. I don’t know why it’s not used more often in investigations tbh
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nefhithiel Mar 26, 2026 +57
As an archaeologist it’s very expensive and time consuming and requires specialized training and knowledge to interpret results. It’s not clear like an X-ray it’s more like ‘this anomaly is consistent with graves we’ve scanned before it’s worth checking out.’ Also you might be thinking of lidar which is a lot clearer but doesn’t penetrate the ground it’s a high resolution scan of the ground surface that can show abnormalities. It’s very useful for looking beneath a forest canopy which made it great for finding structures in Central America. Both methods would require a search grid starting point.
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Wind_Responsible Mar 27, 2026 +1
And as the wife of a commercial diver and a construction worker who uses this technology in her craft to find lines underground —— there’s so many easier ways to do this than how they seem to be making education do it. All they really have to look around is areas around her home. If you want a project done quickly, find a way to make $ off of it. Sucks. Truth sucks. Imagine if history made real money. How many answers wld we have already?
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johnbrowndnw59 Mar 26, 2026 +14
GPR requires pushing a tiny cart back and forth for hours and hours slowly scanning the ground surface to give a very unclear picture of what’s under it. If you don’t know where to look, it won’t find a missing person. It’s not like LIDAR, which shoots lasers to map the ground surface from an airplane.
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Wind_Responsible Mar 26, 2026 -4
Not all of it. There’s also gpr done with drones which the state police, sheriff, and probably even the local police have. It can also be done under water with rov
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KaneIntent Mar 26, 2026 +3
Are they supposed to radar the entire Arizona desert?
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Snoo_censorspeech Mar 26, 2026 +56
You will never convince me this wasn't a hit job ordered against her by Trump/this administration for her coverage.
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magseven Mar 26, 2026 +20
I think if he was up to stuff like that, Jimmy Kimmel would have been a first target.
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ZeusMcFloof Mar 26, 2026 +8
Too obvious, right? I thought that, too. This is more subtle and plausible to deny.
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Conscious-Sympathy51 Mar 26, 2026 +38
No one will ever convince me the government hasn’t been doing shit like that for years and years.
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okthatscoolll Mar 26, 2026 +8
This is the same as anti-vax and “stop the steal” Americans just love conspiracies and nonsense in general.
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ilikechihuahuasdood Mar 26, 2026 +32
Except Nancy Guthrie was actually kidnapped.
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okthatscoolll Mar 26, 2026 -17
Obviously??? But not by trump lol…. What did you think you were doing with this comment 🤣🤣
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Welcome2MyCumZone Mar 27, 2026 +1
bro you’re too poor to talk here
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okthatscoolll Mar 27, 2026 +1
lol what?
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Welcome2MyCumZone Mar 27, 2026
What part of my comment was confusing?
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cherrybounce Mar 27, 2026 +1
All of it.
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Snoo_censorspeech Mar 26, 2026 -1
Nah it's actually pretty well supported by the criminal actions of this government to at least wonder.
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SaltyWine1924 Mar 26, 2026 +94
"The Guthrie family donated $500,000 in February to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, saying they are "hoping that the attention that has been given to our mom and our family will extend to all the families like ours who are in need and need prayers and need support"." I think your comment is more of a fact than an opinion and one that the family also sees.
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Xeroxenfree Mar 26, 2026 +29
I have because I pay attention to local news. Most missing persons stories are local stories. You are just pointing out the only news media you consume is national.
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Human_Document_1577 Mar 26, 2026 +26
Locally, yes. Nationally, I don’t engage with the news with any expectation that every missing person is going to get a spotlight on CNN or the like. It makes complete sense that a prominent media figure like Guthrie would be able to use the platforms she has close ties with. I can tell you I’d certainly do the same if a family member of mine went missing. Like I get what you’re saying, but what are they to do about it? It is what it is, more people in the world know Guthrie than know the random person in Vermont or Florida or Ohio going through this same awful scenario, but I just don’t think anyone in her position would reasonably stop and say to themselves, “am I abusing my privilege by trying to help find my abducted mother?” I think it is pretty cynical to imply their donation is self-serving and their increased spotlight on the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children isn’t a very good and kind and generous thing to do while they’re going through this experience. They’ve openly acknowledged they understand this type of situation is impacting many people across the country, but that doesn’t change the fact that this woman is still missing and they reasonably have a personal investment in finding her. Any public act of charity is good whether the person who made it is benefitting or not, because how else do people even know these things exist? Awareness is a currency in this context, and Guthrie can raise a lot of it. Look at what John Walsh did with his platform when his son was abducted and killed, he devoted his life to being an advocate for families who have suffered similar situations
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SaltyWine1924 Mar 26, 2026 +11
I am not disagreeing with you. I merely stated that your reply was a fact and not an opinion. It is a fact that they are getting an unfair amount of coverage (as would any person of notability over a nobody from small town city, state). I also was pointing out that they, too, see the unfairness in their coverage vs others with the blurb right from the article attached to the post. Would it have been more beneficial of them not to say we donated, or not donate at all? If they didn't say they donated peple would be raking them over the coals for not doing anything for the people not getting coverage or help. It's truly lose-lose for them.
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sunflowerads Mar 26, 2026 +5
ummm absolutely yes i have. if you haven’t, you aren’t paying attention and thats on you.
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Efficient-Pipe191 Mar 26, 2026 +5
They self admitted they don’t consume any news except Reddit. Kinda a self own there
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sunflowerads Mar 26, 2026 +2
complaining about their own algorithm that they created is so funny 💀💀💀
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SpiritualB0x3 Mar 26, 2026 +55
I’ve seen this kinda popular opinion circulating too many times. This is just callousness and whataboutism getting normalized.
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Bigchunky_Boy Mar 26, 2026 +25
There are companies ( Hootsuite ) that are paid to do whataboutism on social media and I wouldn’t put it past the current FBI ( Kash Patel ) to do such a thing . The FBI is failing miserably and they need to save face. Hootsuite has been hired to do this for ICE to help their image .
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the_zero Mar 26, 2026 +6
Hootsuite is just a tool that allows you to post and organize them into campaigns, schedule posts, etc. there are several tools like it. Im not sure they offer professional services, but I could be wrong. Edit: [im at least partially, if not wholly wrong](https://www.inc.com/annabel-burba/hootsuite-is-in-hot-water-with-customers-for-its-ice-contract-its-response-hasnt-helped/91293506)
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GingerBelvoir Mar 26, 2026 +2
Shit, I’m glad you made that comment because TIL that Hootsuite is a shit company. I’ve actually used it at a previous company but won’t be adding it to a tech stack any time soon.
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the_zero Mar 26, 2026 +2
I’m glad I looked it up too. I’m keeping company away as well ✊
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Morningfluid Mar 26, 2026 +3
We have seen celebrities have whole PR teams sent to protect the image of an individual. Especially on reddit.
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schw4161 Mar 26, 2026 +2
Thanks for the info. Never heard of this company and I feel like I’m about to dive into a crazy rabbit hole.
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Irtahd Mar 26, 2026 +8
Welcome to the new bean soup internet. No matter what you do for whatever reasons someone will find fault in it so they can have a momentary moral high ground.
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ur-in-here-with-me Mar 27, 2026 -1
Who is that man doing the interview?
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SuccessfulSpring3354 Mar 26, 2026 +1
Maybe EriKKKa KirKKK called and offered grieving lessons?
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