What’s a life lesson you learned the hard way?

hard work doesn't always guarantee the outcome you expect

Love all trust none, even your family, including your parents. My parents kicked me and my pregnant wife out two years ago for ego that was fed into their mind by the rest of the family. 8 months later they came back crying and apologizing. While they have changed and realized their mistakes. I’ve forgiven but not forgotten. I still don’t trust them so hence I have my own life and money separate from them. I don’t share my successes with them, I just pay a small portion of rent and bills that’s it. That 8 months away made me into the strongest and most successful man ever. I’m a director of a company now but only my wife knows. She’s my pillar, my strength and reason for my success. My parents stopped me from taking every career risk possible because they didn’t do it so I followed suite lol. But since marriage I’ve take every risk and have been super successful. Regardless I’m a proud dad now and couldn’t be any happier. Point is love all, trust none or a few. You’ll have some hard lessons in life they are meant to teach you something very important. No one really wants the best for you besides you and max your wife.

nobody cares just love your self

Take action fast as possible. Even if its wrong then take lesson from that and move on quickly. Don't be afraid to take decision.