Eye contact—or lack of it—tells you everything about their confidence game.
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s-e-x_h-i-p-sMar 28, 2026
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Their footwear
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No-Following-4394Mar 28, 2026
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This one always surprised me. I have literally never thought about someone's footwear in my life. But my now Ex said the first thing she saw when we had our first date was I had nice shoes.
Always fascinating to me! Ive paid more attention to it as of late, but its never something that stands out to me on others!
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s-e-x_h-i-p-sMar 28, 2026
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My eyes start on the ground and go up, I hate eye contact so it's easiest for me.
I will notice a nice pair of shoes a lot quicker than eyes or anything else physical. If your shoes catch my eye in a good way , you are doing something right.
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Elegant-Life-8293Mar 28, 2026
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If they are confident or more timid, usually through eye contact.
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Standard-Strength401Mar 28, 2026
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Within the first minute, you usually notice their energy more than their words.. how they carry themselves, their tone, eye contact, and whether they feel open or guarded. It’s not about judging them, just picking up the vibe they bring.
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HotRedChiliChiliMar 28, 2026
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body language says a lot about someone, in my experience
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mailman380Mar 28, 2026
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Their teeth. I can’t stand if a person has gross ass teeth. You have a job and insurance, start taking care of them things.
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MzMissfettegeist_18Mar 28, 2026
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Their vibes.
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OdetteLeOtterMar 28, 2026
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Clothes and expecially shoes.
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BigDumbandSexyMar 28, 2026
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If they feel genuine. Some people try too hard.
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Sad-Statistician4664Mar 28, 2026
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That I forgot their name already
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Original-Basis-1297Mar 28, 2026
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Their degree of kindness.
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karldandleton1Mar 28, 2026
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Their greasy a***.
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CleverlyVoidMar 28, 2026
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Eyes, voice, how tall they are…..
shoot, I’ve already forgotten their name…..
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Nice-Dig-5604Mar 28, 2026
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most people definitely give off a unique vibe right away, whether it's their confidence, nervousness, or how they engage you. it’s wild how much info you can pick up in such a short time.
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