Teach me your secrets because I hold grudges like they are family heirlooms.
7
GettingSunburntApr 1, 2026
+3
Every time you think about someone you bear a grudge to, they're living rent-free in your head.
They very likely don't care (or think) about you at all.
So evict them. Forgive if you like, but just let them go. You only have so many thoughts left, so why waste them on the assholes?
Works for me... usually.
3
smorosiApr 1, 2026
+1
I have been letting a guy who has been dead for 28 years live rent free in my head. He tried to kidnap me and stalked me for 7 years because he had a crush on Winona Ryder and I am told even now that I favor her
1
_ogio_Apr 1, 2026
+1
If you hold a grudge, all you get is stress, no peace and 1 good relationship less.
If you forgive, your spirit is at peace and only good things can come from it.
But remember: forgive doesn't mean forget
For example my sister stole from me recently, i forgiven her and will always help her with anything, but she is no longer allowed in my house.
She didn't apologize nor admit it(even next to overwhelming evidence).
But i don't want apology.
I wany sister.
1
KavyaMehta01Apr 1, 2026
+1
Trillions of stars, approximately the same amount of planets too, and such grand vastness of space, but there's only one person (the person you have held grudge against), in this grand creation of space, isn't it naive to not be forgiving, and hold onto what they did to you?
Of course the opposite is true too, but I hope it helps, since you asked for how to be forgiving.
1
mcbain_83Apr 1, 2026
+4
I heard a saying, maybe Hindu and I'm butchering it im sure but it's along there lines of ... "What damage can someone do to you when you weild the sword of forgiveness. "
It's very true. People want revenge to damage you but you can take that power away from them with forgiveness.
4
Good-Definition-1977Apr 1, 2026
+2
that kind of heart is rare… just don’t forget you deserve the same grace you keep giving away.
2
FezaCummerbApr 1, 2026
+1
Teach me your secrets because I still hold grudges from middle school.
1
AmazingPrincess5778Apr 1, 2026
+1
Forgiveness is beautiful, just make sure you are not tolerating what you shouldn't
1
Obtusk22Apr 1, 2026
+1
That’s a strength, but yeah, learning where to draw the line is what turns it into something that actually protects you too.
1
Fiction_lover08Apr 1, 2026
+17
Nothing much... Oh maybe bedrotting and doomscrolling and day dreaming :)
17
Candid_Wedding_1271Apr 1, 2026
+1
Hahaha
1
Appropriate-Peak4428Apr 1, 2026
+1
oh but i definitely get my morning run in every day just before i do pilates and then of course my pills
1
Logos732Apr 1, 2026
+1
Same
1
BigBirdsBrainApr 1, 2026
+13
Making people laugh in serious moments without breaking the room. It resets everything.
13
Heavy-Call182Apr 1, 2026
+2
Real talent,Every awkward corporate meeting needs a person like you.
2
lopoardApr 1, 2026
+11
video gaming , making art , good fashion sense and am crazy good at flipping/reselling
11
Apprehensive_Two1674Apr 1, 2026
+7
Communicating clearly
7
f8NegativeApr 1, 2026
+4
Unappreciated skillset
4
DardS8BrApr 1, 2026
+8
Identifying fossils. I have autism and an unhealthy obsession with fossils. If you have a fossil, I can probably identify it for you
8
HermannmituApr 1, 2026
+2
That‘s pretty neat. Can you tell me how to find fossils? Do I have to dig deep?
2
nextgenmedia111Apr 1, 2026
+6
I’m good at noticing small details that most people miss. What about you?
6
StreetNoFighterApr 1, 2026
+7
cooking breakfast foods, eggs are my specialty
7
shrekktitsApr 1, 2026
+6
procrastinating
6
Prestigious-Mud8465Apr 1, 2026
+5
day dreaming
5
Admirable_Today6843Apr 1, 2026
+1
Same but mine always involve winning the l****** and buying way too many Christmas lights
1
abil90Apr 1, 2026
+1
Is that improving memory.
1
Space_kun01Apr 1, 2026
+5
Overthinking and overexplaning 🥲
5
NeonbuntApr 1, 2026
+1
Oh damn, I'm really good at that too!
1
Space_kun01Apr 1, 2026
+3
Bro 🤜🤛
3
virtualreadsApr 1, 2026
+3
Going beyond to help others
3
f8NegativeApr 1, 2026
+1
F*** me, bro.
