What’s a life lesson you had to learn the hard way twice?

Check if there's toilet paper BEFORE you sit down

Quit fantasizing and romanticizing what the relationship "could" be, and face reality.

Not to trust

Nothing is what it seems

If they don’t like themselves, they won’t like that you like them.

Trusting your gut feeling

never ignore your gut feeling, i ignored it once, paid for it, ignored it again… paid double

Read the instructions.

Financial planning. Filed for bankruptcy twice

Wear. Your. Retainers.

Men can be shit

Forgive a man for cheating on you once, and he takes that as permission to keep right on doing it.

trust your gut, man. ignoring that inner voice just leads to more headaches down the line.

I’m not a man. I claim feminist. We have got to stop trash talking men. I have been through the wringer with them also, but my god the constant chastising of men or women as a whole group is severely toxic. I know I know “not all men”, then f****** say that and stop making people feel like shit for being a certain gender.