Less evil. You heard of one tragic death and it would stick with you till your own end of life. People didnt care as much about labels. People had stronger values. Now I feel like people dont have values to begin with. People were loving. Women wore horrible makeup, men dressed like dads. But they were happy and content. Technology was exciting. No new version of the same tech every other month. You had 10-30 numbers memorized, easy. Once you left home, you're off the grid. Cellphones were there but they were extremely rare, same things for desktop computers. Laptops weren't a thing yet. If you knew how to work a floppy disk, you were considered a tech wiz.
You'd watch tv significantly more, but often with family. Very few channels. You used a tape recorder and an old cassette to make voicenotes.
Food was purer, as was the air. Pace of life was slower. You were more connected to each other, even though and mainly because, you had no social media. You'd call your friends after school and that was as far as social media went. But your friend's phone number, again, that you knew by heart. Most moms were stay-at-homes moms. Dad were very absent.
People took themselves too seriously. But perhaps that was a good thing as it stops you from acting like an idiot in public and private. Little kids had their heads full of cute hairclips.
It does depends on what age you were in the 90s. But these are some of the common experiences.
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8bit-wizardApr 3, 2026
+1
Man you really nailed it. This comment should be higher.
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Ran4Apr 3, 2026
+1
Food was bad in the 90s, the trend of food not being bland came in the 00s.
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ThePromptCollectiveApr 3, 2026
+11
No phones or computers in the 90's.
1. Freedom
2. Carefree and being in the moment
3. Making memories without taking photographs
4. Connection and community
I was a teenager and in my early 20s in the 90's. I often think about the outrageous times I had with my friends. Great times and so many memories :-)
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flergitybergApr 3, 2026
+3
Computers weren’t at all uncommon in the 90s, and the internet grew rapidly in the late 90s when AOL expanded. My parents got their first cellphones (clunky car phones with roof antennas) around 1996. They were far less ubiquitous though and couldn’t do more than take and receive calls.
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ThePromptCollectiveApr 3, 2026
+3
For me, everything was pen and paper during high school and most of universtity. I only really started using computers in 2000 when I started working in an office.
I remember those phones! We called them 'Brick Phones'. They were heavy and the size of a small house brick (I am from Australia).
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Significant-Cloud-Apr 3, 2026
+1
I had my first computer in '90, a C64 and my first PC in '94. Sent my first email in '96 (bit late). Windows 95 was *the* thing.
So what are you on about?
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DolldolittleApr 3, 2026
+10
Better than now. Lots of raves and we didnt deal with shit like we do today
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SleeplessShenanigansApr 3, 2026
+5
More free. Seemed like less evil but probably just didnt hear about as much without social media.
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dj_sooApr 3, 2026
+1
It was pretty evil. We just weren’t bombarded by it and at least the evildoers had more of a sense of decorum.
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sllh81Apr 3, 2026
+9
Glorious. The curse of being alive and happy back then is being reminded daily of how far we’ve fallen since the new millennium began.
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someonepackerApr 3, 2026
+1
Well said. As a 2002 kid I can imagine this being the case because the music, cartoons and shows were on another level.
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FriscogonewildApr 3, 2026
+1
Today's cartoons are largely better than 90s cartoons. I mean, I loved them, but they existed--with a few exceptions--to sell toys.
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SkankzApr 3, 2026
+5
It was simpler and more peaceful. Not as much noise and screens. You’d go out without anything in your pockets like a phone or money and you’d just..play. On the flip side, boredom was more frequent. If you’d get a horrible storm or something and the friends who live really close are unavailable, you quickly run out of options in the house. Your options would probably be a few tv channels, if you’re lucky, you might have a games console or whatever toys you had lying around
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steveguy13Apr 3, 2026
+1
Better than now that’s for fuckin sure
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Impossible-Reach3744Apr 3, 2026
+8
Good for me, but aware that wasn't the case for everyone.
Wouldn't have liked to have grown up in Eastern Europe back then.
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WillowOk2881Apr 3, 2026
+1
Born in '96 so I barely remember any of it but my older cousins always talk about how wild the music scene was back then. Eastern Europe was definitely going through some heavy stuff during that time period, lot of my coin collecting actually comes from that era since so many countries were changing currencies
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tirqzxkpApr 3, 2026
+4
happy
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takemy_oxfordcommaApr 3, 2026
+2
I was a kid (born in 1990) and they were pretty great
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flergitybergApr 3, 2026
+2
I was born in ‘84. To a lot of Americans it seemed like things could could only get better. The Cold War was over, we’d won, the government had a budget surplus, gas was dirt c****, crime was plummeting year over year, and technology just seemed to be getting better and better. Clinton was an extremely popular president (until his second term when the Lewinsky scandal broke, anyway—seems quaint now to remember how much that got people riled up). There were articles in Time magazine speculating about how things were only going to improve.
Then 9/11 happened, and…yeah.
