Toxic parenting only leaves emotional and mental trauma to me
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Rare_Squash9852Mar 28, 2026
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Honestly nothing but trauma and unforgettable pains and anxiety
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Elegant-Life-8293Mar 28, 2026
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Being very distant in any sort of relationship with anyone. Struggling to form bonds.
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between-momentsMar 28, 2026
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For me, I grew up with a critical mother and a father who used silent treatment. I never really felt lovable or good enough. I spent almost 40 years chasing career success and educational achievements, thinking they would finally make me feel fulfilled but every time I reached a goal, I still felt empty and lost.
It wasn’t until I started therapy that I realized how much of this came from my childhood.
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RareLeadership369Mar 28, 2026
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U grow up insecure & blame urself for everything.
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Electrical_Drama8477Mar 28, 2026
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It worked two ways : if you are unattached , from childhood you learn to do things your own way you become independent early but still have a dilemma inside or good/bad and being irresponsible towards them , if you are attached to them and kind of try to fix them or care for them , in long run you became mentally exhausted , lack confidence ( because toxicity at home will deprived you of trust ) , and eventually you shall took time to learn things own way . In second case , things could be better if you found good friends , understanding relatives or good caring life partner .
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blushme64Mar 28, 2026
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I realized I have become extremely sensitive to criticism because growing up my family would constantly criticize me for the way I talk, the way I look and everything. Even spilling something at a dinner table would turn into this huge huge lecture of how useless I am and never realized how much those little things affected me.
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Appropriate-Lead-154Mar 28, 2026
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toxic parents can really mess with your head as an adult. things like trust issues, low self-esteem, and repeating their patterns in your own relationships are all super common. it's tough to break free from that cycle.
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Ok-Clothes-6979Mar 28, 2026
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Do you mean from childhood, or toxic parents near me as a parent myself.
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between-momentsMar 28, 2026
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I mean from childhood
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permadeath04Mar 28, 2026
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As I am conceived by r***, my entire existence is Hell. I am unable to ever experience love or pleasure, as it's impossible to add them later.
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boredbanker97Mar 28, 2026
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Lack of confidence
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Joe103192Mar 28, 2026
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Toxic parenting can create toxic kids which grow up to become toxic parents. I imagine it’s a vicious cycle that’s hard to break.
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