Work in retail and in the food industry. It'll humble you
34
Clean-Fisherman-4601Mar 27, 2026
+7
Adding customer service in any industry.
7
MiaFishnetMar 28, 2026
+1
Oh absolutely! I always say that
1
manveersin3Mar 27, 2026
+63
the silence of a forest right after it snows, it is the only time the world actually feels quiet.
63
yonk069Mar 27, 2026
+2
I miss that about the snow
2
RebekkaKat1990Mar 28, 2026
+1
I don’t know about a forest but I remember when I was a kid and winter came around how quiet my aunt’s dairy farm would get, and my cousins and I would go play in the snow at night. Peaceful.
Now I just hate when it snows because I hate driving in it lol
1
hippocampus237Mar 28, 2026
+1
Bamboo forest made a big impression on me.
1
Mountain_Alps_7601Mar 28, 2026
+1
it’s wild how snow just absorbs every sound, feels like the world hit pause for a moment
1
KinkybennyMar 27, 2026
+19
True, passionate love.
19
GoldOperation1542Mar 27, 2026
+1
Yes yes yes!!!
1
Fit_General_4516Mar 27, 2026
+13
Watching the sunrise when you didn’t stay up for it — you woke up for it. No noise, no rush, just that quiet moment where the world feels like it hasn’t started asking anything from you yet.
13
GoldOperation1542Mar 27, 2026
+1
Oh yes!!!
1
cora_jhnsnMar 27, 2026
+10
a well-timed arrival at home just to make the best poop ever 🫶
10
GoldOperation1542Mar 27, 2026
+2
Hahaha
2
noavatar1Mar 27, 2026
+2
That’s the shit
2
Long-Tip-5374Mar 27, 2026
+16
Being greeted by a dog wagging it's tail after coming home from work.
16
HuntActive8269Mar 27, 2026
+8
feeling of true love
8
GoldOperation1542Mar 27, 2026
+1
Yes 🩷🩷
1
asayysMar 27, 2026
+7
Travel to another country
7
Overall_Lobster823Mar 27, 2026
+5
With another language, preferably.
5
Environmental_Eye539Mar 27, 2026
+12
Taking MDMA with your S/O
12
CUTESTlittleDEADHEADMar 28, 2026
+2
Every 3 months with my wife! It’s so wonderful to talk so openly and love so passionately. We’ve always had a good marriage, 15 years strong, but adding these intimacy sessions has made our connection even deeper.
2
GoborotatorMar 27, 2026
+5
Smooth sheets and freshly shaved legs.
5
Objective-Worker9250Mar 27, 2026
+4
Losing your religion: Being persuaded to change your views by someone you don't even like.
4
Knowledge_RegretMar 27, 2026
+2
I'll add being in the corner and in the spotlight too.
2
Good_Advice_TMar 27, 2026
+1
Soooooo Scientology by Tom Cruise.
1
ace_philosopher_949Mar 28, 2026
+1
Or more generally: changing your mind. Can involve changing one religion for another, or refining religious beliefs, or going from atheist to theistic, etc
1
Objective-Worker9250Mar 28, 2026
+1
Generally, the expression "changing your mind" does not necessarily include the emotional barriers to being influenced by a dislikable second party, and the hard work that goes with that on a non-rational basis. How willing are you to engage with someone with, for example, boorish behavior, smells bad, parrots you mercilessly, etc?
1
ace_philosopher_949Mar 28, 2026
+1
I’m sort of lost. Dumb it down for me.
1
WingLegal6427Mar 27, 2026
+5
Peace of mind. It’s rare but worth everything.
5
Utopia7_SurvivorMar 27, 2026
+4
Earning your own money. Its the only way to realize that freedom isn't free
4
GoldOperation1542Mar 27, 2026
+1
completely
1
Sneezy6510Mar 27, 2026
+3
A night in jail.
3
Knowledge_RegretMar 27, 2026
+1
I'm curious, why?
1
Sneezy6510Mar 27, 2026
+1
It will make you appreciate your life. We take a lot of things for granted.
1
Knowledge_RegretMar 28, 2026
+1
I agree with you on the second part, personally I feel there are better ways to achieve that mindset.
Volunteering for example, you get the experience and exposure, but keep a clean criminal record.
1
Sneezy6510Mar 28, 2026
+1
Of course I don’t think people should do something that makes them stay a night in jail. But it changed my life. It was only a few weeks ago too.
