What's something women think men care about, but actually don't?

I was doing to mention eyelashes as well. The amount of time my wife spends doing things to her eyelashes, and then talking about what she did to her eyelashes. I'm vaguely aware that she does indeed have eyelashes. They're probably still there.

Tbf, I don’t think a lot of women do it for men. I will say that as a queer woman, I do find them off-putting. 😬

I definitely notice them if they're excessively long. It is a horrible sight. How do they say to day activities? Open doors? Clean dishes? Wipe their backside? Shudder

Nah, when my wife’s done her nails I take notice. It looks nice and she evidently cares about them.

I notice bright colours or shiny things. I don't necessarily like them but I DO notice.

Yup - I found out my BIL apparently “makes” his wife get her nails done and was shocked he cared about that.

Agree !!!!!

Nah bro I wild go further I hate it when chicks have those long fake nails 🤮🤮

Lol well said

i think in general women often dress to impress other women… maybe indirectly to get male attention (by looking ‘better’ than other women).. it’s a weird thought tbh. I never dress to impress women but i do dress to match women if that makes sense. depending on how they dress for a certain occasion i really like to dress in a similar way. but that’s more of an urge to blend in rather than to impress lmao

I love putting on makeup and doing my hair and as a woman I’m telling you, it’s 100% for myself. I love when I look better than I do most days especially because I’m not confident about my appearance, so when I put makeup I keep looking at my self in the mirror and it makes me happy. You might not get it but most women don’t judge each other by appearance, even if they do they never say it to each other. I’ve never seen a woman whom I thought was unattractive (maybe except for myself) women don’t expect other women to look good. We just like to look nice for ourselves.

Both genders do this. They get nails done, and expensive shoes, and a purse that has to match their shoes. We buy cars, watches, or cool T-shirts. None of this impresses the opposite gender. However, it gets you the respect of your own gender, which gives you social status, which in turn *does* impress the opposite gender.

Yeah with huge nails I just assume they struggle to wipe and have a smell to them if you went down on them.

I read an article a while back that opened my eyes to the whole makeup thing. It was one of those articles that shows p*** stars with and without their makeup. I came to the conclusion that a lot of appeal is the makeup. A lot of the ladies were cute or pretty without makeup but add the makeup and oh my god so hotttt. So I’d think there is a common routine or minimum of makeup that will almost certainly affect attraction levels. Long nails I feel are more for other women. As are a lot of clothes. Most guys I know would be just as happy with a girl in sweats and a hoodie as some complicated designer outfit we couldn’t afford, construct, or pronounce.

I dunno I have a fairly big group of friends and anytime we go out the lads always pick our the girl with the most make up, Botox etc whereas the girls always think the minimal make up girl is the prettiest

I've seen family and friends with truly verifiably no makeup on and not just seemingly makeupless, a little bit definitely helps but what most women use is usually fairly excessive.

I’m curious how that study got its data. Many men tend to lump women into one of two categories. “Pump and dump” material and marriage material. I imagine a lot more men prefer makeup for “Pump and dump” than for marriage material. While most women would prefer to be seen as the latter. But I doubt the study separated between these two categories. I’m also very curious to see what the makeup men found attractive in the study looked like. My guess is it was minimalist makeup applied with extreme skill. Not the average makeup the average woman is applying each morning. If I was a woman looking to attract a man I’d save myself time and money and skip the makeup. It’s not going to give a substantial edge even with perfect execution and moderate execution hurts you more than it helps. Similar time and money invested in growing and caring for long, healthy, natural hair would have a far greater impact I’m guessing. But as most women point out, they’re not actually doing it for men.

Would you love me if I were a man 

Yeah. I can't believe they waste all their money on these tacky bullsht. I even hate long nails since they trap a lot of dirt, germs and whatnots

For the record, heels are not about the shoes, themselves, but shaping the rest of the body. They force your butt to be slightly flexed (and thus more rounded) and also increase your height, which makes it easier tk have a conversation with taller folks (usually men).

I wear high heels at work because of the sound they make. They’re announcing my presence and I feel like a powerful, badass b****. It’s a confidence boost. And they make me taller.

well, heels(uncomfortable and painful) are worn as they make the legs look longer, activate the calf muscles(which makes it look toned), pushes the chest forward and hips back for an upright stance(and yk what obvio). Basically it enhances perceived attractiveness and sophistication which appeals more to the audience. These attributes play a greater role than feeling uncomfortable/painful.

Couldn't disagree with you more friend

Glasses, sweatpants, ponytail is infinitely hotter to me than makeup and heels.

But by the phrasing of the question it's something that women cannot answer. And men cannot answer either because they don't know what women think is attractive to men (no woman will ever admit to doing something to be attractive to men).

a lot of these answers make me think “we don’t do that for men”

that was not the question

Many men care about excessive makep. As in “Who’s this w**** and where did my woman disappear?”

Everybody can get them. F***, I’m a guy and I’ve got them from growing as a teenager. They’re nothing bad.

No its not. Read the question. We dont care. No matter who its done for

I like a tight body with shape if that makes sense.  Sticks not so much.  

Can’t speak for all guys, but as long as it’s not complete mayhem down there, you do you

It's not gonna stop me but I really do prefer not to be picking your pubes out from the back of my throat. If you expect your partner to go down on you it's polite to at least trim it up. I wouldn't expect a woman to shove my balls in her mouth without shaving them.

Many of us prefer it fuzzy.

This is largely personal preference for men. I like smooth, thick bush, and everything in between. Variety is the spice of life.

Yep, waxing your cat is a big fat no go.. 😿

Wtf

As a guy, I hate seeing long nails, since that traps all the dirt and germs from everywhere. Disgusting. I cut mine every time

Where? When? Who? Show me one that doesnt act like a emotional baby for once, pleeeaaase id take her instantly

You can’t spell.

What men consider curvy is a specific body type. It’s wide hips, big b**** & a big butt, but it’s also a fairly flat stomach & thin arms.

There’s a story behind this comment for sure

No? They just dont care about it, no matter who its for.

Seek therapy.