1
f8NegativeApr 1, 2026
+3
Eating p****.
3
pookienavApr 1, 2026
+1
💯💯
1
ceruleanfiftyeightApr 1, 2026
+1
oh?
1
Alternative_Bug_579Apr 1, 2026
+2
Turning fiction story's into non fiction.
2
Otherwise_Pudding382Apr 1, 2026
+2
Thinking, but not taking action. I might have a few ideas in my mind, but when 9 a.m. comes, I just go to work over and over again
2
[deleted]Apr 1, 2026
+2
[removed]
2
Dependent_Star_1728Apr 1, 2026
+1
So sweet
1
See-WhathappenwazApr 1, 2026
+2
Surviving
2
SuspiciousCry5228Apr 1, 2026
+2
Passing judgements
2
SuperDuperAnonymousAApr 1, 2026
+2
Pretending that I’m ok enough for everyone around me to dump their issues onto me.
I literally want to kill myself everyday this world is worse than ass.
2
lunalignedApr 1, 2026
+2
Not really oversharing
2
Classic-Air-746Apr 1, 2026
+2
Gathering all the facts and reaching the wrong conclusion.
2
happinesslies_9724Apr 1, 2026
+2
Being bad at everything, I'm really good at it.
2
AtrioxsSonApr 1, 2026
+2
Procrastination
2
pumpkinpie4224Apr 1, 2026
+2
Talking too much
2
IllPresentation1636Apr 1, 2026
+2
Doing nothing at work all day and then getting stressed about it.
2
NomadictionnnApr 1, 2026
+2
I’m weirdly good at remembering small details people mention once and bringing them up at the right time later. It sounds simple, but it’s helped me build a lot of connections because people feel genuinely seen
2
Candid_Wedding_1271Apr 1, 2026
+2
Overthinking scenarios that will literally never happen.
2
Comfortable_Pace_107Apr 1, 2026
+2
Overthinking things that didn’t need thinking in the first place.
2
MalibuBonApr 1, 2026
+2
Procrastination while surfing the net.
2
TheDudeWhoCanDoItApr 1, 2026
+2
Doing nothing. My speciality
2
iamAkazaApr 1, 2026
+2
I’m good at listening and remembering small details about people. It helps me understand them better and makes conversations feel more genuine.
2
Latter_Individual431Apr 1, 2026
+1
Samee, I used to be embarassed about it because they wouldn't remember such little things about me.
1
Middle-Caregiver-930Apr 1, 2026
+2
Finding solutions when everyone else is stuck
2
Seishi_04Apr 1, 2026
+2
Overthinking
2
crazyzucchiniApr 1, 2026
+2
Understanding people's emotions
2
Tall-Shoulder-6297Apr 1, 2026
+2
Bowling
2
Proud_Tie_4937Apr 1, 2026
+1
Playing bgmi, pubg
1
amosayora4Apr 1, 2026
+1
Lying
1
Hopeful_College2416Apr 1, 2026
+1
Yup. I am he
1
heyykrishishereApr 1, 2026
+1
Beaing tensed so fast , i thing its happening because of heavy smoking weed !
1
Mindless-Fan7153Apr 1, 2026
+1
With Love.
1
RoxyTEMApr 1, 2026
+1
Sleeping and eating
1
Sexy_SorceressApr 1, 2026
+1
i'm good at giving advice that i don't follow myself
1
DIRTYDOMLIVApr 1, 2026
+1
Nothing
1
EpsteinEpstainTheoryApr 1, 2026
+1
Getting under people's skin through means other than just being loud and annoying or creepy
1
[deleted]Apr 1, 2026
+1
[deleted]
1
Hopeful_College2416Apr 1, 2026
+1
It would have been better than the one you chose. I am he. S***
1
Outrageous-PlumsApr 1, 2026
+1
Pissing people off.
1
CrystalrigsApr 1, 2026
+1
Procrastinating so hard I've turned it into an actual art form
1
zaif_2004Apr 1, 2026
+1
Binge scrolling yt shorts and fb reels.
1
LukeDiesApr 1, 2026
+1
Masturb
1
Remarkable-Fly-1730Apr 1, 2026
+1
I’m really good at designing a room so that it’s attractive, comfortable, and functional.
1
ab00Apr 1, 2026
+1
Enemas
1
BaneTheGameApr 1, 2026
+1
Really good at sex but lost my virginity at 28 and only have sex like once every 2 years.
