Losing your identity. You stop being 'You' and just become 'Someone’s Dad
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RuinStock4562Mar 30, 2026
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One thing people don't talk about enough is how much of yourself you quietly give up your time, your routines, even parts of your identity and how long it takes to feel like "you" again. It's worth it, no doubt but it's deeper adjustment than most folks ever admit.
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Good_Display_3972Mar 30, 2026
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Fear for you kid that will probably last til you die
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CagetasticMar 30, 2026
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You have a new purpose in life and it is fantastic.
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LowerPerception55Mar 30, 2026
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Nobody tells you that watching them struggle as adults is somehow harder than the sleepless nights when they were babies.
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DesignerBug2800Mar 30, 2026
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The constant, never ending worry. Mine are young adults now and I worry far more than when they were small. But the love makes it all worthwhile.
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