1
FeedeveMar 27, 2026
+3
Living alone
3
Individual_Rub_9416Mar 27, 2026
+3
To be the villain in the story, even if just once
3
DphippoMar 27, 2026
+3
LSD
3
confuzedmnkylivesMar 27, 2026
+3
Unconditional love, usually from a dog 🐶
3
imaginechi_rebornMar 28, 2026
+3
Having a pet
3
Additional-Till-6326Mar 28, 2026
+1
Yeah
1
CulturalConstant2773Mar 27, 2026
+2
The majesty of a St. Louis winter.
2
Good_Advice_TMar 27, 2026
+2
Sarcasm? Satire? Oxymoron?
2
CuriousObservation11Mar 27, 2026
+2
Love, skydive and death
2
sicksquid75Mar 27, 2026
+2
A punch in the face. Youll be braver for it and mostly its never as bad as you might think
2
Polish_ShamrockMar 28, 2026
+1
I understand what you mean, the build up and expectation is so much worse than the reality, for me personally. But many people have died or suffered life changing injuries aswell so it's not a constant rule.
1
lauraelizabethwrightMar 27, 2026
+2
Being in love
2
Downtown-Quiet2177Mar 27, 2026
+2
The joy of being truly loved by someone
2
zoltan_gMar 27, 2026
+2
The quiet of a full solar eclipse.
2
Good_Advice_TMar 27, 2026
+1
I was lucky to be in the path of totality for one a few years ago and I actually noticed the birds and insects were super confused. It was a trip.
1
Njtotx3Mar 27, 2026
+1
I was around a whole bunch of kids when we got the eclipse here, and they went wild.
1
sassyquatshMar 27, 2026
+2
Psychedelics
2
Extension_Pickle_581Mar 27, 2026
+2
An o*****.
2
NeighborhoodFar6008Mar 27, 2026
+2
Being completely in sync with someone — whether it’s a partner, a friend, or anyone else. That perfect harmony during sex, dancing, or even just a really meaningful conversation.”
2
Visual_Race9415Mar 27, 2026
+2
Eating freshly picked fruit you grew yourself
2
kikoangelMar 27, 2026
+2
Genuine self love
2
XRaysFromUranusMar 27, 2026
+2
International travel.
2
Good_Advice_TMar 27, 2026
+2
Fireworks
2
Objective-Worker9250Mar 27, 2026
+1
Ok, but just once sounds good to me.
1
EmanoteggMar 27, 2026
+2
go to their favorite artist's concert
2
NathanielsanMar 27, 2026
+2
Earning money, preferably literally while you are sleeping, from something that didn't took you a lot effort. I believe this could free you from thinking you're bound to your job.
2
Njtotx3Mar 27, 2026
+2
Being able to speak and understand a language other than your own.
2
dodadolerMar 28, 2026
+2
Mushrooms 🍄
2
Additional-Till-6326Mar 28, 2026
+1
Where can I find them?
1
Cultural_Wash5414Mar 28, 2026
+2
A Dog 🐕
2
Reader2869Mar 28, 2026
+2
A negative bank balance and two weeks until payday.
2
ice1000Mar 28, 2026
+2
Happiness
2
Opposite-Courage8671Mar 28, 2026
+2
Being completely at peace with yourself, even if it’s just for a moment.
2
sej-sageMar 28, 2026
+2
Living alone I guess. Taking care of bills, handling people, figuring out life. Just keep getting out of your comfort zone.
2
Soft-Cellist-9583Mar 28, 2026
+2
Your family members being proud of you
2
escort_questsMar 27, 2026
+3
Getting pegged by a 10/10 hotty
3
Necessary-Act-1137Mar 27, 2026
+3
Sounds like a good time
3
Knowledge_RegretMar 27, 2026
+1
Username checks out
1
DenanehaMar 27, 2026
+2
Marijuana
2
Environmental_Eye539Mar 27, 2026
+3
Shrooms
3
London-BridgedMar 27, 2026
+1
their very own personal witch hunt.
1
Environmental_Eye539Mar 27, 2026
+1
So you hunt after my ex ?
1
Jet_FuelsteinMar 27, 2026
+1
F****** around and finding out..
1
VerborgenesGeheimnisMar 27, 2026
+1
Den Moment, in dem du merkst, dass du dich selbst nicht mehr verlierst – egal, wer neben dir steht oder geht.
1
Fabulous-Penalty1783Mar 27, 2026
+1
🫣 oral sex?