I make people finish like 5 times and leave women violently shaking. Last chick I was with said "I love you" and it was a one night stand.
That was 2 and a half years ago though.... I don't go outside at all or chase tail so I never get laid.
1
ciollApr 1, 2026
+1
pretending to be okay
1
AdilShaikh5786Apr 1, 2026
+1
To respect everyone.
1
DecentYesterday6092Apr 1, 2026
+1
My mind muscle connection high intensity quadruple set free weight training program for an hour a day, 5-6 days a week.
1
lnc_gomesApr 1, 2026
+1
I'm really good at being pretty good at everything. I'm a jack of all trades and master of none.
1
ronniealohaApr 1, 2026
+1
Sleeping
1
Additional-Till-6326Apr 1, 2026
+1
Sleeping
1
Several_Air6903Apr 1, 2026
+1
Comparing myself to others
1
sicksquid75Apr 1, 2026
+1
Minding my own business.
1
JackCooper_7274Apr 1, 2026
+1
barbecue and smoking meats
1
Sweet-Economist-9873Apr 1, 2026
+1
I’m really good at staying calm when everything’s going wrong and figuring things out one step at a time.
1
NeonbuntApr 1, 2026
+1
I'm really good at learning the basics of new stuff... and then never surpass the basics.
So technically I'm not really good at anything.
1
CarryturtleNZApr 1, 2026
+1
Spending money
1
thatboycameronApr 1, 2026
+1
I really am good at public speaking
1
Dependent_Star_1728Apr 1, 2026
+1
Overthinking i guess
1
OkComplaint1054Apr 1, 2026
+1
Following directions.
1
Glittering-Idea142Apr 1, 2026
+1
eating and sleeping😭
1
lowsmotionApr 1, 2026
+1
I think I have strengths in learning language, maybe pattern recognition, and associative thinking.
I have zero f****** clue what direction that points me in, in life
1
SirbaconstripApr 1, 2026
+1
Self control, never had any kid of alcohol never smoked never never done any kind of drug ever and I've never missed work or taken vacation.
1
EldarLenkApr 1, 2026
+1
Eating at buffets
1
Quirky-Ad2801Apr 1, 2026
+1
Take a shit
1
RiPiLiQiApr 1, 2026
+1
Gleeking and blinking really really fast.
1
2gwanxoApr 1, 2026
+1
Finding the best memes
1
PuzzleheadedBet2490Apr 1, 2026
+1
Scrolling my phone
1
NoChart2399Apr 1, 2026
+1
Be greatful person a long the way
1
Miss-Peach-Apr 1, 2026
+1
cooking, my dishes actually taste pretty good.
1
eboss454Apr 1, 2026
+1
I can gift-wrap a present so perfectly that people genuinely feel guilty opening it. I’m talking about the patterns on the paper lining up exactly at the seam, crisp 45-degree folds, and ribbons that look like they were tied by a machine. My peak achievement was wrapping a literal bicycle so it looked like a giant, elegant piece of candy. I spend 11 months of the year being a normal person and one month being a festive perfectionist
1
apxexpensifyApr 1, 2026
+1
making toast?..
I'm really good at it😂🔥
1
TheDesi007Apr 1, 2026
+1
Daydreaming may be.
1
TreatOk4085Apr 1, 2026
+1
Can learn fast
1
SailorsGravesApr 1, 2026
+1
Explaining my emotions to people without draining their lifeforce.
1
ABruisedBananaApr 1, 2026
+1
Slapping the Cajon.
1
ImakeKnifesatnight76Apr 1, 2026
+1
Identifying imposters in the insect world, especially by their behaviour.
Hoverflies can't fool me because they hover over plants they like
1
AccostiqApr 1, 2026
+1
Complaining is my method.
1
WowInternetApr 1, 2026
+1
Making people laugh in serious situations, cooking meat and video games come to mind. I also know a lot of random facts about animals/nature.
1
RareLeadership369Apr 1, 2026
+1
Taking the piss out of people
1
AlertJuggernaut7949Apr 1, 2026
+1
Being myself
1
BeltZeal2DealApr 1, 2026
+1
I am good at staying calm in stressful situations.
