Having someone actually get excited about my weird hobbies instead of just tolerating them. Like imagine finding someone who wants to dig through record stores with me hunting for rare tapes, or doesn't think it's weird that I have a whole shelf dedicated to hair products. That level of genuine interest and enthusiasm would be incredible.
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Safety_DranceMar 28, 2026
+5
What rare tapes are you hunting for?
5
HeyMotherduckerMar 28, 2026
+1
Yes, this!
1
kindanewherebutMar 28, 2026
+1
Hunting for rare tapes sound like so much fun
1
PoignantpuppetMar 28, 2026
+25
Them being there in sickness and health.
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NoSalamander4972Mar 28, 2026
+1
As someone who was left 2 days after tumor removal surgery, I couldn’t agree with this more
1
EducationalLight3848Mar 28, 2026
+20
Having a weekend getaway to a cozy romantic place with my partner
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fungollumMar 28, 2026
+16
Wedding with the woman who is my soulmate
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BidenBlueBallsMar 28, 2026
+17
Having someone who you feel like you can genuinely be yourself with
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ilshifaMar 28, 2026
+6
This! I think it's so hard to find someone like that now. Having that type of connection is really rare and I hope to find it someday.
6
Level-Surprise2427Mar 28, 2026
+28
honestly? someone playing with my hair while we half-watch a dumb movie on the couch. elite level romance to me.
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CaptainKirk1701Mar 28, 2026
+13
I used to be a pilot I always wanted to take someone on a date to pdk airport near atl. Go for a flight on the biplanes there get brunch at the 57th and then go dancing.
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AppointmentNervous55Mar 28, 2026
+26
**The "Library Silence":** Being in a room with someone for hours, both reading different books or working on different projects, but occasionally reaching out to touch a hand or share a specific line you just read. It’s the romance of existing in parallel.
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harryceoMar 28, 2026
+11
Someone who is just excited to hang out with me
11
jkswaifuMar 28, 2026
+11
Having someone actually like me for me and not because of my ass
11
The_Poor_TruthMar 28, 2026
+9
My partner to arrange Rose petals on the floor bed and in tub full of bubbles....
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BillPsychological515Mar 28, 2026
+7
More than 3 days in a row of sleeping and waking together.
7
TheFutureIsAFriendMar 28, 2026
+7
Living happily ever after.
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JBNY2025Mar 28, 2026
+7
It’s sad but… I’ve never had a partner spontaneously tell me I’m handsome. I frequently compliment my partners in that way, just for no reason other than I feel that way in the moment. Certainly there’s been plenty of times I’ve felt wanted sexually, but I really want someone to just tell me I’m handsome, just once. :(
7
NSAundercoverMar 28, 2026
+4
I wanted a family to support me when I'm sick or unwell.
Somebody or something to depend on for anything.
4
KittybabymaMar 28, 2026
+7
Being held bridal style into our home as newly weds 😔
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KittybabymaMar 28, 2026
+1
Also a grand proposal.
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SeenFireAndRainMar 28, 2026
+6
It's going to sound corny, but a romantic picnic lunch at a park or a beach. It would be a surprise, and my love interest would totally plan it out, pack everything; the food, sparkling water & wine, etc. Even down to bringing along a cozy sweater for me, just in case it got chilly out.
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DavosLostFingersMar 28, 2026
+4
Margot Robbie and Mila Kunis knocking at my door carrying a large amount of cocaine, spiced rum, red wine, giving me a cheeky wink and wearing nothing but a suggestive smile
Or you know a partner treating me to a pizza or whatever
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PoignantpuppetMar 28, 2026
+2
At least you’d die happy with your primary response!
2
sej-sageMar 28, 2026
+5
Someone who has my back. I have been in relationships where they did everything for me but when situations were tough they were just not there. I always felt alone. I want someone who will be there no matter what.
5
randomrants1234Mar 28, 2026
+3
Small gifts because I reminded them of it. Like a flower or my favorite coffee.
3
AvocadoNo34Mar 28, 2026
+4
Hand holding
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East-Effective-746Mar 28, 2026
+3
Giving a little bit attention, not much but a little....
3
whereweswimMar 28, 2026
+3
Literally a gift. Haven't gotten one in a decade.
3
Judgmental-DogfaceMar 28, 2026
+3
Flowers 💐
3
Purrfection2002Mar 28, 2026
+3
To be surprised with a set up hotel or place or home with decorations for my birthday, a surprise party
3
Accurate_Zebra9778Mar 28, 2026
+3
Recevoir un énorme bouquet de roses livré à mon domicile 😅
3
IhateYouDontFollowMeMar 28, 2026
+3
I want a man who loves my cat and we also have a large dog we get as a puppy. We hold hands a lot and I can fall into his body on the sofa when we are watching a movie when I want to be snuggly. He keeps my feet and legs warm while we sleep and somehow he always brushes his teeth before I wake up for morning sex.
3
Dinah8420Mar 28, 2026
+3
Cnc
3
No_Mycologist_5783Mar 28, 2026
+3
Having a partner take care of me, unprompted. Like, do my laundry for me while I was at work or make dinner AND do the dishes. It’s nice to be taken care of without asking for help, it makes me feel noticed and important.
3
quiet_lemon009Mar 28, 2026
+2
Flowers and soul melting hugs.
2
sdss9462Mar 28, 2026
+1
A small part of me would've liked to see any one of my partners in a wedding dress. But I don't think I've ever really wanted to be married or even have an actual wedding.
I suppose I could have suggested a roleplay, but that seems like a door you can't open halfway.
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rigboneyeyahMar 28, 2026
+1
I felt like briefly I experienced everything I wanted to, it’s so many things I wanna feel again. But I never had one of my exes get me a proper gift. Be nice to get a thoughtful gift for an anniversary or bday or sumn as I’ve been so giving in the past.
1
for_shotaMar 28, 2026
+1
being taken care of when im sick
1
maddy_l_13Mar 28, 2026
+1
Be completely surprised by a date. Told how nice to dress up and what time I’m being picked up and the rest is a mystery. It’s hard cause I’m a very picky eater and a control freak so really it’s my own fault
1
SemimelatoninMar 28, 2026
+1
Someone taking genuine interest in me & going out of their way to court me
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