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What's the line that divides being attracted to mundane things about your partner and oversexualizing them?

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the_purple_goat Apr 1, 2026 +1
If the only things you find attractive about your partner are sexual.
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Kaslight Apr 1, 2026 +1
There isn't one. That line has to be drawn by your partner. Asking anyone else is pointless, how would we know how much your partner wants you to goon over them????
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mindgardening Apr 1, 2026 +1
Being attracted doesn’t have to mean being sexually attracted. You can like something without wanting to f*** it. It’s not rocket science.
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Silent_Rose98 Apr 1, 2026 +1
it’s when admiration turns into fantasy, noticing their quirks is sweet, constantly sexualizing every tiny habit is a different energy
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hoopalah Apr 1, 2026 +1
Can you please rephrase the question.
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Chrono_Convoy Apr 1, 2026 +1
I think if you’re worried about oversexualizing them watch an episode of Golden Girls and concentrate on how Bea Arthur could snap your neck. That’ll make your boner sad
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Dependent-Laugh-3792 Apr 1, 2026 +1
Don’t kink shame me 😏
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Sudden-Cable-586 Apr 1, 2026 +1
that’s a deep question. i guess it's about appreciating the little things without turning them into just objects of desire, you know? find the balance between love for who they are and the physical attraction.
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