1
TrynabeacoolkidMar 27, 2026
+1
Ayo wrong subredit hahaha
1
Fabulous-Penalty1783Mar 27, 2026
+1
Maybe wrong advice for Listnookors in general…
1
TrynabeacoolkidMar 27, 2026
+1
ouch, just joined and that hurt
1
CalmKangaroo957Mar 27, 2026
+1
Skydiving! 🪂
1
CRO553RMar 27, 2026
+2
Only need a parachute if you intend on doing it more than once
2
TrynabeacoolkidMar 27, 2026
+1
heartbreak that helps you put yourself first and keep going
1
Mr_MasalaMar 27, 2026
+1
Niagara Falls
1
Efficient_Zombie_824Mar 27, 2026
+1
parachute at school
1
Dennis_254Mar 27, 2026
+1
Genuine love
1
wufnuMar 27, 2026
+1
Being swarmed by a litter of puppies.
1
Latter_Course_6919Mar 27, 2026
+1
Having abs
1
turtle_hikerMar 27, 2026
+1
Black Rock City, Nevada
1
AlpharollMar 27, 2026
+1
True love.
1
Turbulent-Water5002Mar 27, 2026
+1
A sport
1
moving0targetMar 27, 2026
+1
Working in service/hospitality. Retail, fast food, hotels. Pick one, spend a year, and go on about your life understanding how to treat people who work in the industry. Oh; if you're terminated, your year restarts.
1
emilyhunglerMar 27, 2026
+1
Tantric sex lol
1
SprachprofiMar 27, 2026
+1
Having a conversation in a language other than your mother tongue
1
Prestigious_Beat6310Mar 27, 2026
+1
DMT
1
RianJohnsonIsAFoolMar 27, 2026
+1
A counterintuitive one, considering most of the examples already given are largely positive: having a really shitty boss.
I had the worst boss in my mid-20s and it made me resilient, able to remain calm and focused under pressure, and confident to call out intolerable behaviour or unreasonable demands – at work and outside.
1
Nicki_Leon_Mar 27, 2026
+1
falling in love at least once
1
Knowledge_RegretMar 27, 2026
+1
Being naked in nature
1
Korova_Milkbar_3829Mar 28, 2026
+1
Poverty
1
Koie_ReiMar 28, 2026
+1
French laundry 💗
1
donkedickinyaMar 28, 2026
+1
Copying and posting this exact same question as you have done
1
Xallia_YevatellMar 28, 2026
+1
Pegging.
1
ZX471Mar 28, 2026
+1
Death.
1
ZoeNibbleMar 28, 2026
+1
Sitting in a quiet library with a good book, no phone, no notifications. Just you and the story. I did this last week and forgot how peaceful it is.
1
jaajaajaa6Mar 28, 2026
+1
Shooting the dice at a craps table and holding the dice for almost an hour.
Craps players know how cool that is.
My son was with me, and we paid for his next semester of college that night. The roll was so good that total strangers were making $100 bets for me.
It was 6 years ago, and he will still look at me and throw a line that was used that night. No one else understands it, but I do.
1
sb_007Mar 28, 2026
+1
A deep, unhurried conversation that lasts for hours
The kind where time disappears and connection takes over.
1
reditballoonMar 28, 2026
+1
Watching Two Girls One Cup
1
bbynmMar 28, 2026
+1
Winning the l******.
1
ph-chMar 28, 2026
+1
true love
1
Additional-Till-6326Mar 28, 2026
+1
And what would that be like?
1
handsome_gladeMar 28, 2026
+1
Getting married, it’s difficult, but very rewarding at the same time!
1
Additional-Till-6326Mar 28, 2026
+1
Is it really though? I find this hard to believe
1
Low-Instruction-8132Mar 28, 2026
+1
Total and complete independence!
1
NOLAoinkerMar 28, 2026
+1
Being a parent
1
Bumper_Jumper98Mar 28, 2026
+1
Their favorite band in concert.
I have seen mine 3 times and I still could cry thinking about how amazing it was.
1
Neat-Entrepreneur-48Mar 28, 2026
+1
Sucking d***
1
highvoltagelpMar 28, 2026
+1
Winning
1
LeatherAnybody4550Mar 28, 2026
+1
Sleeping under a real night sky far from any city lights — actualy seeing the Milky Way for the first time rewires somthing in your brain.
1
Fancy-While-8793Mar 28, 2026
+1
Losing a friend. It hurts but fosters growth
1
Dismal_Manager_2444Mar 28, 2026
+1
doing hard drugs in europe
1
UnitedbruseMar 28, 2026
+1
Getting cheated by someone special hurts more than anything…
1
Additional-Till-6326Mar 28, 2026
+1
Finding true happiness by yourself not expecting it from someone else
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