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What is a polite thing people do that is actually incredibly annoying?

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[deleted] Mar 30, 2026 +5
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Maplecook Mar 30, 2026 +5
Came here to say this. I purposely avoid this question, instead opting for, "Hi!" because while I DO want to politely wish the other person a salutation, I don't care how they are, so I feel it would be fake to ask.
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dumprings- Mar 30, 2026 +6
When they wave you first in merging traffic when they have the right of way. Don’t be nice, be predictable
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DearQuote688 Mar 30, 2026 +2
Saying “no offense” and then saying something offensive anyway 😅 Also when people ask “how are you?” but clearly don’t care about the answer it’s more habit than actual politeness.
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Fjyrborn_AI Mar 30, 2026 +1
"just checking in"
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Hello_This_Is_ Mar 30, 2026 +1
Being friendly with anyone and everyone
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No-Flatworm750 Mar 30, 2026 +1
Saying “we should totally hang out sometime” with zero intention of ever doing it.
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RyzenRaider Mar 30, 2026 +2
'Annoying' is a strong word, but I've never liked it when people apologize for something they didn't do as an expression of support. "My dog died last night." "Oh, I'm sorry that happened to you." "Why? Did you do it?" I get that they're empathizing with me, but an apology implies responsibility. You can just acknowledge that it's a sad or difficult time to convey support and that'd be just fine.
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Suspicious_Stick_299 Mar 30, 2026 +1
Saying “we should hang out sometime” with no real intention to follow through
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Sweet_Pixel Mar 30, 2026 -1
The saying I tell you for your say good
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[deleted] Mar 30, 2026
"oh, you poor thing. I feel bad for you". Like, no you don't.
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