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What impact do toxic parents have on you as an adult?

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Ok_Track5779 Mar 28, 2026 +2
Toxic parenting only leaves emotional and mental trauma to me
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Rare_Squash9852 Mar 28, 2026 +2
Honestly nothing but trauma and unforgettable pains and anxiety
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Elegant-Life-8293 Mar 28, 2026 +2
Being very distant in any sort of relationship with anyone. Struggling to form bonds.
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between-moments Mar 28, 2026 +2
For me, I grew up with a critical mother and a father who used silent treatment. I never really felt lovable or good enough. I spent almost 40 years chasing career success and educational achievements, thinking they would finally make me feel fulfilled but every time I reached a goal, I still felt empty and lost. It wasn’t until I started therapy that I realized how much of this came from my childhood.
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RareLeadership369 Mar 28, 2026 +2
U grow up insecure & blame urself for everything.
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Electrical_Drama8477 Mar 28, 2026 +2
It worked two ways : if you are unattached , from childhood you learn to do things your own way you become independent early but still have a dilemma inside or good/bad and being irresponsible towards them , if you are attached to them and kind of try to fix them or care for them , in long run you became mentally exhausted , lack confidence ( because toxicity at home will deprived you of trust ) , and eventually you shall took time to learn things own way . In second case , things could be better if you found good friends , understanding relatives or good caring life partner .
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blushme64 Mar 28, 2026 +2
I realized I have become extremely sensitive to criticism because growing up my family would constantly criticize me for the way I talk, the way I look and everything. Even spilling something at a dinner table would turn into this huge huge lecture of how useless I am and never realized how much those little things affected me.
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Appropriate-Lead-154 Mar 28, 2026 +2
toxic parents can really mess with your head as an adult. things like trust issues, low self-esteem, and repeating their patterns in your own relationships are all super common. it's tough to break free from that cycle.
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Ok-Clothes-6979 Mar 28, 2026 +1
Do you mean from childhood, or toxic parents near me as a parent myself.
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between-moments Mar 28, 2026 +1
I mean from childhood
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permadeath04 Mar 28, 2026 +1
As I am conceived by r***, my entire existence is Hell. I am unable to ever experience love or pleasure, as it's impossible to add them later.
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boredbanker97 Mar 28, 2026 +1
Lack of confidence
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Joe103192 Mar 28, 2026 +1
Toxic parenting can create toxic kids which grow up to become toxic parents. I imagine it’s a vicious cycle that’s hard to break.
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BradLB2026 Mar 28, 2026 +1
No confidence, bad social skils, anger issues.
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