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ProduceNo8883Apr 3, 2026
+2
Everything had weight to it because you were only connected to what you were doing, every dopamine hit came from your immediate surroundings
I was a 90’s kid in San Diego born September 1989
I remember being at Presidio Park, my parents first house was across the street on the hill above the gelato place across the street from Lucha Libre, I remember going to the Navy Exchange with my grandparents, going to the Kobey swap meet by the sports arena, Balboa Park school trips especially the Jurassic Park Lost World exhibit
Nintendo Power magazine subscriptions was basically my social media
Hanging out at my friends place in Point Loma
Trips to the comic store with my dad to get Ren & Stimpy comics
The closest thing to a smartphone was the 10-20 channels we got and grandma always watched America’s Most Wanted with me while babysitting
Grandpa recorded all the news and Seinfeld and had a wall of VHS I wish I had
The computer was for Sierra games like golf and pinball and couldn’t fathom the internet for another 5 years
It really really shaped you and bonded you closer to your immediate family or support and you took that and basically migrated to others with rich dense differences because everyone wasn’t getting the same feeds and reels so you had these gjant clashes of personalities and drama that felt grand for better or worse
Waiting for your parents to come home and their jackets reeked of cigarettes
Seeing things in print before they happened
Those ride homes with just your thoughts and your brain indulging in your surroundings and being content
Granted my mother always insured I was good regardless of our shortcomings and obstacles
Somehow she mothered me very lower middle class to protect me enough to make me never worry and always feel like we had it all
I could go on and on about this but I really am glad I had that innocence and wish my dad was still alive for what was to come after it
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dj_sooApr 3, 2026
+1
High school and college for me so it was f****** awesome. Lots of formative years for me. Partied my ass off, met lots of cool people.x saw so many great shows.
Oh yea, there was school too…
Everyone also didn’t have a camera on them at all times and if they did, it certainly couldn’t be uploaded immediately.
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90hexApr 3, 2026
+1
Blissful absence of YouTube, social media and the cacophony of influencers broadcasting their misinformed opinions to the world. I miss the calm and quiet.
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BearbaggsApr 3, 2026
+1
Hoping my parents would eat quicker so I could get home and catch my fav tv show at 12.30pm
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Flat-Banana3903Apr 3, 2026
+1
Honestly awesome, but it perhaps didn't seem like it at the time,
The music was better, but I am sure every generations says the say.
I would say the main benefit of growing up in the 90's that we were able to purchase homes in the 2000's when they were cheaper than now
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Original-Spray9673Apr 3, 2026
+1
Born 79. For me the 90s were my teenage years up to 20. In England the rave scene was well established by the time I was 15 but I went through the pop, hip hop, grunge, rave, Brit pop and feminism pop lol. Somehow ended up with a David grey cd so who knows. There was a freedom and positivity brought in by new labour, we didn’t have a lot of money but you didn’t need alot of money to have a good time. Body positivity was poor, makeup was shit, straighteners hasn’t been invented. I couldn’t find information or products easily - I liked painting and had a mountain of books. I read loads. Magazines were popular. Fashion went from Illuminous to grungey to baggy to slutty lol. My fellow women now are pretty natural in their makeup and stuff - even if they have hair extensions or fillers or whatever it’s always pretty subtle. Sexual harassment was still allowed and women didn’t have a backlash until maybe spice girls came on the scene, racism and homophobia didn’t get a change until much later. I couldn’t have a pint until maybe 1996. 90s was a turning point in Britain for social and economics. I did loads of drugs and drink and could walk into a job so easily. I was able to pay for a flat rent at 16 as I did factory work contracts. We were wee little adults. Very free. Very streetwise but ignorant and naive in other ways. Very insular.
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pro-rock-tasterApr 3, 2026
+1
Not bad. Smelled like cat pee, though. Gas was 50 cents a liter, which was good because every other vehicle had a V8. The smog was pretty crazy, even in towns
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FlyAirLariApr 3, 2026
+1
Shitty music, good hockey (early '90s), shitty hockey (late '90s), we got Nokia phones, car navigation systems and Russia was free, so geopolitics were calmer. Unless you lived in Yugoslavia.
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MoorhenlessroosterApr 3, 2026
+1
Meh, in the 90s people were saying these things about the 70s.
Fewer screens hacking/rotting your brains but don't forget the s*** shaming, homophobia, mental health stigma, unchecked paedophilia, lack of opportunities for women and ethnic minorities and other marginalised groups.
Even with screens, people used to watch exorbitant amounts of TV.
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Rachel794Apr 3, 2026
+1
I wish I knew. 90’s baby, millennium kid here. A lot of the 2000’s were great to grow up in but I hate that I missed the last great decade.
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8bit-wizardApr 3, 2026
+1
Maybe, but maybe it's best that you did. I was born in 91 and as a millennial, I feel kind of cheated. We got to have our childhoods during an incredibly rare period of relative peace, only to watch it come crashing down before our eyes on live tv in 2001. Spending your childhood in that world, only to have it taken from you, I'd almost rather not know what I'm missing, because the world is definitely worse off than it was.
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InThePast8080Apr 3, 2026
Early 90s.. huge unemployment. Aftermath of the 80s where people lived on credit. Huge recession in the world economy (biggest post ww2 then)
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FriscogonewildApr 3, 2026
-1
About the same. More spandex, fewer computers.
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DoritoSteroidApr 3, 2026
-2
They sucked. Truly. The surrounding decades were much better.
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HODLbot_notApr 3, 2026
-4
dark ages 👻
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fj2612Apr 3, 2026
-2
Way worse if you were gay.
Way better if you were trans. The rage against trans people only started after gay marriage was legalised in most countries, and conservatives needed new targets because they realised average people didn't care.
The culture was way more homegenized. People watched the same shows at the same time, listened to the same music. The Internet allowed a sectorisation in tastes that was not possible at the time. That also meant a crushing pressure to conform if you were out of the mainstream.
Economically more stable. Didn't mean there weren't any poverty.
Things were of better quality. There is no "mid tier" now. Everything is either c***, or good quality and very expensive.
There was way less demands in your time. You were not expected to be reachable at all time, and it was glorious.
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