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Why did you give up on your dream?

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Ok_JARGON Apr 3, 2026 +5
Priorities… my family’s security outweighed my dream
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WhiffOfHollyHocks Apr 3, 2026 +3
Tried it. Found it draining and doing more harm than good. Wasn’t a dream anymore. Perfectly fine with that. New dreams will emerge 👍
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thegoldenshot Apr 3, 2026 +3
good decision
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Ok-Cress-8829 Apr 3, 2026 +3
Financial problems
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According_Muffin6079 Apr 3, 2026 +3
man i feel this one hard, had to put music on the back burner when rent started eating up everything. still play guitar but the whole "making it" thing had to take a seat when real life bills showed up
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Stepan_Lysenko Apr 3, 2026 +3
Life happened. Got too old to pursue it, pretty much. Also, the world changed. I wanted to be a writer, but now AI is producing books at 1000x a second, and they're all over Amazon, etc. Writing is never going to be as profitable/respected as it was in the past. Beside, people don't read quite as much anymore.
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sam_2_435 Apr 3, 2026 +3
Dreams I can follow later but family happiness comes first
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crepesarentpancakes Apr 3, 2026 +3
I've never really had a dream, just been going with the flow. A simple peaceful life with lots of love is a dream in itself!
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Aslaaaaaaan Apr 3, 2026 +3
I didn't manage to get the scholarship for the university I wanted; it was a freaking excellent scholarship, but I just couldn't afford it on my own, so, well, goodbye, medical career.
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prajnadhyana Apr 3, 2026 +2
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7zZuBQs0bE
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PvtDazzle Apr 3, 2026 +2
Money. Everything costs money, and dreams don't buy money unless you're born with money. I'm not born with money. I would have liked to work with my hands, but my parents made me clear I needed an education. So I got educated. But I secretly would enjoy wood working so much more than my current job. And not just working the wood, but also growing it. Harvesting it, and much more stuff like that. There's a very small market and not enough money to be made that way. So I keep grinding. I could have gone into carpentry, and I should, but I was a youngling and trusted my parents. They weren't wrong, but they weren't completely right.
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LarissaRiina Apr 3, 2026 +2
Too sick and poor for it. And my body doesn't allow me to do those things anymore.
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Sad_Board8612 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Priorities and financial problem 
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2ndMin Apr 3, 2026 +2
I haven't :)
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Significant_Sun_5225 Apr 3, 2026 +2
My health failed me
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Financial-Gift-7839 Apr 3, 2026 +2
The most important thing is money. Once I've saved enough, I want to pursue my dreams again.
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lovescoffee Apr 3, 2026 +2
Lack of money and career burnout
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ProfessionFew5788 Apr 3, 2026 +2
I got married.
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Mistah_Freez Apr 3, 2026 +2
My wife
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zeldasusername Apr 3, 2026 +2
Because it turned out lots of other people had the same dream and it was very unlikely id get anywhere 
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sp_kandsp_n Apr 3, 2026 +2
didnt seem possible
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Lord-Kelvin1969 Apr 3, 2026 +2
practicality vs dream, you know who won
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ReferenceDesigner141 Apr 3, 2026 +2
I did everything I could, but it just wasn't enough.
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Life-Resolution-2879 Apr 3, 2026 +3
Wanted to be an actor. Did 3 commercials as an 17yo and evening acting courses for film and tv , when I was deciding on what to do for university I had a tough choice. I decided to get a commerce degree. I now make decent money but i always wonder.
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BlackBasementCats Apr 3, 2026 +2
I almost had my pilot's license then was diagnosed with heart problems that grounded me. I wanted a career in aviation. I had a stroke a few years later so I made the right choice, but it was still devastating. I love flying so much.
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Full_Cup_Queen Apr 3, 2026 +2
The dream gave up on me *cry*
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Sweetragnarok Apr 3, 2026 +2
Horrible in math, bad with blood and anatomy, has dyslexia. There goes my dream of working with NASA, being a magazine editor and or being a doctor. Fate has had it- I avoided all math related subjects in college and took a degree specifically with the least amount of math. I ended up being a features writer for a magazine - still do not know how I landed that with my grammar skills, and worked for 10+ years doing minor accounting. I also failed chemistry badly in HS and college- ended up with a job dealing with caustic chemicals. During the pandemic, I took up a job with a medical college and had to learn cardiology helping professors build exams and check test papers.
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Effective-Guard-9593 Apr 3, 2026 +2
Financial Problems in most cases
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purplepugg Apr 3, 2026 +1
Depression
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_FrostedCherry Apr 3, 2026 +1
I haven't given up yet, but I'm close
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Gloomy_Helicopter608 Apr 3, 2026 +1
Racing driver im now a Sim driver
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