1
Budget_Coach9124Apr 1, 2026
+1
making music that sounds like the thing in my head. took years of terrible songs to get there but now i can sit down and something decent comes out in an hour or two. the gap between "i hear it" and "i made it" used to be massive and it's finally getting smaller
1
randomopinionguy1Apr 1, 2026
+1
I’m good in joking my family 😂
1
Unknown__Redditor__Apr 1, 2026
+1
analyzing. understanding things. devising plans.
1
CelebrationFar2804Apr 1, 2026
+1
Being kind and empathetic. I feel it's my greatest strength but also my hamartia.
1
sirdigbykittencaesarApr 1, 2026
+1
Making piecrust from scratch. And volleyball, for some reason.
1
ARYAN_BIRLA123Apr 1, 2026
+1
Moving on 🤙
1
imaprolickerApr 1, 2026
+1
Look at my name. I AM a pro
1
Civil_Priority_4162Apr 1, 2026
+1
failure i guess
1
Fun-Elderberry-4447Apr 1, 2026
+1
Solving problems. And understanding someone's perspective the later seems to have more cons than pros
1
not_marri99Apr 1, 2026
+1
Shipping stuff that survives prod
Im the one they call at 3am to trace a weird race condition to a bad cache invalidation, push a tiny pragmatic fix, add a test and a one-line changelog note because thats what keeps customers happy and the team sleeping, teh fancy refactor comes later (and is definately important but usually gets deprioritized) - also mentor juniors on debugging patterns, thats where the payoff multiplies
1
lalitasaApr 1, 2026
+1
sleep, lol 😴
1
sqlearnerApr 1, 2026
+1
Explaining things in a simple way. If I understand something, I can usually break it down so anyone can get it
1
Livid-Walk-2709Apr 1, 2026
+1
Complaining i guess
1
7erminator01Apr 1, 2026
+1
At annoying people off...
1
sisterrayforadayApr 1, 2026
+1
I am really good at rewriting popular songs to make them about how my dog stinks. I could release a whole album.
1
birdstarskygodApr 1, 2026
+1
Handstands
1
Charming_Kale_8912Apr 1, 2026
+1
Reading people, sometimes so well I can get inside their heads. I’ve had naturally manipulative tendencies in the past.
1
ItsPatrick_BatemanApr 1, 2026
+1
Cooking, selfcare, gym
1
lowkeyLobotomizedApr 1, 2026
+1
Active listening and asking questions
1
Shamen_WulfApr 1, 2026
+1
Let me think, I think my ability to. Create Art
1
Traditional-Let9530Apr 1, 2026
+1
Staying calm and figuring things out when everything starts going wrong.
1
a1stixfrApr 1, 2026
+1
Geography, I know all flags and memorized the entire world map
1
slightleeeApr 1, 2026
+1
Doom scrolling
1
MikeTheDude23Apr 1, 2026
+1
Kissing.
1
Spaceman136Apr 1, 2026
+1
Being a mascot. I’ve been a mascot for 4 years at this point and I’ll probably continue being one much longer. I always used to wonder how professional athletes could be like “I’m better than everyone in this room”, but now I kinda get that feeling. I know I’m good at it even though I don’t have a big ego. It just comes naturally to me I guess, plus, it helps that I have so much experience, I’ve basically been in every situation you could think of, and then some. It’s a fun job for sure but I take it seriously, lots of great perks too. I wont reveal too much info as to keep the mascot identity secret but I go to a major SEC D1 school, it’s not like I’m at some rinky dink D3 no name. But yeah, overall it’s a fun experience and I love what I do as well as being good at it
1
Objective-Agency-193Apr 1, 2026
+1
Procrastinating. Being anxious
1
Icy-Firefighter4462Apr 1, 2026
+1
Keeping peace
1
According_Divide_513Apr 1, 2026
+1
Procrastination
1
joelstazApr 1, 2026
+1
Wasting time
1
Equivalent_Ad2069Apr 1, 2026
+1
Googling. I can find anything in under 30 seconds. My friends think I'm smart but really I just know how to phrase a search query.
1
Latter_Individual431Apr 1, 2026
+1
I'm really good at not being good at anything
1
valhallaswyrdoApr 1, 2026
+1
Fixing machinery, it just sort of makes sense to me how pieces work together and what effect a problem has on the system as a whole.
1
nottaken22Apr 1, 2026
+1
30s to 40s Speedrunning fixing my fallen bike chain.
1
FormoftheBeautifulApr 1, 2026
+1
I can use my tongue like a winch. If I fall back, I can unlock my jaw, and then I just need someone to walk my tongue to a tree, put it through a pulley, and then bring it back to me, and then I run it through my nostrils, and back to the pulley, and then back to me, and I can either lift myself up, or if I dig in real nice with my hooves I can bend the tree pretty good, or if it’s old or damaged I can pull it down.
1
RingReasonableApr 1, 2026
+1
Nothing, lol
1
BoobInspector420Apr 1, 2026
+1
Sex, thinking outside the box (no pun intended) and pretty much anything I let my adhd brain get into.
1
0b4rbieApr 1, 2026
+1
scrolling
1
bogdanBgyzApr 1, 2026
+1
maths , IMO w*****
1
Heavy_Inside4932Apr 1, 2026
+1
What is one-third of two-thirds?
1
bogdanBgyzApr 1, 2026
+1
2/9 😂
1
Heavy_Inside4932Apr 1, 2026
+1
Excellent 😂🎖
1
fuckspezamirightApr 1, 2026
+1
Faking it till I make it, and self destructing, just working on avoiding the latter this time after making something of myself
1
Fit-Berry-4829Apr 1, 2026
+1
Talking
1
Exotic-Mine-6008Apr 1, 2026
+1
Gaming and cooking and coding
1
LadyCordeliaStuartApr 1, 2026
+1
Any word game involving scrambled letters. No one will ever play boggle or bananagrams or scrabble with me :( I can also often do those word scramble puzzles in the paper immediately, like just read them like they aren't scrambled. I think it's because im a little dyslexic and got so used to unscrambling words it's just normal reading for me at this point
1
PopcornMarshalApr 1, 2026
+1
Listening. I’m really good at making people feel heard without immediately trying to "fix" things
1
ThunarvinApr 1, 2026
+1
Apparently, it's getting people to talk to me wherever I go. People walk up to me in the most random places and tell me their life stories.
1
teddykaygeebeeApr 1, 2026
+1
Naps.
1
Stargazer__2893Apr 1, 2026
+1
I'm probably in the top 2% of software engineers and singers, which are my professions.
But I'm a successful self-help author and I used to do confidence and life coaching. My ex used to say that was where my greatest talent was, that I was probably in the top fraction of a percent of people in my helpful insights in that sphere, and she thought I should focus my energy there. I just didn't like that identity. Most people associate it with charlatans. So I don't do it any more.
1
SissyKiraraApr 1, 2026
+1
Arcade games. Local Dave and Busters as my name on so many machines. Mostly GH3 tracks
1
virgobunnyzApr 1, 2026
+1
avoiding any sort of conflict. with other people, or within myself. it can seem to be a good thing, but the more i avoid it, the more i struggle.
1
Samantha_Reed88Apr 1, 2026
+1
Making awkward situations even more awkward…
1
Evening_Picture5233Apr 1, 2026
+1
Maybe it could be that I can make people confused pretty easily, and I can even sleep for like 12 hours a day every day
1
learning-6211Apr 1, 2026
+1
I'm still figuring out
1
Equal_Goal_4390Apr 1, 2026
+1
Forging competitons. Number 1 in america
1
ph-chApr 1, 2026
+1
I'm good at baking
1
Xc4lib3rApr 1, 2026
+1
I’m good at nothing.
1
mastad0420Apr 1, 2026
+1
apparently being a dad. My toddler things I’m awesome. No matter what happens during the day, her squeal when I come home makes my day.
1
encreturquoiseApr 1, 2026
+1
Feeling nostalgic and taking naps
1
Njet_333Apr 1, 2026
+1
Ignoring
1
broken_3rdwheelApr 1, 2026
+1
Avoiding responsibility and pretending everything in my life isn't about to emulate a burning plane crash in the very near future.
1
MoodDropperApr 1, 2026
+1
Listening
1
duckerduckysApr 1, 2026
+1
Falling in love... Breaks me
1
NoNietzscheApr 1, 2026
+1
Saying any word backwards. It just appears in my head when hearing or seeing any word. Completely useless but hey. I'm good at it.
1
SunnySam_30Apr 1, 2026
+1
Being lazy!.
1
DiegoSans79Apr 1, 2026
+1
I'm great at lying on the couch)
1
KaiserFortinbrasApr 1, 2026
+1
Offshore trolling.
Rigging baits, setting the spread, (hopefully) fighting fish, gaffing, filleting and grilling.
Miss those days.
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